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Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:07pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:there is something that is common with all men. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: I would break up with someone who does not know how to handle finances before we would get married. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by ArewaSweetheart(f): 9:09pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: Yea, that's exactly my thought too. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:09pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:isokay 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: And that is? Apart from the obvious. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:10pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
ArewaSweetheart:you too know book. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
crackhaus:I don't believe that a man is the 'administrator' of the home like you put it, rather I believe that a home is jointly owned and managed by a man and his wife equally, that is why I said that we differ in our understanding of marriage. To imagine that you can't find a connection between intelligence and who calls the shots or makes wise decisions in a marriage renders your arguments very useless. 4 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:12pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:everyman wants his woman to treat him like a king. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by ArewaSweetheart(f): 9:13pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: Lol. We learn from one another. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
@Lateralmaths Came to think of the name of this thread and it struck me that "weapon" has actually a negative connotation. Why would someone want to use a weapon against his / her spouse? I am wondering if the title of this thread reflects on your own, subconscious notion of marriages. Why do you think of weapons when you think of marriages? 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Again, being noisy isnt what makes you intelligent! Find some other way to fake it. Stop trying to make out an issue where there is none. Stop asking stupid and unending questions too. I understand you're trying to fake it, till you make it, but that's not the way to go about it. Nag, you're putting off some of us who came to read something entertaining on this thread. Thanks 5 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: How does a wife treat her husband like a king? |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:21pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:weapons can be used for or against. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: True but it always causes some sort of damage to something or someone. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:21pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:you women know na |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: Very true. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by crackhaus: 9:23pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
donpeey22:And again, submission isn't just about who calls the shots or makes wise decisions - if you're paying attention, you should be seeing where your problem with this topic is stemming from Is it possible that two people jointly own and manage one institution equally without one of them having an organogram-type edge over the other? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Driven: You clearly have nothing intelligent to contribute but just wanted to nag here too. You must be really dumb!! Why dnt you zip it? who's nagging now? buhahahahaha. pfft. hypocrite. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Ewuro4: 9:31pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: Very true. But today's women mistook 'stoop' for being 'stoopid'. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:36pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
In marriage the two parties can't always be wise,sometimes one or both parties have to be foolish for the good of the marriage. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Yes, I neither had anything intelligent nor anything stupid to contribute to the topic. Still dont. Stated earlier that I came to read. I musnt contribute to every thread I enter. But then, I came across a barrage of stipid questions from someone here, so I had to post to stop her on her track. Guess who that someone is? 6 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Driven: You see? and guess who the nag is now? buhahahahaaha. what a troll! 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
crackhaus:I remember you agreed with me that being submissive in the context of marriage means one partner yielding to and being led by the other, if that's the case, to what should the submissive partner yield? Since you are now saying that submission isn't about who calls the shots or who makes the decisions in the marriage. Please what really is submission to you? 3 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Yessss, I'm a nag...I've nagged you out of your plans of sapping the sanity out of everyone on this thread with your insipid questions. #Now I can go back to read-only mode! 4 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Driven: Hahahahahahaaha. Oh dear! Troll. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Ezeanna: 9:47pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Op, As a counsellor that you said you are, I would avice you to tell your counsellees to love and respect their spouses. Stop harping on submission; that over-emphasis has been known to destroy homes. Telling a woman that because she has said I do to a man, she should throw away her intelligence and bow to every whim of that man is just like advocating that her brain be purged so she is less aware of herself and more pliable to her husband. P.S submission is not love; don't confuse it. And, after all is said and done, what we all need, you too OP, is love. 4 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by crackhaus: 9:51pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
donpeey22: crackhaus: Now you may answer this question: Is it possible that two people jointly own and manage one institution equally without one of them having an organogram-type edge over the other? 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 9:54pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Ezeanna:this thread was created to address wives. Another thread also addresses husbands to love unconditionally. 1 Like |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Lateralmaths:haha, hope u r not a marriage activist |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Lateralmaths(m): 10:02pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Smartestelvis:if you say so. |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by NickiRoman: 10:16pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Driven:Wetin dey worry this one 3 Likes |
Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
crackhaus:In case you don't know, when someone is the head, leader or 'administrator' of a home that person calls the shots and makes decisions in the home. Mere 'recognizing' that someone is the head of a home can't equate to submission. To answer your question, yes it is possible for two people to jointly own and manage an institution equally provided there's a set rule governing such partnership by which both partners must abide, and which will determine who makes what contributions in the partnership. 2 Likes |
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