Dimples192:
Look I'm not gonna lie because I'm attracted to powerful men and Money equals power. What's attractive is that this man has earned his money. It shows characteristics that are inspirational. I look at a man's shoes to determine if he's worth my love.

naijaboiy:

Thank You!

Well it seems some guys don't understand the point and they are mis quoting.

We shouldn't use our wealth to attract a lady doesn't mean we should pretend we are poor.

We can attract girls without flaunting our wealth.

Deejavuu:


This is how you know the premature babies..

Deejavuu:


Which guy pays his girlfriend to sleep with her except he is dating a prostutute.and if i may ask what part of LAGOS ISLAND are u talking about? You don't just generalise.

Well no need to stress myself arguing with you your last statement says it all..SMH for ur mentality

jnrbayano:
I have already said that, "a lady that accepted you for money will also leave you for money" in a thread of my own.

Op, I agree with you that the real men never believe in this overused cliche of "money being the only thing used to woo a lady" however, I postulate that the source of money to an individual is key to getting and keeping a real lady.

To be honest, you don't expect any right thinking lady who is advanced in age to just settle for a guy because of good looks, personality and all. They really want to know; what you do for a living, whether your personality have the propensity to generate money in short and long run etc. That's part of planning for the future.

As for the youngsters, they are most likely to be swayed by money, looks etc. They have less experience and are still testing the waters. As for this group, the cliche is so true about them and rightfully so. I'm afraid, this is the group you may be in their age level Op. The schoolgirls! They are a multitude of people.

While I was still in school, I did have some money to part with, the looks and the right personality to go with it. The three never failed to deliver one time or the other.

I'm not writing to be a superhero, the Superman and Robinhood are still alive in Hollywood. Not taking their office.

naijaboiy:

When I said you didn't comprehend my original post you accused me of insulting you. Now see what you posted above which is totally out of my main point.

I'm talking about getting a girl to LOVE you and you are talking about paying a girl for sex. Which is totally different.

Learn how to approach women without necessarily flaunting what you've got,,get them to like you even when you are not really financially stable at a point they will still stay.

When you finally start dating her you can start using money to spoil her.

There are tons of guys who have had their ways with women without spending at all and it's not a lie or magic. It's simply because they know their ways around women.

Change your mentality bro.

eye2sabi:


nice lyrics bro.
a Don williams follower spotted.

hensben:
Akin you are right....I have come to notice that a girl you attract naturally stay more longer and the relationship is most time always at peace than the one you attract with money and flashy things.

LewisO:


When it comes to laying good astute about sensible post like this to help matters, u will be nowhere to be found, now u finally did so this is what u can offer to the post. Does that means u are down to the bottom of iQ?

Just saying, no offense!

Fatalveli:
You're a female, are you living on the Island, and whereas I ain't saying you give your boo money before sexing her, all I'm saying is that she won't open her legs if you haven't spend a dime on her, unless she is okay financially...

You'll probably be baffled when I said I do have sex with sex-workers. In as much as I love seeing people in love, I hate falling in love. It hurts so much and body no be stone, shey you get

iceberylin:

Goat....
Read the post below mine

Oh! I can see u wanna deviate right. The best for u is to shut your thumb.

freecocoa:
I want to just point out that, not only money equals power, I'm attracted to powerful men too and it takes more than money for a man to be powerful. I know men with money I won't ever date.

Some of these men with money are obnoxious illiterates who have no respect for women or even people in general, they have no dress sense, they can manage to wear very good shoes/clothes in an outrageous manner and are generally annoying.

What I'm saying in essence is that, a neatly dressed, intelligent,confident,well mannered, enlightened/exposed, focused man with little or not so much money but lots of prospects is a very powerful man.

Dimples192:
I agree with you that there are different types of powerful. For example my father was a military man and he was powerful because other men and people dealt with him differently because of the way he carried himself.

A man with money (some) is powerful because people react to their position in society. The point I was trying to make is that these men (some) work hard, they are motivated, driven and the are very attractive qualities. I have no respect for a gold digger who is only with a man for his money alone. But I like the saying " I'll go where the rich hang out and Fall in love."

The point Naijaboy made is the problem lays when money is the only motivation for such relationship and I agree. Don't flaunt it to get women to like you but don't stop making it financially.

Deejavuu:
Nice one Op..

Sadly this is the general belief most of our Nigerian men have,and when you try to counter it,they term you a "pretender".

Money makes everything easy,true that, but why do we still have failed marriages of rich guys .?.I will always say it money only impress lazy girls,a girl that knows what she wants and goes for it to her money is just a bonus..

hajjiahmed90:
true talk............... if u use money to woo a lady, it will never last, cos wen d money go or d man bizness fall apart.......SHE WILL RUNAWAY

knightsTempler:

freecocoa:
Cool.

I've always loved that quote about going where the rich is and falling in love, wise saying.

pbs4real:
cute u,u re an arsenal fan ryt?