Not all relationships are meant to last- a rather
harsh reality in this constantly changing world.
Breakups happen due to many reasons with
the incidence of breakups only increasing over
time. As such, men and women, both have
different reasons to end an ongoing
relationship. In this article, our focus is on the
male side of things. We look at some signs you
should breakup with your girlfriend. We won't
be delving into the details of how to tackle with
relationship issues. Our focus will be on signs
you should dump her right now.

Here are 10 signs you should dump her right
now. Read on...

1. SHES SECREATIVE AND LIES TO YOU OFTEN..
This is one of the first signs its time to dump
your girlfriend. If she lies more often than not
and has lied on major issues more than a few
times, its about time you took the decision of
breaking up with her.

2. She Cheated On You
Cheating on you isn't something that deserves
second thought in making a decision. If she
has cheated on you, it'd only be wise for you
to let go. Your loyalty was taken for a ride,
true, but the ball is in your court now to finish
the game.

3. You just Don't Trust Her..
If for whatever reason you don't trust her, you
must definitely contemplate breaking up with
her. If you delay it, you will be the one to face
the wrath of your own indecisiveness. So if
you don't trust her for whatever reason, it'd
be a rather wise decision to dump her.

4.She Clings On To You Too Much...
The best kind of woman for a man is
somebody who is independent, responsible
and mature enough to handle things on her
own. Of course a real man will not allow her to
fight problems single handedly but that isn't
the point here. If she is too clingy, over
dependent and fails to pay heed to the
meaningful stuff you say, you must consider
dumping her before your energy is completely sapped

5. SHE STEALS AND SQUANDERS
YOUR MONEY..
having to date a nag seem more managable compare to a criminal,
God help you if you are stuck with such a
woman. Chivalry, they believe, is a
compulsive obsession every guy must
possess. You eat a meal, you’re axed. You go
shopping, you’re axed. You talk on the
phone…can there BE anyone else who can be
axed?


6.YOUR SIBLINGS AND
YOUR BEST FRIENDS DONT LIKE HER: its no use dating her when you cant show her proudly to your siblings and loved ones trust me you are breaking yourself emotionally

7.DISRESPECTFUl OR ABUSIVE
Who wants to spend their life hen-pecked, yelled
at, disrespected or abused? Not you. Take a long
hard look at the last fight you had - did she fight
fair, or was it a knock-down, no-holds-barred
event? If she doesn’t respect you now, at the
beginning, she’s sure not going to respect you
later - it’s time to go

8. You are unhappy being in a
relationship with her:
If you are actually unhappy being in a
relationship with her, getting sick of the sight of
her, cry yourself to sleep at night and find
yourself plotting about ways to get rid of her,
it’s definitely time to dump your girlfriend

9. You avoid her phone calls.
You see her name appear on your phone and
either sigh, roll your eyes or break down in
tears. lol ma guy decide fast for even my dads calls dont scare me as such

10. SHE KEEPS TALKING
ABOUT HER PAST
RELATIONSHIPS
She does this when you people are a couple
of months into a relation, it is
understandable; most girls have a tough time
getting over their exes. But be on your guard
if she makes this a habit. Worse still, if she
insists on staying in touch with her ex-
boyfriend(s), that is the death-knell for you
guys. For what reason women do this, we
men know not; do women not understand
that it can jeopardize their present relation?
If they do, do they not care? If they do not
care, why did they bother to get into a
relation in the first place? No person can
love two people at the same time (forget
whatever gold-plated poop that Twilight feeds
you). If her inclination towards her past is
threatening to tilt your relationship out of
balance, the time has come for you to show
her the door.

11. YOU WERE slowly NODDING YOUR HEAD WHILE READING

Some good points there.

WELL done!

11. YOU WERE slowly NODDING YOUR HEAD WHILE READING THESE.

Haha!
I find this so funny.

U make sense somehow

TRADELYN:
Some good points there.

WELL done!

so have you made up your mind??

11. YOUR SECREATS ARE NOT SAFE WITH HER....
worst of it all when shes a garullous gossip

koolet:
so have you made up your mind??

#Still researching...

TRADELYN:


#Still researching...

still single..

HaHA nAwa O, GirLs AlwAys In trOubLe...

.

.

notting could make relationship as such work, its like a new car without engine

Mubbyleey:
HaHA nAwa O, GirLs AlwAys In trOubLe...

guys would b in trouble with such lady

Am about to create a thread on this , my gf started that secret thing this year when she met this guy and the guy knows she has a bf but the guy won't back off and checked her fb and I saw both of dem talking?? What should do its hard going through a breakup cos I love her so much, please wot can I do?? She always tell me she loves me and I don't just trust her again

^^^ wel. she hasnt cheated
she loves you, shes just gaming wid the other dude

everybody loves playing games

Every reasonable noticing these signs should knw its time walk away. Good one OP.

*Me and ma babe also need to talk*

joe17:
Every reasonable noticing these signs should knw its time walk away. Good one OP.

*Me and ma babe also need to talk*

lollz

joe17:
Every reasonable noticing these signs should knw its time walk away. Good one OP.

*Me and ma babe also need to talk*

lol

lalastical iwaju nau

mkpakanaodogwu:
U make sense somehow

some how

Aprime:

Haha!
I find this so funny.

u nodded ryt

wish i even had

OP, what if we want to break up with our bfs ?

but y shuld you its almost val already

Having relational problems? Speak with a clairvoyant about it. No charges or fees,, just the wise counsel of an empathic friend.
Add me on 7F2B25D8.

"There's no such time as now to find peace and love, but the simple and unwise will tumble over what fate has brought them"

Joe

counter thread

waiting

Point number 3 is the only point that has my attention.
Relationships can't survive without trust. When trust is estranged then its no use moving on. *I like to be in a relationship that's alive and heading somewhere*

koolet:
Not all relationships are meant to last- a rather
harsh reality in this constantly changing world.
Breakups happen due to many reasons with
the incidence of breakups only increasing over
time. As such, men and women, both have
different reasons to end an ongoing
relationship. In this article, our focus is on the
male side of things. We look at some signs you
should breakup with your girlfriend. We won't
be delving into the details of how to tackle with
relationship issues. Our focus will be on signs
you should dump her right now.

Here are 10 signs you should dump her right
now. Read on...

1. SHES SECREATIVE AND LIES TO YOU OFTEN..
This is one of the first signs its time to dump
your girlfriend. If she lies more often than not
and has lied on major issues more than a few
times, its about time you took the decision of
breaking up with her.

2. She Cheated On You
Cheating on you isn't something that deserves
second thought in making a decision. If she
has cheated on you, it'd only be wise for you
to let go. Your loyalty was taken for a ride,
true, but the ball is in your court now to finish
the game.

3. You just Don't Trust Her..
If for whatever reason you don't trust her, you
must definitely contemplate breaking up with
her. If you delay it, you will be the one to face
the wrath of your own indecisiveness. So if
you don't trust her for whatever reason, it'd
be a rather wise decision to dump her.

4.She Clings On To You Too Much...
The best kind of woman for a man is
somebody who is independent, responsible
and mature enough to handle things on her
own. Of course a real man will not allow her to
fight problems single handedly but that isn't
the point here. If she is too clingy, over
dependent and fails to pay heed to the
meaningful stuff you say, you must consider
dumping her before your energy is completely sapped

5. SHE STEALS AND SQUANDERS
YOUR MONEY..
having to date a nag seem more managable compare to a criminal,
God help you if you are stuck with such a
woman. Chivalry, they believe, is a
compulsive obsession every guy must
possess. You eat a meal, you’re axed. You go
shopping, you’re axed. You talk on the
phone…can there BE anyone else who can be
axed?


6.YOUR SIBLINGS AND
YOUR BEST FRIENDS DONT LIKE HER: its no use dating her when you cant show her proudly to your siblings and loved ones trust me you are breaking yourself emotionally

7.DISRESPECTFUl OR ABUSIVE
Who wants to spend their life hen-pecked, yelled
at, disrespected or abused? Not you. Take a long
hard look at the last fight you had - did she fight
fair, or was it a knock-down, no-holds-barred
event? If she doesn’t respect you now, at the
beginning, she’s sure not going to respect you
later - it’s time to go

8. You are unhappy being in a
relationship with her:
If you are actually unhappy being in a
relationship with her, getting sick of the sight of
her, cry yourself to sleep at night and find
yourself plotting about ways to get rid of her,
it’s definitely time to dump your girlfriend

9. You avoid her phone calls.
You see her name appear on your phone and
either sigh, roll your eyes or break down in
tears. lol ma guy decide fast for even my dads calls dont scare me as such

10. SHE KEEPS TALKING
ABOUT HER PAST
RELATIONSHIPS
She does this when you people are a couple
of months into a relation, it is
understandable; most girls have a tough time
getting over their exes. But be on your guard
if she makes this a habit. Worse still, if she
insists on staying in touch with her ex-
boyfriend(s), that is the death-knell for you
guys. For what reason women do this, we
men know not; do women not understand
that it can jeopardize their present relation?
If they do, do they not care? If they do not
care, why did they bother to get into a
relation in the first place? No person can
love two people at the same time (forget
whatever gold-plated poop that Twilight feeds
you). If her inclination towards her past is
threatening to tilt your relationship out of
balance, the time has come for you to show
her the door.

11. YOU WERE slowly NODDING YOUR HEAD WHILE READING

Nice piece many true facts in it....kudos to the writer.

chii