Things have now taken turns and the numbers of mature/intelligent dudes on this section keep dwindling day by day.

We ALL have immature moments on this section either by our comments/threads but I know a (huge) rising number of people who live in that idiocy moment all their life.

I personally believe that trolling makes this forum lively and interesting but doesn't mean that every skull head should extremely display folly or stupidity by attacking people without knowing their status

Many however claim they are mature yet they talk as if they still being bre.ast-fed by their mothers. They use offensive and provocative words on those who share contrary opinions/views. In fact, you can never win them in an e-fight because they are good at it

Without further ado, let's get started

How To Spot Immature Dudes In The Romance Section

1. They Desperately Force Themselves On Ladies
Since this is a forum NOT a dating site, thanks to Se.un for introducing the PM feature.

Sending PMs to a lady that catches your fancy is NOT a bad idea but immaturity is when you have sent avalanche of PMs without prior notification and she intentionally did not reply you, instead of you to give yourself some self worth and dignity, you still went ahead and quoted her begging her to please reply your PMs. Haba !!!!

2. They Act As Ladies Puppets
Advocating for the ladies is NOT a bad idea but mouth thrashing your fellow dude because he hits the g-spo.t is just the greatest height of idiocy.

I just shake my head in disdain when I see some skull heads yet dummies publicly supporting ladies thereby referring to me as female hater just because I'm not mean when it comes to saying the truth

The truth is, you don't even need to treat your fellow dudes with haughty contempt before ladies develop interest in you. Once you stand for the truth not minding if it will hurt them, that's when they develop interest in you

3. They Refer To Others As Being Jobless
Even if you work in Shell/Chevron, that's not a good reason why you should use it to inflict pains on those who are going through trying times. When a N1,000 note drops, you will never hear a sound; but when a N1 coin drops, it makes an audible sound to the world

All I see around is immature dumb guys who refer to other people as being jobless at any slight provocation.. Funny enough, the same person who refers to you are being jobless spends minimum of 15 hours bullying and derailing every thread

4. They Crave Attention By Force
Many dudes claim they don't give a damn if they are rated amongst prominent nairanders yet they crave attention as if their lives depend on it. However, they act like tigers, they derail every thread, bully and attack those who share their views/opinions (I don't want to start mentioning names here)


In as much as I respect both young and old according to my inbred manners, except in rare cases when people push me to the wall. An eediooot insulted me few days ago, as if that was not enough, he started using provocative words on my parents and I began to wonder if he was given proper home training at all

He further said that 2face does not hold a degree yet he can feed my parents

The message he was trying to pass across was that those who hold Bachelor's degree should throw it in the Lagoon because 2face doesn't hold a degree yet he's rated amongst millionaires. What a quack mentality ? *The dumbest statement I have ever heard in my life*

5. They Laugh Histerically At Other's Grammar
Having a good vocabulary is the dream of everybody but aiming it to mock other is a childish act.

The mature ones do not make a joke of people's wrong use of words/ wrong spellings, rather they humbly correct people's blunders as no one is barely flawless when it comes to writing; but all I see around are English professors who spend time picking loopholes to bash people **The main reason why I like naijaboiy, LewisO akinsandeez and ronald4lyf**

6. They Laugh At Those In Need Of Advice
A white man says a problem shared is half solved but a problem now shared in the romance section becomes a problem shared that brings forth humiliation..

A dude once opened a thread seeking advice from mature minded people on how to handle a situation, only for an immature dude who was awarded 10MB from MTN stormed on the thread and started saying claptraps

7. They Condemn The Good Work Of Others
Those who do things make mistakes but I will never make the greatest mistakes of those doing nothing. Many bre.ast-fed eeediot are quick to condemn and rubbish what took you eternity to compile. If it's as easy as people think, why not sit down and do some brain racking, type, do proper editing and let's see if you would come up with a flawless write-up.

As a matter of fact, condemning the works of others does not make you intelligent, rather, it's an exhibition of immaturity and foolishness

8. They Claim Their Parents Are Rich
Many are born with silver spoon but they don't need to prove it when people provoke them. Only silly and immature dudes who have little or no understanding of life refer to others as being poor on a public forum like this. **smh**

9. They Claim They Know All
Nobody is an island of knowledge so you can't be good in every aspect.

It's better to go through some write-ups without dropping comments. Why ? You learn more when reading than typing.. In as much as you want your comment to appear on every thread, then it's just one of the immature acts we are talking about

Let who have ears hear

Written by: tosyne2much