bukatyne:


Then he has issues with selective 'westernization'. What prompted the issue of you washing alone since you both wash together?

How far are you gone in the relationship?

Is he the type of man who believes a husband should not do chores? Notice I said husband meaning what he does now is irrelevant.
Expecting your answers.

Elesta:

Whoever you are, you too make sense oh.my own former stupid boyfy wanted me to suck his dick by force.c me c something.I told him I don't like it but e con dey vex.imagine.dt was a red flag for me

Ogoanita:
anyways Hes lovely and Good in every aspect, i do stock up hes fridge with different meals and hes always there to help me with one thing or the other, sometimes i wonder if hes helping me out jst cos of we are still dating and all, you know the say pple true character manifest it self in marriage, and this the first time we washed together although ve washes the whole of hes cloth all alone unaided, hes good jst that i notice h

es a bit rigid when it comes to this washin cloth aspect, Hes really Kinf hearted

Ogoanita:
my dear by your comment that wht you mean, btw tnx for your comment

Longstride:



I guess your mom is a 'good girl' to your dad huh?

rigarmortis:



Nope..

My mum is actually a bad girl, but your mom......very good girl.

She and your lovely sis both gave me head to see if two heads are better than one.


For the record....؛...................


It was.

MarvellousGod:
... Good you ran, don't allow anybody push you into doing what you don't want. ...



But you may need to learn it for marriage sake

Longstride:



okay.

fem29:


As if being single is a sin

Ogoanita:
Tnx ure lovely

holatin:
sin kee abi d right tin
smh

fem29:


Ermmm , what's the translation of this in English

bukatyne:


You are welcome

All the best

okotv:
I told you...


you are the best

lafflaff123:
@OP my advice to you is simple. Upgrade and start dating a guy that has a Washing machine/dryer and also a dish washer, so you don't have to do anything. I am sure you don't like cooking too right?date a guy that loves cooking and or his mother brings him food for it to be refrigerated.

Just curious about you, so my question to you is that WHAT EXACTLY do you women think you even bring into a relationship?any relationship?your minds are fixated on marriages and how to hook a guy alone. But, when it comes to actually doing anything tangible, you start complaining.

Weah96:
Depends on whether the clothes are washed by hand or machine.

If you wash by hand, then you're a big fo.ol. A grown man should be able to wash his own clothes without asking his wife to mess up her hands with laundry soap.

However, if all you have to do is sort the clothes and throw them into a machine, then may God punish you for complaining.

Weah96:
Depends on whether the clothes are washed by hand or machine.

If you wash by hand, then you're a big fo.ol. A grown man should be able to wash his own clothes without asking his wife to mess up her hands with laundry soap.

However, if all you have to do is sort the clothes and throw them into a machine, then may God punish you for complaining.

trublvr:
OP, do as he says.
Wash those clothes sharply! Its a submissive attitude that a woman needs to cultivate before marriage.

Whatever he tells you to do, do and don't complain. When you finish the laundry, sweep his house, polish his shoes and wipe his arse for him also!
And stop complaining. You are a woman, therefore doing laundry is encoded in your DNA. Its all part of showing off your "submissive" side...

netizenbuzz:


I was taking your comment seriously until I read your last sentence. It is even more problematic to me if there's a washing machine and the guy still needs you to put his clothes in for him. Like it is a very easy thing to do or didn't he read the manual on how to operate it? It takes less than 5 minutes to put clothes inside an automatic machine so he should do that himself. I can only help him out with special clothes let's say whites. And he can take his suits to the dry cleaner #simple

Classicalmusic:


Basically, I don't have much advice to give. From your profile, I think you're somewhat stubborn and a bit straight-forward. However, you should be happy washing his clothes and cooking for him because it signifies love. You just need to be romantic so that he will keep loving you. If not, he might drop you for another woman.

Let me give you an insight. I cannot allow a woman whom I do not trust to cook for me and also wash my clothes because some women are really messed up and later they claim that they're capable of making us happy.

Please be caring today so that he will propose to you tomorrow.

Timbuktou:
Tomorrow one girl will come and open a thread about her stingy boyfriend and the women will tell her to run for her life.

Let me get this straight, women are the only ones to expect anything in relationships? Once the guy has a demand, he's automatically enslaving her? Alright, I get it now.

Bia Ogoanita, I hope you expect nothing from him? That's the only time he should expect nothing from you, which means he can look for a more symbiotic relationship somewhere else.

netizenbuzz:


pls shut up!! this is the only argument you assholes of a men bring up anytime an issue like this arises. Who says every woman wants to be dependent on her husband? You keep forgetting that some of us have rich fathers or can actually stand and survive alone. Pls try harder next time an come up with a better argument.
Of course, I am one of those who pray for richer husbands. I pray that no matter how rich I become, I want my husband richer. Not because I want his money but to help me respect him better and for his ego's sake.

Classicalmusic:


Basically, I don't have much advice to give. From your profile, I think you're somewhat stubborn and a bit straight-forward. However, you should be happy washing his clothes and cooking for him because it signifies love. You just need to be romantic so that he will keep loving you. If not, he might drop you for another woman.

Let me give you an insight. I cannot allow a woman whom I do not trust to cook for me and also wash my clothes because some women are really messed up and later they claim that they're capable of making us happy.

Please be caring today so that he will propose to you tomorrow.

Weah96:


Exactly. Putting the clothes in the machine is nothing, which is why you shouldn't mind doing it for your hubby. It's like lowering the toilet seat after we piss.

It doesn't take anything for a woman to lower the toilet seat herself, but yet we do it for women anyway. I've even washed my girl's clothes before, so that part is negligible.
Hand washing the clothes of another adult is a no no.

netizenbuzz:


Oh please! cooking and washing does not equal love. Don't sell me that bullshit. One of the best couple I've met (a family friend), the woman never did shi shi. She had maids all her life. You should see the way the husband took care of her even though he was a military man (now retired). Been jealous of them since forever. It's just now that all the kids are grown up and she's less busy that she tries entering the kitchen. And even till now, it's just the cooking. Yet, she they travel out pass her husband sef. You know the funny thing? they never even had an actual wedding but still the love mehn.
That said, put in mind that different things work for different relationships. You just have to decide what kind you want to find yourself in 30 years later before you leap. Don't make cooking and washing a criterion for every woman. And stop making women sound so desperate to get married. Aswear, if not for this judgmental society, I'd rather stay unmarried.

iluvweed:
Chai! Nigeria is more like a bush!

See someone complaining about washing clothes in 2014

So you mean there are no washing machines and dryers in naija

Still surprised cos its been long i saw someone washing clothes with bare hands

That been said i wont even bother to ask how they wash dishes in naija lol...

Timbuktou:
You are a hopeless imbeciile. The point, if your brain could ever function, was the fact of mutual dependency. But instead, you were more interested in foaming at the mouth like a rabid rat. Who gives a fvck how much your father has managed to save and contribute in his life.

And to think you think you have anything resembling an argument. Ever heard of lowest common denominators? I guess not. You're a reetarded guineafowl.

netizenbuzz:


lol, the OP says her man feels it's westernization for them to get a washing machine

netizenbuzz:


Let me get this straight, women are the only ones to expect anything in relationships? Once the guy has a demand, he's automatically enslaving her? Alright, I get it now.

Oponu ni e joor. You already stereotyped women in your comment. You are trying to sound enlightened with you "mutual dependency" shit but you sound more stupid. I'm not even sure you know what that term means. It does always mean money=chores. It could also mean money/money=chores/chores for both parties.
You ppl will be yearning nonsense about men taking care of women's expenses when we know the situation in Nigeria quite alright. In most families, most women bring money to the table too but God forbid you ask the men to share the responsibilities of chores. Hypocrites!