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Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by rigarmortis: 5:12pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Zellie: too bad you cant, innit? but one thing you can do without the use of internet is..........take a long, tight rope, make a nose, manage to get your large but empty head into the noose, tie the end of the rope to a ceiling fan, climb on a chair, make sure everything is tightly in place, then kick off the chair..... and watch what happens to your chicken neck..... try it, you don't need 10mb for this, trust me. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Classicalmusic: 5:17pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita: Basically, I don't have much advice to give. From your profile, I think you're somewhat stubborn and a bit straight-forward. However, you should be happy washing his clothes and cooking for him because it signifies love. You just need to be romantic so that he will keep loving you. If not, he might drop you for another woman. Let me give you an insight. I cannot allow a woman whom I do not trust to cook for me and also wash my clothes because some women are really messed up and later they claim that they're capable of making us happy. Please be caring today so that he will propose to you tomorrow. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 5:19pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
RaeMystix: google what? a term created by bitter and confused people? who's a fake man? a man is a man, the only difference should be maturity and responsibility. Know this today that there's nothing like a fake man or real man, what we have is matured/responsible and immature/irresponsible man/woman. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Welrez(m): 5:20pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
mutter:I'm quoting you because I really like your comment. She comes here seeking advice from some people who can hardly manage their own relationships and probably going away with an attitude that ruins relationships. This is a simple matter that can be easily talked over instead of coming here to pick ideas that can complicate issues. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Emilord(m): 5:26pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa:freecocoa,is that really you?where have u been all this while? |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by irepitan87(f): 5:29pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
@ lafflafia so intersting,can u advice ur sis to do dat,or does it means if washing his clothes or do d chores means she is wife material, Wen dating a guy u can. Only do things dat comes frm ur mind.I dated my husband for more four years I only wash his clothes twice and it was because I met him washing it,I do oda chores,we r married now he still do d washing even he helped with cooking if I close late and he get home bf me,so if u r him u won't even dat lady all in d name of dat she can't do ur wish, My own advice is if u r only comfortable with it,not wat u r force. To,sit him down talk to him and if he refuse u can do it for love sake,but for me I won't b a slave all in d name of love. Haba we r all human being,let's take tins easy, 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by mutter(f): 5:31pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Shirley07: .... :with the mission to save young naive girls from lying tounges that wish to leed them astray . 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by freecocoa(f): 5:34pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Emilord:Ah, it's me noni o, I've been around, hanging out these days in the family section . |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by queenbesha(f): 5:37pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
What I don't get is wat some guys actually think of their girlfriends. This person in question is nt bethrothed to u or anything. She is just ur girlfriend. If she washes ur cloth, be happy for dat, if she does nt, don't make it look as if she is failing to carry out ha responsibility! Mind you, she is nt ur wife yet and to some extent she is nt answerable to u. She nt washing ur cloths neither makes ha a bad person nor means that she does nt love u. Now...wait a minuite o...all these guys that are busy condeming girls...hw many of ur girlfrnd's cloths have u washed...is doing dat an 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by AZeD1(m): 5:41pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Classicalmusic:Washing and cooking signifies love? Really? Any guy who expects his girl to wash his clothes for him just because they are dating is an a** 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by RaeMystix: 5:44pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01: Okay sir! |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by queenbesha(f): 5:47pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
What I don't get is wat some guys actually think of their girlfriends. This person in question is nt betrothed to u or anything. She is just ur girlfriend. If she washes ur cloth, be happy for dat, if she does nt, don't make it look as if she is failing to carry out ha responsibility! Mind you, she is nt ur wife yet and to some extent she is nt answerable to u. She nt washing ur cloths neither makes ha a bad person nor means that she does nt love u. Now...wait a minuite o...all these guys that are busy condemning girls...hw many of ur girlfrnd's cloths have u washed...is doing dat an abomination?!!!! |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by kccarew(f): 5:52pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Pls permit me to do this...hahahahahahahahhahahahahaha, chai na wa oo, and more ahahahahahah, babe, see I aint laughing at u oo, but at ur bf, and sorry I am laughing but I couldn't help it. Men ur man is funny in fact he aint ur man, ur guy, if he wants u to be washing his cloth, make him marry u, then buy washing machine for u so u could do lundry with ease while u have to go to work or do other chores at home, tell him I said so. Ogoanita: 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
MarvellousGod:Whoever you are, you too make sense oh.my own former stupid boyfy wanted me to suck his dick by force.c me c something.I told him I don't like it but e con dey vex.imagine.dt was a red flag for me 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:02pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
aisha2: Gbam! U are on point 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:02pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
lafflaff123:wot u saying? Y should she wash his cloths? Is she his maid? They r nt even married? I guess u r a man. Put urself in herr shoes and tell me if u ll comply. D guy is just an opportunist |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by kccarew(f): 6:03pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
And o I forgot to add this... Let me ask u, where are u that he is asking u to wash for him? R u living couples lives when u aint married to him? I.e r u living together? If yes its ue fault so u av to face d consequences if no, make the guy pack him cloth go dry cleaner him no serious, but be sincere to urslf are u livuing with him pls reply me kccarew: |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:06pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Wendy80: Exactly!! 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sauceny: Odiegu,testing indeed. A man that rily loves u won't put u thru dt kind of test. He will find a way around washing his clothes not using washing of clothes as test There's a saying that a man will appreciate if u go out of ur way to do something for him,but he won't be d one to put u under pressure to do it 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
delors: Very very very well said . U get brain 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Classicalmusic: 6:16pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
AZeD1:an assholee?Hahahahaha. Why did you say that? |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:16pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
After she washes all his clothes, he will then marry somebody else that cant do any single thing for him. Hehehehe. chai! Men like this Op's boyfriend know how to use peoples' daughters as housegirls sha. Thank God say some of our ladies don wise up. LOL. Op, you better tell him to carry his clothes to dry cleaners or better still buy a washing machine. Nonsense!! 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by manny4life(m): 6:33pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Only on NL does love translate into washing a man's clothes. Will the man wash her clothes too? Will he cook or go to the market for her as well? A man that sees you as his slave DOES NOT love you but will eventually abuse you when you get married. I wash my own clothes or take it to the cleaners, I don't expect anyone to wash my own clothes. A woman washing a man's clothes should be a privilege NOT a right... Same as a man giving money to his gf should be privilege not a right. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by delishpot: 6:34pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Zeemoor: Comming from a woman? Chei, no wonder women's lot cant improve beyound what women make their fellow women believe. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Say what? delishpot: |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 6:45pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
RaeMystix: Thank you for your understanding ma! 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by RaeMystix: 6:50pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01:You are very much welcome Sir! 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 6:55pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa: You're learning so fast.. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by donem: 6:55pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa:@ Op this is my adopted comment. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Emilord(m): 6:56pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa:oh! I see! Alright |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Pearl321(f): 6:56pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
What I always tell ladies: dont start what you cannot keep up with! If you start washing his clothes and he sees it as ur job, it wud be hard or impossible to stop wtout problems. I am married and my husband doesnt tell me to was his clothes like its my job! I take them and wash when I wish to help out or am washing mine. When he is less busy, he washes mine and his own too and iron them if need be. He sweeps d house when he feels to help, and even cooks most tym n tell me to relax. We wud just be romancing in d kitchen as i help him slice vegetable or grind crayfish. It makes life easier. That doesnt negate d fact that i respect myself enough to appreciate him for doing those things, but thats hw we started. In dis generation, men help women and women dnt die doing house chores. 2 Likes |
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