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Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Deejavuu(f): 10:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Hmmm-most times those type of guys have self esteem issues..They wanna put the blame on money,a guy that knows his onions dating wise will not find it difficult approaching a lady."kpatakpata"she go say no she nor want... Abeg i rest my case!! 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Deejavuu(f): 10:28am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Lols,but you sef know say you be pro for bad mouth..but seriously i was just stating the fact. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 10:30am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:I have repented and wouldn't want a sinner take me back. Please watch your utterances - Truckpusher for Christ 2015 . |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Dotwillis1(m): 10:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy:misinterpretd? lolz @automatically. even if yhu put on a cloth sew with the highest currency, a fool can't automatically fall in love at dhat instant; now, yhu know ofcourse love is a feeling, and different things can make the feeling to surface even if it aint true love... Yhu also need to understand we v different types of girls with different personalities, and mindsets. ...maybe yhu havnt met or hrd about ladies whom not just anybody can have them if yhu aint up to their expected standard. Some will even be like 'Bleep love, as far as he is able to attend to my needs' we also have high self esteemed ladies that are all 'bout big taste naijaboiy:oh lol, maybe yhu havnt met ladies of such. Believe me sincerely, there r lots of 'em yhu capture their heart with such. Have yhu ever been involved into sme kinda ladies conversation about guys who tryna woo them, and then downgrading a particular guy... Yhu see i understand yur argument, buh for yhu to conclude money doesn't attract ladies is fallacious! This is flesh we talkin 'bout 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Fatalveli(m): 10:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:Hey sweery that's harsh, blame me not, its what I've experienced and what I'm made to believe... I also know its improper that's why I sticked around here I need all the convincing I can get, not confusing |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by naijaboiy: 10:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:Lol,,i believe some rich guys still get BOUNCED despite everything. I know there are girls who can do such. |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 10:33am On Feb 24, 2015 |
See as naijaboiy just dey wait like lion dey wait for person wey no agree with am ,make him chop am. I jump am pass 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Deejavuu(f): 10:34am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Amen somebody,preach pastor .. It will be easier for it to snow in Sahara desert than you to repent ..I will quote you don't worry ... 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Dotwillis1(m): 10:35am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Deejavuu(f): 10:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Lool,you must comment o..You must nit agree,what the thread states is that money is not the ist thing to get a real woman,(emphasis on real) to love you.. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:Please take me serious ,behold a new truckpusher for the old things has passed away and he that is in me is the giver of everlasting peace. Tamara. Habishiki jah Jehovah rafah.....kai! the spirit of God is in me . |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by mirexxx(f): 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dotwillis1: |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Deejavuu(f): 10:39am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Okay i believe you. |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by naijaboiy: 10:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:Money is not a Necessity in ATTRACTING a Lady. It is not a 'MUST-HAVE' in getting a lady to fall in Love with you. You only capture their material Heart. When they want to Love,,your money is Bullshit. The fact that a lady likes material things only doesn't mean whoever is providing her with such things should not be romantic. When she's tired of you she'll leave. After all there are guys who have money but can also make sure a lady love them for their personality and not their wealth. Those ladies who end up marrying for only wealth most times don't end well. Make your research on that. 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Nobody: 10:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
xynerise:literarily rolling on the floor!! |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by naijaboiy: 10:52am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: oga na discussion na. I go like hear your point of view too,,even if you go disagree |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Dotwillis1(m): 10:54am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy:this is what i wanna hear! ... Now yhu v just supported the argument with a good premises. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 10:55am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:You know my stand na . |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Nobody: 10:56am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Fatalveli:Fallacy of hasty generalisation, @Emboldened. Prolly, you've been hanging out with broke äss girls who think having sex with guys should give them money - it equals prostitution. Many girls are actually independent and provide for their boyfriend/hubby. An independent well-to-do girls have sex because they wish to do so, and it's a mutual consent between both parties without anyone thinking she's at a receiving end... ***** Original poster, It's usual for guys on this forum to flex their muscle and brag about money and it's a girl decision that determines what tickles her fancy. Sometimes, Y'all should stop linking girls that married older men as "marrying for money" instead of love. Relationship has its bad side and ending. That a girl married for love doesn't mean at the end of the day, she won't have a misunderstanding with her husband. It's vis-a-vis between marrying for love and money. I can attest in some cases, money equals love not that money bought it - same way male physically qualities(handsomeness, height, penile endownment etc) equal love to girls who are freaked about it. To each on their own.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by damseyl(f): 10:57am On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 10:58am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy:If you're rich you don't need to flaunt your wealth before any lady - people will always know that you're doing well ,so tell me how guys flaunt their wealth before ladies? 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by damseyl(f): 10:59am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:seconded |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by damseyl(f): 11:02am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:are you a philosopher abi na behaviourist? |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Nobody: 11:05am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Deejavuu:No wonder girls chop them dry and stick to the mature guys. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by naijaboiy: 11:06am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher:Yes we say "when you are rich you don't need to stress yourself,,the ladies will start coming" But do you really need to make that 'paper' before attracting a lady will be a piece of cake to you? Note that i'm not denigrating the essence of making money. Money is very essential even without women. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Nobody: 11:13am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Fatalveli:We are talking about love and he is talking about sex. Why won't they demand money when they notice you only want to nyash them. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Hazardd(m): 11:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy:i understand you sha geting and also marrying lady and also is also part of every guy desire and achievement and thats also fulfillment Even before you meet a lady,in her mind she has already concluded whether if you are rich or broken,and their is big chance that she will reject you if you broken.Abeg who want to suffer, so let it rest here..... |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by naijaboiy: 11:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Hazardd:Ok sir |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by Truckpusher(m): 11:23am On Feb 24, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Well, I got your point but I also want you to know that sometimes if not all the time money defines the class of people you'd come across and have some kind of relationship with ,be it casual or otherwise and this is a fact.It is worthy to note that your value as an individual in a capitalist environment like ours is usually tied to what you can afford in the society and this is sad but it is the truth.You can't entirely blame people that run with that mentality that you must be rich to be able to find love even if it is not true love like you rightly said that a woman will always leave you even with your wealth but the question is how many of our sisters and mothers has actually left having it at the back of their mind that it's a cold world out their and what guarantee do they have that they'll find true love even if the fellow can't afford the basic necessities of life? I understood your point but thinking that people will change that mentality overnight is nothing but a wishful thinking - Have you bothered to ask yourself why girls in their early 20s are getting married to men in their 70s with four wives at home ? Everybody wants security and money is that security and in any capitalist ideology people will always use what they have to get a better deal to satisfy their needs and the game of sex and women isn't left out of it. You can find through love with or without money but how sure are you that this is what you actually wanted when you begin to meet people with all that cash in your pocket to waste. Don't blame Nigerian men only it's a global problem wherever you have capitalism holding sway.After all, it wasn't like this in the 60s and 70s even in the 80s. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by damseyl(f): 11:32am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mirexxx:did you just called him 'my love' ? |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by mirexxx(f): 11:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
damseyl:yea i just did u got a p with that? |
Re: Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. by damseyl(f): 12:02pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
mirexxx:not at all |
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