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Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by BeauHomme: 10:59pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Guy,if this your story is really true,then...RUN for ur dear life. Ur ex regrets not getting married to you. She knows you're going to move on (and maybe out of her reach). This her suggestion is only a ploy to keep you closeby. Because as long as you're with her friend,she maintains unrestricted access to you. If you heed her suggestion,it's only a matter of time and u'll find yourself in a dangerous love triangle. Besides,hw do u know ur ex's friend is different from her. U know they say "birds of same feather..." 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by sevule(m): 11:05pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Bro you don't have anything to lose. Your ex's best friend is not the SAME PERSON AS YOUR EX! Setup a date with her and try and ascertain the kind of person she is. What is her value system? What are the most important things in life to her? Take it slowly and endeavour to know who she really is. It is obvious that you like this woman so why would you want to let your ex's past destroy what could possibly be a promising relationship? Please judge her by her own merits and not because she is your ex's friend. Finally if you are a christian pray about it as well. Best of luck Bro! |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by greennproud: 11:16pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
dabossman:Boss thanks a mili. |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
ideology: Na so e dey be nwokem. If Tyler perry wey dey write the best marital movies choose to never marry, who come be yo men like me? More grease to you 'air-blow' oh 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by alexbch(m): 11:28pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
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Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Nobody: 11:43pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Beamborla:I need u to promise me Abimbola. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Elinob(m): 11:53pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Dy mst be a plan btw 2 of dem against u, so knw hw u move |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Zeddicus001(m): 11:56pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
In this your write up I believe something is missing.... To what I can tell you is that the girl is up to something else with her friend.... I cannot advice not to go with her friend but be careful cos she might turn you to ATM machine |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Originalsly: 1:02am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Which is it?.....your ex knows the best friend is really good wife material..... or ....your ex wants to have access to you without raising suspicions? Following her recommendation can lead you to heaven....or to hell. This is high stakes gamble. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by ajinaolushola(m): 2:13am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Dnt neglect d offer,it's what has happened 2 me just give her try I count it has love,ur ex girl friend has realised her mistaked. |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by sylverock: 3:41am On Feb 09, 2015 |
My bros b etremely careful, since she's not happy dat u guys didn't marry, she may be up to something, I am currently going tro exactly dis.[color=#006600][/color] sunwa: |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Eluwilussit(m): 4:41am On Feb 09, 2015 |
ULSHERLAN: That's it! 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Aringon(m): 6:05am On Feb 09, 2015 |
sunwa: Don't allow your eyes to deceive you, looking good physically does not and will not make the marriage to look good. Stay off and tell her CAPITAL N n O 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by topeorekoy(m): 6:12am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Ur ex jst want easy access to u that's she introduced her friends to u. |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by udumosam23(m): 6:47am On Feb 09, 2015 |
It all depends on her reason. I actually got married to my ex's best friend. I caught her cheating so we broke up, but remained friends as I never used it against her. After a year or so, I was dating a girl she knew, she just appeared one day and told me the girl I was dating is and will always cheat on me. She blamed me for trusting every Christian girl and admit not all sisters in d prayer band are clean. She recommended a friend which she said she can vouch for. She said she owe me a duty of protecting my marriage since she was the one who failed me. I accepted and observe her for a while, I was convince she was better. Today we r married and I have no regrets. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Edusouls(m): 7:02am On Feb 09, 2015 |
men nowadays over love, and are emotional, we dont use our head again, we use our heart. unlike the men of willpower of those days.. certain things dont need to be seeked advice for, a serial cheat that have wounded ur feelings and heart over the years,even at the extent of eloping with another man during plans for her own traditional marriage.. women are born into this world naturaly faulty, with lots and lots of hidden attributes and baad characters,men have to realize one sure thing about these problem species, women dont and never change, they just hibbernate their ways for some reasons, ur ex is a serial cheat and that she remains for life..dont even take her reccomendations, cos if u do,u have dug ur own grave... Carry on calm, u will see a much better person... 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by holusormi(m): 7:02am On Feb 09, 2015 |
udumosam23: All this happened in the dream , wake up bros , it's monday morning ... Time for work 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Edusouls(m): 7:11am On Feb 09, 2015 |
ivyghel:sister the heart of you women is almost similar to that of a serpent,very deceitful and cunny,trusting a woman is like sleeping with a cobra, talkless of a human snake that have shown the whole reason over the years not to trust her...wrong advice.. |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Edusouls(m): 7:14am On Feb 09, 2015 |
smsdigito: |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Edusouls(m): 7:16am On Feb 09, 2015 |
[quote author=Edusouls post=30560181][/quote]u have said it all brother, life saving advice... |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by sambisa5: 7:23am On Feb 09, 2015 |
To me,,,,,don't marry ur ex- best friend... What for??there r many single girls out there,,,,,,,y must it be ur ex- girlfriend? Forget the physical appearance,,,,,forget the now feelings,,,,think of what she is made up of,her true colour,,,,,,,,,think of tomorrow,,,,,,y not make a decision that u will be responsible for ur actions instead of laying the blames on ur ex in the future and regreting everything..... Bro think well,,pray well about it,,,,,,the answer to this question lies in ur heart,,,,,,, 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by ohaleoghene(f): 8:59am On Feb 09, 2015 |
she just want to have a control button for your life. there is a reason why she is an ex,so why will you want her to choose your life partner ? biko look else where 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by babeflenz(f): 9:24am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Are you serious?? You think a girl that your unfaithful ex recommended for you 'is good'? My dear without anybody advising you, can't you advice yourself? Haven't you heard of the adage that says 'birds of a feather flocks together'? How can an unfaithful partner recommend a girl for you and you think she will be anything different... Wise up my dear.. Think 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by justmenoni: 10:17am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Op please try to focus more on the bolded part: Please i need your honest advice, I'm not seeing anyone for now and the lady she recommended looks good, do i go ahead and key in or should i decline "the offer", as they say " birds of a feather flock together". Is she planning to play a fast one on me ( a revenge mission). What if they are lesbians? and perhaps the cute girl might be the one who is really into the lesbo of a thing and ur ex wants to use her in satisfying u and herself?...Of cos not all ladies are decent but its always better if you dont know her or their past as it will save you alot of headache..is she goes to the market,take the kids to school etc and she came back late u had been wondering if she has branch somewhere else and how are u sure this new cute lady hasn't had a randy relationship as well? and what about ur ex wife current husband do u know if this cute lady was her ex also and dis new lady was the one who recommended ur ex to the husband as a new and responsible girl(a randy cheater)..Bro its better to look outside entirely as you will save urself alot of hfuture headache sunwa: |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by codon: 10:39am On Feb 09, 2015 |
My brother, u don't need any advice. How do u expect your Ex of such lifestyle to have a decent friend? Look for the wife you want to marry by yourself and search for those qualities you desire. Think very very well 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by twosquare(m): 11:10am On Feb 09, 2015 |
sunwa:it is simple. Run for your life and seek your wife far away from her. Her intentions is simple: she hasn't relent in getting you back. Marrying her friend will give her the opportunity to get close to you. Random visitation u know, since she is her friend. And from there she get to seduce you if you're weak. Savvy? 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by ThoniaSlim(f): 3:05pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
sunwa: Why should she even be communicating with you after she's married knowing you both have such serious history? 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by grandstar(m): 3:10pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
sunwa, your ex means well but meditate on proverbs 14:12 and 16:25. Also are you also meditating on proverbs 27:12. Anything that will keep you again in contact touch with your ex is dangerous. She will always love you and believes she deserves you |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by festivity123: 4:07pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
they may be friends but does not possess the same character,i have this friend, we club and go out together and most of the time i go with different girls but he dont carry women,mayb u were good to her and she regret her action and want the best for you,is just a recommendation so the choice is yours, |
Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by vimexis(m): 4:38pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
It's basically simple. U just get to study the bae n be sure she is the real deal n she ain't some green snake under green grass. |
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Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by adeyhariet(f): 6:11pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Well I really think u shouldn't even consider it at all,did u tell her u can't find a lady on ur own without seeking assistance? Birds of a feather flocks together....Once she gets access to you through her BEST FRIEND den OYO be dat |
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