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Re: Why So Afraid? by McSterling(m): 7:21am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Uglyduckling:Quite a dilemma. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:23am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Cwaya: That's my biggest question , all the time it has always been. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:23am On Dec 27, 2014 |
aflyingbird:I don't see anything intricating or Gepharamandus about OP post.Its very crystal like Buhari mission as a matter of fact its audible to the deaf and visible to the blind and u ought to have seen dat. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 27, 2014 |
kilokeys: You and I know the love most of you present is fake , how do you want us to know without proving it ? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by kilokeys(m): 7:31am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: yippie.. u yaff enter d trap.. how do u want us to prove it? cos to my surprise, the stake keeps getting higher.. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by chronique(m): 7:33am On Dec 27, 2014 |
@mizmycoli: Permit me to call you a nice loving witch. How did you manage to write this? It feels like an x-ray of my entire emotional system and soul,was done by a doctor and His findings and prescriptions,written on a sheet of paper. That sums up what you wrote up there,for me and I think it might be same for a lot of folks out there. My own defintion of love,is: living(L) on(O) venomous(V) emotions(E). Loving truly with your whole heart,consumes you and if it ever turns sour,it becomes a bad venom that tears people into shreds. That's the simple reason,why people hardly get over heartbreaks;the venomous emotions destroys their souls(most especially when they've given their all). We eventually find ourselves,protecting our fragile hearts and even when true love shows up,we tend to excuse ourselves from his presence for the fear of going through experiences from the past. But in our quiet moment,we sit and wish he's actually with us,we talk about how much we want him and all that. It's a scary crazy world we find ourselves in. As for me,I love to love and wanna be loved back whole heartedly,I've got pure and genuine love to be given to the special one who deserves it,and I expect same. Irrespective of all the hurdles on my way to attaining this,I'd still give it a try. I'd try till I can no longer try and that would be the day my breath ceases. When you love completely and you receive the same kind of love in equal dose and measure,the kind of happiness you derive from it,would supersede the type you get from earning a fat pay. Reason is,it is unconditional. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Samsonklin(m): 7:33am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Taaaaaaaaaaaah! The sincerest love of all is the love of food. #teamall-lovelost Merry xmas MCOLI n a prosperous new year to ya |
Re: Why So Afraid? by UjSizzle(f): 7:37am On Dec 27, 2014 |
It's a shitty place to be stuck in. Period. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:49am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:51am On Dec 27, 2014 |
I read your article about virginity and to be honest, i didn't get anything from it. Not everyone who is virgin is happy with it. There are those who are happy staying chaste and the are those who are just not happy! |
Re: Why So Afraid? by yorex2011: 7:53am On Dec 27, 2014 |
..... .... Can't even come to nairaland as an escape cos i read things that remind me of my heartbreak.. Haba... Love is good.. But in this day its better not to love with all you have,.. It has risky potentials... Like i got to see.. That's when u realize how psychology, and emotions play a vital part in one's life... |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Teespice(f): 7:54am On Dec 27, 2014 |
chronique: choi. I totally agree with this post. mizmycoli, brilliant piece. I can relate to what you wrote. 2 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by datyrone(m): 7:55am On Dec 27, 2014 |
when you have been heartbroken before its difficult to give love anoda chance,especially when you v'been hit so hard so we use defence mechanisms to protect ourself.its human instinct not to not get forward and be battered again after a torrid experience.a fragile heart wud always get anoda genuine chance at love...and when it does,dnt be too blind or shrouded in self defence mechanisms and not be taken. sometimes love comes around and knocks you down like a whirlwind,but u cant remain on the ground. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Next to a priest, my profession puts me in a position where I get to listen to different cheat stories of young ladies seeking medical help. Now how do I open my heart to love when the ones I come across in my line of call make me realise ladies have equal tendencies to cheat as that of men, if not more. Arrhythmia, tachycardia, ventricular fibrillation, myocardial infarction, cardiomyositis, and other CVDs are nothing compared to a heartbreak! But then, if I'd have to risk loving, then she has to share same quality with the lady below.... 3 Likes
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Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 7:59am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Urine:My IQ is fantastic, bro. I write the way I do intentionally, on this site. I'm not on Nairaland to brag to nor impress anyone. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by waxyung(m): 8:09am On Dec 27, 2014 |
I mean it.. Dis is a mirror of my hrt content.. I jst cnt help bt read it over nd over again... Wez my luv?... #shy off |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Taolyn4lif(m): 8:10am On Dec 27, 2014 |
nofij: Please expatiate. Justify this statement with reasons. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by 1miccza: 8:11am On Dec 27, 2014 |
starlingleanets: Kai!!!!!Oga you want to break my head with english ne?? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by 1miccza: 8:14am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Me I am vewy vewy afwaid to love fa. I don't want to get hurt or be taken for a ride... |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 8:16am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Gracias! Mizmycoli |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Poindexter: 8:16am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Fine read. Kudos OP 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by 1miccza: 8:17am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Samsonklin: Bros your head is there #teamall-lovelost ooooooo 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 8:19am On Dec 27, 2014 |
1miccza:Na ur example i dey follow o |
Re: Why So Afraid? by 1miccza: 8:22am On Dec 27, 2014 |
starlingleanets: Bros I reach?all this grammar?you want compete with igodomigo? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by LordReed(m): 8:28am On Dec 27, 2014 |
We are afraid to love because we are afraid to be naked. We cover ourselves with lies and deceptions so much we are afraid to look at the things we hide. Even the simplest things get complicated because we need to coat everything with the "veneer of civilization", creating facades we show to the world to appear "more interesting". Is it any surprise we are afraid to love when love requires you to be beholden by the other without any deceptions? Naked? Until we learn to live without all those coverings we throw upon ourselves, we will not love. Until we learn to be comfortable being naked we will continue to be lonely in the midst of a crowd. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 27, 2014 |
kilokeys: Lol , me I don't know o , am only scared of giving my all and getting little or nothing in return . |
Re: Why So Afraid? by LordReed(m): 8:32am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: Never give your love because of another person. Give your love for you. This way your love will remain true even if the other does not. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Cwaya(m): 8:32am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: This and other reasons too ! |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 8:36am On Dec 27, 2014 |
nabsprada: 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 8:37am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Neldrizzy(m): 8:38am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Hustle must pay |
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