LadyX:
1. If he's not proud of you
He might feel like you are some kind of *embarrassment* to him. He might also resent you because he'll feel that people look down upon him because of you.

2. If he's possessive
He sees you as one of his belongings, so if feels threatened (like someone might snatch you away from him) he might beat to protect his territory.

3. If he's a mama's boy
He might beat because his mum comes first & he'll see you as trying to break that bond.

4. If he's a flirt
He'll beat because you'll try to put him in line and he'll take it for you trying to control his life.

5. If he's insecure
He feels that he might lose you any time, so you'll find yourselves quarreling over "Who called you?", "Who did you stop to greet?" etc. This might lead to beating.

6. If he's a drunk
When he knocks and you go to open the door, you might receive a punch...Alcohol has a way of interferring with someone's reasoning capacity. That's why when someone is drunk, they can give even their deepest secret.

7. If he uses drugs (Cocaine, heroine, etc). The explanation is same as above.

8. If he gets angry easily/he's highly temperamental
When you are angry you can do crazy things, which include beating. Some people know how to control their anger, but others don't.

9. If he's a chauvinist
He has prejudice against women. He sees them as inferior beings who have no say. If you try to challenge his beliefs/the status quo, he might beat you.

10. If he's a masochist
A masochist is someone who obtains pleasure from receiving punishment. He might transfer that to you thinking that you'll also like it.

These guys are our brothers and will marry one day. What advice can you give to a lady whose partner is apotential *beater* (especially when leaving is not an option)?

brito:
If he talks too much, ladies listen if the guy you're dating is talking too much pls be careful. women naturally talks a lot that's how God created us but if a guy talks like a woman there is a problem. If you both are arguing he may want to shut you up by beating. Every man want his gf or wife to respect him by keeping quiet when he's talking, that seems impossible if he's talking . LewisO hope you don't talk too much cos its a no, no for me.

LadyX:
1. If he's not proud of you
He might feel like you are some kind of *embarrassment* to him. He might also resent you because he'll feel that people look down upon him because of you.

2. If he's possessive
He sees you as one of his belongings, so if feels threatened (like someone might snatch you away from him) he might beat to protect his territory.

3. If he's a mama's boy
He might beat because his mum comes first & he'll see you as trying to break that bond.

4. If he's a flirt
He'll beat because you'll try to put him in line and he'll take it for you trying to control his life.

5. If he's insecure
He feels that he might lose you any time, so you'll find yourselves quarreling over "Who called you?", "Who did you stop to greet?" etc. This might lead to beating.

6. If he's a drunk
When he knocks and you go to open the door, you might receive a punch...Alcohol has a way of interferring with someone's reasoning capacity. That's why when someone is drunk, they can give even their deepest secret.

7. If he uses drugs (Cocaine, heroine, etc). The explanation is same as above.

8. If he gets angry easily/he's highly temperamental
When you are angry you can do crazy things, which include beating. Some people know how to control their anger, but others don't.

9. If he's a chauvinist
He has prejudice against women. He sees them as inferior beings who have no say. If you try to challenge his beliefs/the status quo, he might beat you.

10. If he's a masochist
A masochist is someone who obtains pleasure from receiving punishment. He might transfer that to you thinking that you'll also like it.

These guys are our brothers and will marry one day. What advice can you give to a lady whose partner is apotential *beater* (especially when leaving is not an option)?

MrCork:

Dammytrager:
11. if he is a Chelsea fan

MrCork:


...notin wrong with slapin woman...serrriously...how else are a real man sopose to get respect except u g@y....and acordin to opion poll....all men belifs all women shud be kept in line...pirrriod!!!! (no oofeinse)

brito:
If he talks too much, ladies listen if the guy you're dating is talking too much pls be careful. women naturally talks a lot that's how God created us but if a guy talks like a woman there is a problem. If you both are arguing he may want to shut you up by beating. Every man want his gf or wife to respect him by keeping quiet when he's talking, that seems impossible if he's talking . Lewis.O hope you don't talk too much cos its a no, no for me.

TDstarr:
see your ideology, the talkative men keep talk their mind out to reduce anger, but the quiet ones can do what will make the wife to be shocked cos you dont know his mind. am the quiet type with very hurt temper and am working on myself, thats how my dad also is, when him and my mum is arguing he will just leave the house cos if he loses his temper, the whole house will explode

MrCork:


...notin wrong with slapin woman...serrriously...how else are a real man sopose to get respect except u g@y....and acordin to opion poll....all men belifs all women shud be kept in line...pirrriod!!!! (no oofeinse)

TDstarr:
see your ideology, the talkative men talk their mind out to reduce anger, but the quiet ones can do what will make the wife to be shocked cos you dont know his mind. am the quiet type with very hurt temper and am working on myself, thats how my dad also is, when him and my mum is arguing he will just leave the house cos if he loses his temper, the whole house will explode........ i sometime do things i dont expect myself to do cos of resentment thats been building inside due to not talking......righ now when my girl offend me i just tell her straight up .......and ignore her....

LewisO:

I don't talk too much, i do less talking if u see me real, but my thumb is just too swift and sharp i can type 10,000 words at a go without stopping, my writing do alot of talking for me.

Off Nairaland am a very gentle guy my friends and families knows that or those who are close to me.

Before i say a word, anything i wanna say now i would have think about it 5mins before talking and reason very well about it before i lay my astute, that's just me.
What do u expect from a Medical doctor we do less talk most of us but not all.

kika23:


So you would slap me?

johnjon:
Any signs of a potential husband beater?

kika23:


So you would slap me?

kentochi:
Guys ma plus 1 year today.
Can somebody wish me happy birthday!.
Am so happy.

LadyX:


it's wrong. Who slaps the man when he makes a mistake?

MrCork:



.. which wrong?? how?....Sweery don't gerrrit. Its the man that slaps and not other way round....do I make sence?

LadyX:

No you don't make sense! Don't encourage guys to slap their partners!

LewisO:
Ladyx well put and nice post, u must be a very intelligent lady, i deduce to your post, why can't u go into cancelling? U can make it there.

*Thumb up*

LewisO:
Ladyx well put and nice post, u must be a very intelligent lady, i deduce to your post, why can't u go into cancelling? U can make it there.

*Thumb up*

MrCork: