honeric01:


You're learning so fast..

freecocoa:
Lol , that's what it's supposed to be na.

Elesta:


Very very very well said . U get brain

honeric01:


Good one for you there, btw, you turned down my request in style abi? not the way you're seeing it o..

Ezedon:
Both of you are not yet married and u expect her to be your drycleaner, is it proper? What if i turn ur sis that way will u be happy with me?

freecocoa:
Lol, which request are you talking about?

holatin:
Don't wash it jare.

A fool will help him wash it and he will finally marry the fool.

You are not an house girl.



No wonder some more of you are still single at 36

Ogoanita:
why not i can wash but this a very different situation

honeric01:


Sent you a pm some weeks/months ago.

emiraty:


You are not yet married and he is stressing you this way?

Please what is the level of commitment? Has he shown seriousness? Or attempted to meet your parents or even siblings? Yes it very serious

Can we know the sacrifices he has made for you? How well does he regard you or take care of you? Please answer these questions .atleast to a large extent it will assist many nairalanders in reaching a conclusion

Let's please get to have a clearer pix of your relationship and then know some facts about the bobo

Omotolu:
....if you love him,wash the guy's cloth.if you don't love him,don't bother.in the so near future don't complain you're still single@70 years...

rigarmortis:
WASH, CLEAN, COOK, SUCK AND FUKC, THATS WHAT A GOOD GIRL DOES.

YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD GIRL DONT YOU.

Ogoanita:
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Hemanwel:
OP,you are one of those who are greatly influenced by what people think and not by what your heart takes.
Come on!That you're in a relationship is suggestive that you're mature for it.You should be able to take this personal decision on your own!
You are not comfortable with doing your boyfriend's laundry means you do not think it's proper.So why asking us?

I like girls who can take decisions on their own and stand on it,even if the whole world kicks against it.

trublvr:
OP, do as he says.
Wash those clothes sharply! Its a submissive attitude that a woman needs to cultivate before marriage.

Whatever he tells you to do, do and don't complain. When you finish the laundry, sweep his house, polish his shoes and wipe his arse for him also!
And stop complaining. You are a woman, therefore doing laundry is encoded in your DNA. Its all part of showing off your "submissive" side...

trublvr:
OP, do as he says.
Wash those clothes sharply! Its a submissive attitude that a woman needs to cultivate before marriage.

Whatever he tells you to do, do and don't complain. When you finish the laundry, sweep his house, polish his shoes and wipe his arse for him also!
And stop complaining. You are a woman, therefore doing laundry is encoded in your DNA. Its all part of showing off your "submissive" side...

freecocoa:
No vex bro, I hardly check pms, send anowa one na.

honeric01:


Check your email, it should still be there i believe....

Ogoanita:
washing a mans cloth does not guarantee a good wife

nikkymehmeh:
Exactly!!!is he feeding u or d one taking care of all ur expenses?
if he is....den he would expect much more from u
btw if he is not...he has no ryt to tell u such talkless of him gettin angry

manny4life:
Only on NL does love translate into washing a man's clothes. Will the man wash her clothes too? Will he cook or go to the market for her as well? A man that sees you as his slave DOES NOT love you but will eventually abuse you when you get married. I wash my own clothes or take it to the cleaners, I don't expect anyone to wash my own clothes. A woman washing a man's clothes should be a privilege NOT a right... Same as a man giving money to his gf should be privilege not a right.

Omotolu:
...I did not write that it could guarantee a good wife.

Goldenboy007:
Let me ask you a question, Is your boyfriend obligated to take care of your expenses? Or let me put it this way - Is it his duty to make sure your financial needs are met? - Please don't wash his clothes, it's not your duty but don't ask him for money or gifts too because it is not his duty! If you contradict this then you are the problem in that relationship - you are not his washing machine and also he is not your father!!!
Until people begin to realize that relationship is finding a balance between responsibilities and prerogatives, then it's better you remain single!!! Remember we marry the values we see in people..sex and love will fade but values won't!

bukatyne:
@OP:

Why don't the both of you wash the clothes together?

Ogoanita:
anyways recently he washed why i rinsed, i talked about buying a washing machine if eventually we get married and guess what? He called me a western woman, any ways i dont want to start what i cant finish so das d deal

Ogoanita:
anyways recently he washed why i rinsed, i talked about buying a washing machine if eventually we get married and guess what? He called me a western woman, any ways i dont want to start what i cant finish so das d deal