Let me blow my horn Phine

May be I should give love a Trail come 2015

Nice write-up really, same love story that almost choked my academic abilities. Over and out for now.

FP? Serious?

i swear folks b trying 2 hard these days. op, read more 2 improve ur writing. u doing 2 much, patrick obahiagbon. simplify ur writing, gets ur point across much berra

It is very wrong to love

Nothing as sweet as love.Coming to term wt the fact that God himself is LOVE, not faith, gift, prayer, miracle but a miracle worker.
Some see love as hurting,cruel and heartbreaking because they have not found true love. What they called true love are at best infatuation.
Love is sweet because it is abt companionship,which helps you to walk tru the journey of life aided.
No one can do it alone, you need a companion.you need someone always by your side.
DON'T FEAR TO FALL IN LOVE, ONLY FEAR TO FAIL TO LOVE.

@op it seems yu knw whats wrong with me.

Nice piece mizmycoli.
Love, Love, Love! Hmmmmmmmmmm

Very Beautiful Piece .

Very Very Beautiful Piece

Very Very Very Beautiful Piece

Love scares the knickers off of me, but not because of past hurt, not at all, but rather because the way my personality and heart has been cultured; I have so so so much to give in love, the fear becomes- Will she have so so so much to give me in return too. I know love is supposed to be selfless and unexpectant(atleast some versions of what loves means have these ideals as its centre piece) but at the same time, I'm human and by being human, something deep inside me craves for a "kick back".

We can't also help but realize that love, as wonderful as it is, in this present age, has become such a "political concept".

I believe in love...I believe in love alot... and in 2015, I hope love believes in me enough to find me.

Once again MizMyColi..... Very Beautiful Piece.

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aflyingbird:
i swear folks b trying 2 hard these days. op, read more 2 improve ur writing. u doing 2 much, patrick obahiagbon. simplify ur writing, gets ur point across much berra

u are joking ryt

The last time I tried love, it was disheartening and I felt so empty and heartbroken. Anyone who sees me then will think I was under a spell,l. In the end, the love wasn't reciprocated. Not sure I will ever find a girl like that again, that's why I don't even think of such love again cos I won't only hate myself if it doesn't work out as planned, I also may not love the one meant for me the way I ought to. So for now, I have said and saying no to love

Love!!!.....
Why am I afraid to love again?

so many thought provoking answers to that questn.

Oh, do we still talk about love, to me it doesn't worth it, because its just a cycle. Always starts with attraction, then you start spending more time with him/her, likeness sets in, progresses to love, oh what a great feeling, nothing counts anymore, d best gift from nature, sacrifices, disappointments, commitment etc. Now you are fully attached, the world stops when he/she is away, why go through all the stress. All of a sudden, normal things you can do becomes too hard, you start seeing the world through his/her eyes, fear sets in, her/his every movement starts to count, you become possessive and jealous, you start thinking about only them, gradually you are becoming violent ....................Gbam!!! You are out again searching for love . It doesn't worth it.

aflyingbird:
i swear folks b trying 2 hard these days. op, read more 2 improve ur writing. u doing 2 much, patrick obahiagbon. simplify ur writing, gets ur point across much berra

To the contrary, you need to improve on your reading skills and build up your vocabs.

the op's post is clear and understandable.

@ MizMyColi,

Love is a beautiful experience although with its up and down sides. But it is we humans that makes the experience hard/difficult....

Single ladies fraternity.

aflyingbird:
i swear folks b trying 2 hard these days. op, read more 2 improve ur writing. u doing 2 much, patrick obahiagbon. simplify ur writing, gets ur point across much berra

On the contrary mate, I think you have to work hard to improve your iq so you can understand issues better. This link will help http://m.wikihow.com/Improve-Your-IQ

Also, with your constant use of 2, ur, u and berra, it shows you need to start working on it ASAP.

haibe:
The last time I tried love, it was disheartening and I felt so empty and heartbroken. Anyone who sees me then will think I was under a spell,l. In the end, the love wasn't reciprocated. Not sure I will ever find a girl like that again, that's why I don't even think of such love again cos I won't only hate myself if it doesn't work out as planned, I also may not love the one meant for me the way I ought to. So for now, I have said and saying no to love

MizMyColi, this is the real issue here, some people love hard, love like they are under a spell. What assurance can you give these people?

so nice tanx for giving me reasons to go on

Urine:


MizMyColi, this is the real issue here, some people love hard, love like they are under a spell. What assurance can you give these people?

lol

Love can be a dangerous/unhealthy thing especially when you invest all your emotions and energies into it. You love somebody so much; you become so dependent on them like an invalid. You literally can't do without them. And even when they hurt and abuse you, you can't feel it, you can't see it. And when you do see and feel it, you keep going back to get hurt. You become a masochist of sorts- you relish the pain. Even when it's crystal clear that they do not love you at all or at least not as much as you do, you fail to see, you fail to accept. You're so emotionally attached. You so desperately want their love and so you end up vitiating yourself in the process.

That's some f*cked up bullsh*t!

culcid:
Oh, do we still talk about love, to me it doesn't worth it, because its just a cycle. Always starts with attraction, then you start spending more time with him/her, likeness sets in, progresses to love, oh what a great feeling, nothing counts anymore, d best gift from nature, sacrifices, disappointments, commitment etc. Now you are fully attached, the world stops when he/she is away, why go through all the stress. All of a sudden, normal things you can do becomes too hard, you start seeing the world through his/her eyes, fear sets in, her/his every movement starts to count, you become possessive and jealous, you start thinking about only them, gradually you are becoming violent ....................Gbam!!! You are out again searching for love . It doesn't worth it.

it doesn't worth it at all

Again, beautiful expressions from MizMyColi. This one's like good promise for the new year. Please eat love, drink love and make love. It's good and there's vitamins and other minerals in it

starlingleanets:
Hello Gentlemen, we have in our hands a case of pishmal dishmal this morning and its so sadornic and lucrubrious that it leaves us with no choice than to leave the fiction,fantancy and pentrocastrarian world and face the reality of the ideal world we are. @OP This is an article of ultmost commercial value,creative and informative,gigantic in opulesm,incontestible and decisive in fact i had say is worth than priceless, penetrating d impenetrable symphilis of a dead heart, I think you deserve an Award for this.
*MODIFIED*
From the few years have spent on earth i observe and keep check on it what is the reason "why" nd this i find out that People focus on "All i know about Love" leaving out the "all i don't know about love" so they end up disapointed,frustrated,whincalcommonized and hence they are afraid to give it a try again. But Love is the simplest thing u can create,give and accomodate.

Weldone bro

McSterling:
Love can be a dangerous/unhealthy thing especially when you invest all your emotions and energies into it. You love somebody so much; you become so dependent on them like an invalid. You literally can't do without them. And even when they hurt and abuse you, you can't feel it, you can't see it. And when you do see and feel it, you keep going back to get hurt. You become a masochist of sorts- you relish the pain. Even when it's crystal clear that they do not love you at all or at least not as much as you do, you fail to see, you fail to accept. You're so emotionally attached. You so desperately want their love and so you end up vitiating yourself in the process.

That's some f*cked up bullsh*t!

You've just summarised my last experience in love with this. Now I'm stuck on whether to give love another chance or just forget about it totally. And the worse is that I am too afraid that I will hurt someone who will love me the way I loved. And I not ready to be a source of pain to anyone because I know how that feels.

Tallesty1:
Weldone bro

Thank u sir

People are afraiD to love,cos opening their heart to love makes them vulnerable to hurt.and even when they get hurt they won't want a repeat so they don't appear weak.
Most folks just Like you nowadays and not love wholeheartedly.
While some people from birth they don't know or feel loved....so it always hard to receive or return it when it comes along the way.

Hmmm....op, more like you talking to me...
Argghh...i guess my heart has been so hardened?

This is SoulSpeak for me. You are in the spirit. I've had cause to pledge myself to personal freedom and self development with detached emotional involvement in all affairs. The term love have been so bastardized that love as one of beautiful feelings of being human has lost its salt. Tho, have found a personal way of working things through and connecting on a soul level with one I'm truly committed with. It took me like 3years of deliberate hard work to achieve with a certain ex and we got connected on a soul level and it was pure magic. A thing could become so special and become the envy of gods. I got stabbed and my sorry asss dumped as at then was still finding my feet as an upcoming young chap gunning for financial freedom. Have gone through amazing transformations and have discovered to self love and not seek it outside. It over flows and spills to all Gods creature without expecting nothing in return. It will be a cosmic injustice to pour it all on a single soul!!!! I'm afraid and really afraid of getting involved romantically with the wrong person cos all I now represent could be made a mess of. But most times, you wished you had that ONE you let into that private place of innocence and experiment as little kids in a vast universe filled with endless possibilities. Mum wants cute grandkids and I've told the universe to re align and fish a match cos I don't have time to work on a raw material anymore. If it doesn't happen I'm still committed to self love and spreading goodwill amongst Gods beautiful creatures. Only by cosmic intervention have I held out for so long.