naijaboiy:

The mentality has really eaten soo deep into naija men.

Someone will see a very beautiful lady and he'll just feel there is no way he can attract this lady except he flaunts his cash.

Truckpusher:
Hian! Don't even go there.
Iffa I hear, na Abuja.

Deejavuu:


Lols,but you sef know say you be pro for bad mouth..but seriously i was just stating the fact.

naijaboiy:

so you mean to tell me that when a lady sees you are living big she automatically falls in Love with you?

naijaboiy:

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Really?


in your opinion you've captured her heart because you spent. Lol. A lady who knows what she wants won't get her heart captured by your money. She'll spend with you but it doesn't mean you have being able to attract her to the extent of making her fall in Love with you. It goes more than that bro.

Deejavuu:


Forget about where i live..Your comment i quoted shows the way you see things...

Deejavuu:


Hmmm-most times those type of guys have self esteem issues..They wanna put the blame on money,a guy that knows his onions dating wise will not find it difficult approaching a lady."kpatakpata"she go say no she nor want...

Abeg i rest my case!!

Truckpusher:
I have repented and wouldn't want a sinner take me back. Please watch your utterances - Truckpusher for Christ 2015 .

mirexxx:
my love has spoken

Truckpusher:
See as naijaboiy just dey wait like lion dey wait for person wey no agree with am ,make him chop am.

I jump am pass

Deejavuu:


Amen somebody,preach pastor ..

It will be easier for it to snow in Sahara desert than you to repent ..I will quote you don't worry ...

Dotwillis1:


lol, the truth need'd to be told

Truckpusher:
Please take me serious ,behold a new truckpusher for the old things has passed away and he that is in me is the giver of everlasting peace. Tamara.

Habishiki jah Jehovah rafah.....kai! the spirit of God is in me .

Dotwillis1:
misinterpretd? lolz @automatically.
even if yhu put on a cloth sew with the highest currency, a fool can't automatically fall in love at dhat instant;

now, yhu know ofcourse love is a feeling, and different things can make the feeling to surface even if it aint true love... Yhu also need to understand we v different types of girls with different personalities, and mindsets.
...maybe yhu havnt met or hrd about ladies whom not just anybody can have them if yhu aint up to their expected standard. Some will even be like 'Bleep love, as far as he is able to attend to my needs'

we also have high self esteemed ladies that are all 'bout big taste

oh lol, maybe yhu havnt met ladies of such. Believe me sincerely, there r lots of 'em yhu capture their heart with such.
Have yhu ever been involved into sme kinda ladies conversation about guys who tryna woo them, and then downgrading a particular guy...

Yhu see i understand yur argument, buh for yhu to conclude money doesn't attract ladies is fallacious!
This is flesh we talkin 'bout

xynerise:

Lol...don't underestimate the power of mouth odour my brother....It destroys relationship faster than infidelity

Truckpusher:
See as naijaboiy just dey wait like lion dey wait for person wey no agree with am ,make him chop am.

I jump am pass

oga na discussion na.

I go like hear your point of view too,,even if you go disagree

naijaboiy:

Money is not a Necessity in ATTRACTING a Lady.

It is not a 'MUST-HAVE' in getting a lady to fall in Love with you.

You only capture their material Heart. When they want to Love,,your money is Bullshit.

The fact that a lady likes material things only doesn't mean whoever is providing her with such things should not be romantic. When she's tired of you she'll leave.

After all there are guys who have money but can also make sure a lady love them for their personality and not their wealth.

Those ladies who end up marrying for only wealth most times don't end well. Make your research on that.

Deejavuu:


Lool,you must comment o..You must nit agree,what the thread states is that money is not the ist thing to get a real woman,(emphasis on real) to love you..

Fatalveli:
Every guy in Lagos should attest to these, and please say the truth.

Can you have sex with your Girlfriend without spending up to 10k for her.

Even the teenagers on the Island are still gonna request money for hair, clothes and some other stuffs from you before they finally open there legs.

Me as a person, my life is simple, I don't spend on them, I'd rather go to a sex-worker and pay the sum of 1k.

iceberylin:
See as you just dh fool yaself

naijaboiy:


oga na discussion na.

I go like hear your point of view too,,even if you go disagree

Kachisbarbie:
Thank you.
I'm happy this is coming from a guy.

Just as the poster below me said, only immature guys reason that way. Sadly, we have a lot of them on NL and in Nigeria too.

Dotwillis1:
this is what i wanna hear! ... Now yhu v just supported the argument with a good premises.

Deejavuu:


This is how you know the premature babies..

Truckpusher:
If you're rich you don't need to flaunt your wealth before any lady - people will always know that you're doing well ,so tell me how guys flaunt their wealth before ladies?

Fatalveli:
Every guy in Lagos should attest to these, and please say the truth.

Can you have sex with your Girlfriend without spending up to 10k for her.

Even the teenagers on the Island are still gonna request money for hair, clothes and some other stuffs from you before they finally open there legs.

Me as a person, my life is simple, I don't spend on them, I'd rather go to a sex-worker and pay the sum of 1k.

naijaboiy:

I wonder who would want to be poor at all even when women don't exist.

Make your money bro and don't make it because of women. Let it be for your fulfilment.

When you meet a lady,,let her fall in Love with you and not your Money.

I just tire sha

Hazardd:

i understand you sha
geting and also marrying lady and also is also part of every guy desire and achievement and thats also fulfillment


Even before you meet a lady,in her mind she has already concluded whether if you are rich or broken,and their is big chance that she will reject you if you broken.Abeg who want to suffer,

so let it rest here.....

Ok sir

naijaboiy:

Yes we say "when you are rich you don't need to stress yourself,,the ladies will start coming"

But do you really need to make that 'paper' before attracting a lady will be a piece of cake to you?

Note that i'm not denigrating the essence of making money. Money is very essential even without women.

mirexxx:
my love has spoken

damseyl:
did you just called him 'my love' ?

mirexxx:
yea i just did
u got a p with that?