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Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:08am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Our hearts, our lives --- our world. ^^^ This is my latest blogpost on www.mizmycolimusings..com Waow! The blog's a huge leap of faith for me. I'd appreciate your coming around and support. Thanks in anticipation 68 Likes 37 Shares |
Re: Why So Afraid? by laplace12(m): 12:21am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:25am On Dec 27, 2014 |
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Re: Why So Afraid? by dunkem21(m): 12:26am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: You talked to me. I have troubles fighting the tears welling up in my eyes. Goodnight, Mizmycoli. 2 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 27, 2014 |
This is so beautiful New blog alert! permit me to stalk! 2 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by LogoDWhiz(m): 12:27am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Seeing my post on d blog? Aint displaying. Love to copy it and post it here |
Re: Why So Afraid? by laplace12(m): 12:29am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by mentorandfriend(m): 12:33am On Dec 27, 2014 |
It was worth the read. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:35am On Dec 27, 2014 |
dunkem21: laplace12: I should prolly request for FP. Spread the word y'know. Mature folks in Politics and Family sections might like. Tags:Obinoscopy |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:36am On Dec 27, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: It's published now. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:37am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by LogoDWhiz(m): 12:40am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Okay! |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Cwaya(m): 12:48am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nice one Toolz "Hey You, Yeah You . Give love a/another chance.." [size=4pt]Not Me anyway , i'm done with that ! [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:55am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Cwaya: Lolz No you're not. A part of you'll always yearn for it. At best, what you can do is stifle it --- and keep stifling. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by datyrone(m): 12:57am On Dec 27, 2014 |
people are afraid to love for so many reasons.sometimes its because they have some traits of control freaks.control freaks dnt want to 'let go' for reasons best known to them.too much caution becomes a problem life is a constant flux of ups and down,a learning pattern.in matters of love,we dnt want to get hurt but there are no gaurantees.we rise,we fall,we make mistakes,we grow,we impact...at the end of the day we just play our part and hope for the best.our ability to love and be loved is a great indicator for psychological growth. i would implore you not to let life pass you by because of the fear of pain and uncertainty or whatever it is,dnt be a spectator...dare to dream 12 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by prettyjo(f): 12:58am On Dec 27, 2014 |
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Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 1:00am On Dec 27, 2014 |
datyrone: One billion likes! 3 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Cwaya(m): 1:01am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Not sure about that part of me... but I know when i'm truely done with an issue. This particular case, DONE ! At least for the mean time , maybe in the next decade , i'll see abt it. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 1:03am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Cwaya: Aiit, no P I haven't walked your journey, I won't judge your story. Just be mindful what you wish for though. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Cwaya(m): 1:07am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Yea I know.. What if it becomes a distraction? *note: take note of the questions i ask* |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 1:12am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Cwaya: I guess it's in order to ask for your reasons, as it pertains the assertion you made earlier. Is there a possibility that we now have such a warped, really warped view of love as a result of our experiences? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Cwaya(m): 1:19am On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Yeah of course, .. As a result of our experiences and the stories of people surrounding us .. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 4:32am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Hello Gentlemen, we have in our hands a case of pishmal dishmal this morning and its so sadornic and lucrubrious that it leaves us with no choice than to leave the fiction,fantancy and pentrocastrarian world and face the reality of the ideal world we are. @OP This is an article of ultmost commercial value,creative and informative,gigantic in opulesm,incontestible and decisive in fact i had say is worth than priceless, penetrating d impenetrable symphilis of a dead heart, I think you deserve an Award for this. *MODIFIED* From the few years have spent on earth i observe and keep check on it what is the reason "why" nd this i find out that People focus on "All i know about Love" leaving out the "all i don't know about love" so they end up disapointed,frustrated,whincalcommonized and hence they are afraid to give it a try again. But Love is the simplest thing u can create,give and accomodate. 2 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by tyconcepts(f): 4:35am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Registered...... Now scrolling up to read the epistle. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by InvertedHammer: 4:36am On Dec 27, 2014 |
/ Maybe...just maybe, love does not exist. \ |
Re: Why So Afraid? by kilokeys(m): 4:39am On Dec 27, 2014 |
to the girls, if u like a guy and u think he likes u too please dont make him prove himself to death. everyday he has to prove something, every single moment. i cant keep on chasing you, yes you. u have to slow down and accept the love i give. i think the most difficult thing to accept is love. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 4:49am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Made so much sense in this post mzmycolli....I have some one who needs to read this post....she doesn't know her biological clock is ticking |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 4:52am On Dec 27, 2014 |
InvertedHammer:And maybe, just maybe, love not only exists but exists in its truest form! It takes courage, lots of courage to find out! @op,Humans by default fear the unknown...people are so afraid to love for different reasons,but mostly because love is often UNEQUAL and makes one feel vulnerable"What if he/she hurts me?" "What if he/she leaves me"? "What if he/she dies"? How long do we intend to remain this way? Maybe till we realize that "Love doesn't mean we are never gonna get hurt" Till we realize we've got to risk it cause any pain you feel can never be compared to the regret of walking away from Love!!! 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why So Afraid? by devigblegble: 4:53am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Ok |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 4:57am On Dec 27, 2014 |
At a given time human love displace fear? Hmmm.... |
Re: Why So Afraid? by REB3L(m): 4:59am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Frankly,love is overrated,you can have love for your family,God,your friends......but to have love for a member of the opposite sex...is just like eating a bowl of pepper soup without having Any thing to help you "step it down" it may start up as being sweet,you are enjoying it to the fullest,then you become quite uncomfortable ....until finally your body screams for you to back down AND stop it.... same with love. it may be weird but actually i believe that the law of diminished returns works also in love. 3 Likes |
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