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Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 10:19pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Ishilove: lushcream has given you the answer.... |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Ewuro4: 10:53pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Lushcream: Jesus Christ |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by TV01(m): 11:16pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
..yes. London can be one of the loneliest cities in the world if you are not connected or embedded in a wide social circle Dalai:Think about the outcome you want - and what comes with it, the benefits and the burdens. You talk marriage, which is good, but a miss-marriage is the loneliest place. Are you mature enough to marry? Can you cope with the responsibilities and pressure. You are working but can your salary - even if only in part - sustain a family. Children can happen very soon and very suddenly. Is this in response to the situation of "your mates/friends in Nigeria"? And be sure of what you want in a spouse. Dalai:Not true. They are here. You problem is locating and meeting them. Dalai:If you socialise "a lot" and you are meeting 1 Nigerian lady every 20 or 30 outings, you are obviously looking in all the wrong places.. There is a critical mass of Nigerians in the UK now. Finding a spouse here should not present too much problems for a considered and focused person. Dalai:The dynamics of life in the UK mean once you start a family it tends to becomes the focal point of your life. The 9-5 is pain, but it gets most everyone here. But Nigerians still socialise and congregate - a lot in fact. Dalai:No problem at all - why should there be? Dalai:Go where they congregate; make friends at many levels, grow your acquaintances and network. The more people you meet and get to know the more you are likely to come across someone suitable. It's not rocket science. I have two for you if you please; 1. Where do you live - and have you considered moving? 2. How long have you resided in the UK and are you planning to stay here or relocate to Nigeria? TV |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
If you hardly meet nigerian girls in london, where do all these Nigerian Nairaland Londoner guys meet the ones they are always bad mouthing as b*tches and hoes? Anyway Goodluck in your search. If you're open minded and not the type to buy into stereotype, you could meet a lady sooner than you expect. Dalai: 2 Likes |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 11:39pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
TV01: you have two? can you reveal their bio-stats? |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by doremi123(f): 10:17am On Mar 24, 2015 |
or better still, import your own date |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by TV01(m): 10:57am On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: ...2 questions! If na "unmarried women", I have a truckload. Unfortunately they tend to approach me for help when things are turning k-legged and expect miralces. I have repeatedly told them, I'm Jnr Jesus not Jesus But if you are looking let me know your spec . Wait 0, what happened to Sisi' Sarah? TV |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 11:36am On Mar 24, 2015 |
TV01: truckload of unmarried women? are their flowers "pluckable" or have they wilted away?
sister sarah wouldn't mind - every sarah needs a hagar. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Nobody: 11:46am On Mar 24, 2015 |
Its easy. You could: Go to a good church..Although there are a lot of pretenders in church these days but there are still a few good girls. Try enrolling into postgrad school.. hang out in libraries, interact with course mates, go to parties (especially house parties) Join a gym. Great way to meet fit and healthy people. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 24, 2015 |
@dalai Did you say salsa? Where do you dance in Central London? Cos you won't find Nigerian girls in salsa places in London I was the Lone one amongst many black Africans. Unlike other areas where it was assumed I was Nigerian simply because I was black, in Salsa clubs partners would ask where I was from. More Nigerian women in the Nigerian salsa scene. Probably in their thousands. Kizomba,bachata and formal ballroom also popular. I would say if you don't meet Nigerian girls in your circle then consider dating outside. Nigerian women are PLENTY oh but not in your circle that's for sure. Just taking a trip to Romford,barking,Dagenham,Upton park, dalston on market days dem plenty there. Lol Open your mind to other Africans too eg Ghanaians. Predominantly Nigerian churches have lots of Nigerian women asides RCCG try Hillsong (off oxford street) By the way please edit your title, which one be 'in the London' |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 12:11pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
salsera: only heaven knows what black women love doing. i must have used 50 different gyms in the last 5 years, the highest number of black women i see there at any point isn't more than 2. it's always black males & white folks striving to keep fit. when health issues start creeping up on them in their 40s, you see them running from one spiritualist to another for help. all they do is sit in one spot, gossip, eat and fart like a constipated buffalo. 1 Like |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by pickabeau1: 12:13pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: sambarry.. stalking since the Garden of Eden na wa soon na you go dey complain |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 12:19pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
pickabeau1: sambarry loves you! she's just too shy to admit it. the only thing she loves more than you is owambe party. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by pickabeau1: 12:28pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: LoL... She don't mess up with her party rice and jigijigi |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Nobody: 12:48pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Op, I'm bothered by the "The" before London. Please modify. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by bookface: 1:56pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
lolaredvelvet: I agree that this is probably the easiest route, but we don't even know if OP is Christian or not. Try enrolling into postgrad school.. hang out in libraries, interact with course mates, go to parties (especially house parties) Enroll in a postgrad school just to meet a naija girl in the UK? Join a gym. Great way to meet fit and healthy people. Naija girls in gyms? I have never met one before? Not a single one! |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Dalai: 2:14pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Thanks for your response everyone! I have edited the tittle. That was a typo because i initially intended the title to be "Dating in the UK can be difficult". 1 Like |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Shock(m): 2:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: I think this is dis-respectful. You can simply judge all black females from your own unique experience. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 2:28pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Shock: my experience is far & wide & it spans over 4 continents. it's not a myth clawed out of the stratosphere. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 3:51pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
They like the movies and owanbe. coogar: |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 4:22pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
cococandy: you have just described sambarry! |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: Well I'm like that too. Just that I go to the gym in addition to all that. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 4:28pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
cococandy: i am afraid, no one can beat sambarry in owambe parties. she has sewn 25 different aso-ebis this year alone. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: Make she enjoy jare. You don't know what you have until you lose it. If I can find one owanbe to attend in a year in this place, I will looove it. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Travel on the C2C + keen eyes + Metro's "Rush Hour Crush" = created opportunity. Just a thought, I see a lot of West African babes on that line 1 Like |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Chillis: 4:34pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: God!! coogar now i know the kinds you role with. Do they also fart in the sheet for you? consider it a kind gesture. 1 Like |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Chillis: hahahaha you know i am addicted to health & fitness. if she doesn't love working out, she's not for me. cococandy: there's owambe everywhere na - where are you based? NY or GA? |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 4:38pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: WA. I don't see any of that. I haven't even met one Nigerian to speak of. |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Chillis: 4:40pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar: coogar, i imagine you to be fat o. and you confirm it by the bloated buffalo phrase if she fart for you, give her double. I know you can do it! dont disappoint me |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by coogar: 4:42pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
cococandy: WA? you would be lucky to find any african there, let alone nigerians. too far for africans. Chillis: i am the fittest african male you can ever meet. even my instructor is jealous of physique. i for send you pictures but "it's not that serious" |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by Chillis: 4:45pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar:na lie. Pics or.... just show the one pack make we see |
Re: Dating In London Can Be Difficult by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
coogar:I've met an Ivorien lady. A sweetheart she is. I have the address of one two Igbo sisters related to my aunt that live here too. Although quite far like 200miles I just hate to drive too far. One day when I have time, I will go find them and we will organize owanbe even if na only three of us and their kids and husbands there |
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