Nonso23:

Unless it's not the same NL we are using o! They are numerous o!
At least 10

Names?

Nonso23:


That is like calling daddy to watch you, while you want to steal meat from the pot.

This guy is not serious . Babe say make you take her out you dey fear her non existing numerous husband. Kai which kain level be this Na Haba.

Bro do the needful ... . Go and have fun and detox your self from the toxicity in the both sections you frequent.

Who knows...

MizMyColi:


Most of us do.
That's when Love, the decision comes into play.

Exactly to be able to make that decision that is why I go in with my Brian.

Nonso23:


That is like calling daddy to watch you, while you want to steal meat from the pot.

Gerrout

Mizmycoli..Nice work,feeling ur blog

Matthewbriggs:


This guy is not serious . Babe say make you take her out you dey fear her non existing numerous husband. Kai which kain level be this Na Haba.

Bro do the needful ... . Go and have fun and detox your self from the toxicity in the both sections you frequent.

Who knows...

Please tell him

Nonso23:

My brother, nkwucha aburo ujo.
Even u.j know sef.

Mtcheeeeeew

MizMyColi:


Paranoia be gripping NL dudes since time imoriver......
They attach boyfys to popular ladies on here, even when clearly, none is existent.

Well Said MBriggs
He ought to do the needful

Lol ... Very true. Sha I was just pulling his legs . He knows how to do the needful.

Nonso23:

My brother, nkwucha aburo ujo.
Even u.j know sef.

Very true.

UjSizzle:

Please tell him

I don tell am. Omara efe o na eme.

MizMyColi:


Things can only get better Sir

Sure ma'm!!!

Love and mind games Inter alia according to Mizmycoli the Queen of Nairaland's damsels.


This topic is inexhaustible and also differs according to each persons experiences.

Societal values have eroded and what we all call love today is far from the ideals.

Most of us now believe loving relationships should come with fringe benefits. Paying bills, occasional dates, gifts and shopping spree. The guys also look out for mind blowing sex and quickies if bad gets to worse.

Now this is the point most of us are and it's pretty difficult to figure out what the ideals is supposed to be. The media isn't helping out on this issue.

I can keep going on and on ranting until I feel helpless on this thing called Love.
Not even sure it's a thing or just wishful thinking that the ideal exists and could happen.

Not given up yet tho'.
At best I'd conclude it's a risk, the more calculated you are, the more successful you might get in or out without getting hurt or heart broken.

That's my humble submission, opinions might differ.

rittyben:
Thanks

Ur welcome dear. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels dis way.

All I can say is... Mizmycoli writes well

walks in from my sleep, looking everybody dumbly.....

confuse if it a love seminar.














by the way, I've checked your blog. it nice

MizMyColi:


Thanks Sir

Uwc

Compliments

Wish i cud stop being shy.. Bt i tink ts natural...

REB3L:
Frankly,love is overrated,you can have love for your family,God,your friends......but to have love for a member of the opposite sex...is just like eating a bowl of pepper soup without having Any thing to help you "step it down"
it may start up as being sweet,you are enjoying it to the fullest,then you become quite uncomfortable
....until finally your body screams for you to back down AND stop it.... same with love.
it may be weird but actually i believe that the law of diminished returns works also in love.

As hilarious as that is, it remains am erroneous analogy. Quite laughable too. I like your angle though.

Awesome! awesome!! Awesome!!!

l admire ur expressive writing style, deeply.
Equally worthy of note - correct me if I'm in d wrong - is d skillful manner u skirt topics that might be offensive to public decency: a very useful skill when ur intended audience is vast and varied.
l hv a few tots on dis matter which I'll now proceed to share...

[quote author=softwhispers post=29932062]
l personally, hav given up on romantic love(well, pple do change, mind u).
Now, don't get me wrong: I'm a great fan of budding romances & l take great pleasure in observing hw bein in love brings out d best in couples!
So "what is ur problem, boy?", u wonder.
This: I'm so afraid to fail that l wont even try (again). Now that's a qoute frm Dido's 'Life for Rent' which, l suppose, resonates well with many here.
To love - that pure, selfless, romantic devotion to an object of deep affection - is a huge investment: one in which returns are not guaranteed!
And by 'returns', l simply mean full reciprocation!
For what is loving if it isn't mutual?
'True love' (if you'll excuse that designation has never before been under such a barrage of attacks - so fervent and sustained - as it (love) now is.
Consider a few protagonists of love:
FEMINISM
I find it curious that any feminist should contract a heterosexual marriage - homosexual involvements are a lot less puzzling.
At its core, feminism breeds narcissism which is in diametric contradiction to d very tenets of loving.
D feminist sees herself as a sun of sorts, around which d earth must revolve.
But to truly love is to be wholly altruistic, or so l suppose!
THE NEW MORALITY
l don't even kno if this describes any known concept but by 'new morality', l refer to d prevailing view in modern society that a life of sexual gratification is d apogee of fulfillment. Modern society, abetted by d media, paints d picture-perfect individual as that one who beds anyone that catches their fancy.
Such a theory is at best, contradictory for humans naturally derive d greatest satisfaction from giving: not getting.ለ (any parents here will at once grasp my meaning).
So u see, a number of peeps out there hav by their very lifestyles, conditioned themselves to never fall in love!
They cant even recognize love!!!
How can u be enraptured by someone when all u see is their sex appeal??
EDUCATION
Is being educated ever a bad thin?
Not quite!
Still, as one pursues higher levels of education, a heightened level of self awareness evolves. U begin to see how 'good' u really are: and how 'bad' everyone else is - u become too good for d world (of d opposite sex)!
Too, there's d prevailing view among intellectuals that smhow, falling in love is naive: smthing scornful and demeaning.
So everyone pursues sophistication and forbid themselves frm falling on love..
I COULD GO ON AND ON, BUT I GUESS I'VE ALREADY SAID FAR TOO MUCH!
AND FOR THOSE WHO SEE MY TOTS AS BALDERDASH, PLS FORGIVE MY RAMBLINGS!
PLS FORGIVE MY LOOOOOONNNGGGG POST; JUST MY RANDOM TOTS...

On Love and Marriage

Prior to this time, the time of women liberation and independence rave, a man worked hard to earn the financial and moral right to marriage. He seeks a bride, finds one easily because the ladies [back then still] knew it was their right, luck and social responsibility to accept a 'ready man' without much fuss. Back then the biggest unknown was parents' approval...heck! The parents were the 'unsmiling judges' of one's spouse back then.

I don't know if what the resulting couples had was love, but they were happy. Those types of couples gave birth to most of us here discussing today, and they still married!

Fast-forward to the prevailing situation today. The decision is even more of the lady's to make than the man. The number of rejected proposals from men is on a continous rise. Because of the sense of liberation, intelligence and educational qualifications our young ladies have achieved, they are just not ready to end their education in a man's kitchen anymore! Not in a hurry.

Guys are afraid, I am afraid...Yes!!! Its because the one statement I dread most is hearing my wife say 'Wish I hadn't married you'...or 'I made a mistake'....damn, thats gonna hurt!