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Re: Why So Afraid? by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:36am On Dec 27, 2014 |
This is deep, Nice piece... love is something humans will continually try to define and understand. I have given up trying to understand it. I just live, I just enjoy life. I just do to others what I expect to be done to me. I think love is risky business, I am not afraid to love, I am more afraid of falling out of love. My formula is simple when I love ... I take my brain with me. #MathewBriggs 3 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by 1one: 11:47am On Dec 27, 2014 |
LordReed: Thank you |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Penboy: 11:49am On Dec 27, 2014 |
McSterling:oh lawd! Am scared. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by UjSizzle(f): 11:55am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nonso23:Lol I feel the same way too 2 Likes |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 11:56am On Dec 27, 2014 |
kilokeys: If I tell you it will no longer be a secret na |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by UjSizzle(f): 12:24pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nonso23:So when are you taking me out this holiday? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by papindinho(m): 12:24pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Love is really not a 'let me go for it once and for all' thing cause once you lose your heart, the head is in trouble. Nice piece MizMycoli |
Re: Why So Afraid? by kilokeys(m): 12:29pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: after much research in finding out what women want. i have come to d conclusion that, they don't even know what they want. we give them what we like.. some would like it, some wouldn't. guys, best thing is, stick to d ones that can tolerate ur downsides and celebrate ur good sides.. no kill yasef o. d stake gets higher |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by BJ4REEL(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi:hmmm...been like that for like 4 to 5 years now, trying as much as possible staying away from ladies entirely; though not easy, but i dont think i hold any regret whatsoever. Though sometimes i do think am being a little to hard on myself, hence when read your piece, i just felt the emotion that's been forcefully bottled up surge even beyound my most relied grip. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Mzgracie(f): 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nice one, Miz.... I'm currently passing through a similar situation. In this case, I am in love. Totally in love but really scared of loving fully. And Gosh! He is a sweet man. I find myself getting scared easily when it comes to matters related to love and relationship. I guess my major fear is heartbreak. I don't wanna pass through that shit any longer. You know, this world itself is somehow complicated and twisted. A world full of lying and deceitful men. A world full of men who simply wanna play with your heart and walk away smiling. Isn't this enough not to make us scared? We find it really hard to trust. Preys becomes predators. We wanna fight back. Hmmmmm.... Love. Tah! It is always complicated. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: Meaning you do mind games too? Or how do you mean by taking your brain along |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 1:00pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Mzgracie: Lol Sweetee. You know I understand innit? Hehehehe We gotta live tho' We gotta love too.....for those who have found theirs Meanwhile, flexing on ma mind hehehehehehehe. I figured I might as well start giving myself a treat y'know.....lolz Missed ya. It's not like I've been around that much tho' |
Re: Why So Afraid? by joliej(f): 1:06pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
A truly wonderful and scintillating piece it's wow thanks for sharing this 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by UjSizzle(f): 1:08pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nonso23:Do I kill people now? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 1:09pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
BJ4REEL: Things can only get better Sir |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Anaskie(m): 1:39pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
CoCoLav:My dearest Coco, its really not as easy as you make it appear. Its extremely difficult to put your all into a relationship when you were hurt in a previous one. Ever heard the song 'First cut is the Deepest by Sheryl Crow? My dear, you'll always feel the scar till you meet that one person who'll mend the broken pieces. But till then, its safe to tread cautiously. People say once bitten, twice shy. I say once bitten, forever shy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why So Afraid? by CoCoLav(f): 1:47pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Anaskie: Well, I don't think its that difficult....maybe not for me. The doubts creep up but you need to learn to silence them and believe in your new partner reason being that if you keep focusing on the hurt of the past relationship, the new one will never move forward. What you are doing is allowing the past to limit the present and the future. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Matthewbriggs(m): 1:56pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: By taking my brain along I mean. I try to separate my feelings and shut down my emotions as I try to weigh things logically to see if truly falling in love with the significant other person is worth it. Can I spend a life time with this person and still be happy. For example, Let say I am catching feeling for someone instead of letting myself go in the name of love. I analyse their strengths and weakness and run them through a very modest checklist that is made up of intellectual/personality compatibility, level of physical attraction to me, Moral compass, and the level of chemistry we both share. I have out grown mind games. Once I find someone who I really like and they meet all my checklist ... letting my self fall in love with that person is easy ... I would be a fool to not go after something that would make me happy ... If it work great, if it doesn't life goes on ... Falling in love is the least of my problem but staying in love is ... I easily get bored. 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by chubbypearl(f): 2:36pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Cwaya:Don't be |
Re: Why So Afraid? by chubbypearl(f): 2:52pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Loved with my heart once and it got broken,loved with my head and it didnt feel like love at all.now the heart is resting |
Re: Why So Afraid? by ihedinobi2: 3:10pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nonso23:Endorsed. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Love is overrated in the sense that we spend our lives looking for love 'out there'....not just overrated, but it's an illusion; we are essentially seeking someone out there to love us to make us feel better about ourselves, when that love is within us all the time. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by rittyben(f): 3:57pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Thanks Anaskie: |
Re: Why So Afraid? by ihedinobi2: 4:08pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Love is a choice. One that you CAN make and unmake. It is not a sealed destiny foisted upon you by some thing outside of your control. You choose to love someone. And you choose to not love someone. By yourself. When you can't let go it is because YOU don't want to. If you think you should let go you WILL let go. Love is YOUR CHOICE. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by MizMyColi(f): 4:20pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: Most of us do. That's when Love, the decision comes into play. |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Beckytee(f): 4:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dunkem21:Seriously not only u,I couldn't fight mine |
Re: Why So Afraid? by IKJ66(m): 4:40pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Ǧ̩̥♡̨̐♡̨̐d̶̲̥̅̊ WRITE UP ℓ̊ was tourched !!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why So Afraid? by UjSizzle(f): 4:40pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nonso23:Why are you giving me husbands i don't have? |
Re: Why So Afraid? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
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