sistawoman:

I feel sorry for your fiance.

steve49ja:

Dude if u like hit your head for wall i aint concerned
why didnt you ask what we would have done if it happens and not what we would advice you to do like you were in a fix
use moviescript con de confuse person
i con de pity you shioooor!!!!hisses

Moyola:

me too!

eminemkayc:

@sista, definitely d guy was wrong,bt at d same time, people cud go at any length 2 trap a supposed victim inorder 2get what they want! Iv bin in d guy's shoes several tymes bt never let d supposed ladies take me that way because am very inscrutable wit a complex character,so i undastnd what d dude wnt through. He should b rebuked,but outright invectives? I dnt agree wit that!

whitelexi:

Girls, ok free the guy please. . . I'm not praising him for his actions but i feel the milk has already been spilled. If he's telling the whole truth here, then we have to understand how he must feel at this point in time. . . Having assisted someone and ending up in their trap - its not a very good feeling and you know as well as i know that it takes some doing to actually resist strong temptation - especially when the mood is right. Who knows whether she even jazzed him, afterall women go to such lengths and he has said he doesnt even know what led to the whole fling.

Concentrate on the problem at hand which is:

1) What happens to his fiance? - he obviously doesnt want to lose her.
2) what happens to the unborn baby - if its his?
3) How can he stand up and be counted as a man amonst family and peers?

deeplo:

I will tell her this weekend and will let you people know by monday what the outcome is, I sincere grateful to all that have offer constructive advice and to those who think this is a playwrite, i say thank you too.
am an Optimistic person, i look forward to an happy ending and hopefully invite some of you here to my wedding in April, thanks once again

sistawoman:

@deeplo

I just want you to really understand the pain that you will be causing her.

i don't think you guys get it. Everything done in the dark comes to light; God makes sure of that.

She will feel this pain for a long time to come.

@Poster

Nollywood, Games of the Heart - parts 1, 2, and 3.

Moyola:

dun lerit konfuze yu o. . . .

deeplo:

some people think this is a kind of of funny story for nollywood or storywood right?, am talking something that has put me in sleepless night , am very ashamed of what i have done as i have not with full intent cheat on my fiance. because i loved her more than anything, so don't crucified me, sistawoman) we all can fall, what we shld be praying for is to stand up and bounce back when we fall. I felt for my fiance bc she has done so much for me, standing by me when there was no one, i know am not the father my coinscience has always tell me that , but either i am the father or not is a thing of 9months time, but the thing is before that 9months i would have face alot of things, accusations and counter-accusations, emotional and psychological trauma to mention a few.

I will tell her this weekend and will let you people know by monday what the outcome is, I sincere grateful to all that have offer constructive advice and to those who think this is a playwrite, i say thank you too.
am an Optimistic person, i look forward to an happy ending and hopefully invite some of you here to my wedding in April, thanks once again

whitelexi:

Not a very intelligent statement because it is not always the case. In 20,000 years, some of my actions will still not come to light - with all the technology in use

deeplo:

thanks for these question steve49ja

1,  my mum never agree to it that i impregnate the lady. she said, and i quote her word "have always warned u to becareful about helping people, see where it has land you, but i know you are innocent, you are just a victime of your own stupidity". Infact, my mum facilitate the fastness in my introduction as she said, she will fight this to finish.

2. She has seen some funny behaviour in me but she really can't pin it down. One saturday morning we went to fetch water as we have not finished with the borehole in our home, while i was fetching, someone was talking to me but my mind was not there, she said "honey, it seems your mind is not here,  anyting the matter?,  i just laughed and said i was listening to a programme from the car radio station.

3. Like i said above, i really don't know how or what lead to it, i just knew i have slept with her,  but many times she will ask me to sleep in her house which i always reject though my fiance is not always around during the week days and it happens that i always drive past her house when goin home at night.

I have no slight interest in sleeping with her as i have caught her red-handed while guys were sleeping with her, so i could not with full intent sleep with that kind of person.

Come think of it, i have always use condom with my fiance as we have decide to start having kids from May 2009. I happened to have a schedule that can determine the sex of a baby in accordance with the woman's age and month to conceive, so there is no need for us to rush as we have all planned how to start our family. I cherished her more and i know she can't leave, but i can't envisage her reaction, i know she will definitely get annoyed, am very sure.

steve49ja:

Did you use a condom when you slept with her??

Tgirl4real:

I think it's sumthn about guys, they find it hard to resist when a lady is after them

deeplo:

i really can't remember if i do or not, bc it all happened like a flash. I don't know what and how i just noticed we already had sex and she was smiling and she lay beside me because it was night and i just left office and branch at her place before heading home.