LewisO:
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I didn't call u bad names, i was only upset when u summoned that girls moniker.

No problem!

Lol.. Sweetie no vex

He called me cause it was clowny Mrco.rk being silly and not cause of any other ish ..



Danhumprey.. E no go better for you.. I laughed out loud in class

LadyX:

I don't know any. Most ladies are timid, they won't beat their husbands.

milychocs:



Happy Birthday infectiously happy kentochi
Bless

LewisO:

HBD! LLNP! Man.

Pholayemi:
happy baiday to u. Wullnp

LadyX:

Happy birthday!

alberto2k:

Happy birthday bro!

dechandel:
Lol.. Sweetie no vex

He called me cause it was clowny Mrco.rk being silly and not cause of any other ish ..



Danhumprey.. E no go better for you.. I laughed out loud in class

LadyX:
1. If he's not proud of you
He might feel like you are some kind of *embarrassment* to him. He might also resent you because he'll feel that people look down upon him because of you.

2. If he's possessive
He sees you as one of his belongings, so if feels threatened (like someone might snatch you away from him) he might beat to protect his territory.

3. If he's a mama's boy
He might beat because his mum comes first & he'll see you as trying to break that bond.

4. If he's a flirt
He'll beat because you'll try to put him in line and he'll take it for you trying to control his life.

5. If he's insecure
He feels that he might lose you any time, so you'll find yourselves quarreling over "Who called you?", "Who did you stop to greet?" etc. This might lead to beating.

6. If he's a drunk
When he knocks and you go to open the door, you might receive a punch...Alcohol has a way of interferring with someone's reasoning capacity. That's why when someone is drunk, they can give even their deepest secret.

7. If he uses drugs (Cocaine, heroine, etc). The explanation is same as above.

8. If he gets angry easily/he's highly temperamental
When you are angry you can do crazy things, which include beating. Some people know how to control their anger, but others don't.

9. If he's a chauvinist
He has prejudice against women. He sees them as inferior beings who have no say. If you try to challenge his beliefs/the status quo, he might beat you.

10. If he's a masochist
A masochist is someone who obtains pleasure from receiving punishment. He might transfer that to you thinking that you'll also like it.

These guys are our brothers and will marry one day. What advice can you give to a lady whose partner is apotential *beater* (especially when leaving is not an option)?

johnjon:


Really?
I don't believe you.

alberto2k:


First you gotta ask why

If u sense he's getting upset
Then tryna calm him down

Every man, has "mumu button" and every lady should learn how to use it to calm him down

P.S: someone who truely loves you won't be asking you to do something outrageous

pastorKosiso:
Only a man can tell...

kentochi:


ladyx
thanks alot

LewisO:
Ladyx well put and nice post, u must be a very intelligent lady, i deduce to your post, why can't u go into 'cancelling'? U can make it there.

*Thumb up*

cutiepie01:
'counselling' pls

LadyX:

A lady can also tell. For instance if he doesn't alway want u to accompany him. Or he's not willing to introduce u to his friends.

Bolded:


what problem if i may ask?

pastorKosiso:
And since i don't have a friend?

cutiepie01:
pls lecture me more abt d 'mumu button'

lovat:
A mama's boy acts like being programmed, he doesn't care or respect the wife views, he belives Mama is always right and he sees the wife as a cog in the wheel of Mama's affection. A mama's boy is real hell living with

LadyX:

A keen lady will know whether you are proud of her or not even if u don't have friends (i know u have friends)

pastorKosiso:
I dont have friends dear...

LadyX:

Why don't you have friends? As per your moniker, are u a pastor for real? You mean u don't have even casual friends?

pastorKosiso:
Yes for real by the grace of God. I can't really say why i don't have friends. I have people i chat with like school mates and all that, but i don't really have one guy i can show to you this person is my friend asin knows my where about, visit me and all that. Its cool though. My friends are my congregation, my Facebook friends, you, and other people i exchange pleasantry with.

brito:
If he talks too much, ladies listen if the guy you're dating is talking too much pls be careful. women naturally talks a lot that's how God created us but if a guy talks like a woman there is a problem. If you both are arguing he may want to shut you up by beating. Every man want his gf or wife to respect him by keeping quiet when he's talking, that seems impossible if he's talking . LewisO hope you don't talk too much cos its a no, no for me.

nellyalph:
My in-law that apologises for every of his wrong doings now beats my sis, throws her bags, change the locks and takes his children to his mom. So my my dear, it doesnt show for face lyk AIDS....
Jus pray for the right person

kentochi:
Guys ma plus 1 year today.
Can somebody wish me happy birthday!.
Am so happy.