bruno419:
assuming u are attracted to a lady cox she have brains......u started dating her blablabla...eventually she starts being too demanding nd shez equally a virgin..what do u stand to gain

bettercreature:
There is nothing like a relationship without sex,if your girl friend refused to have sex with you pls pick race,you are just ATM machine

NewsHub:

Must you sleep with her?

NewsHub:

Must you sleep with her?

Enegod:
A relationship without sex isn't a relationship. It's a friendship and someone is a sucker.

Prettydiamond:
Sex is not love. Sex is nt what makes a relationship to stand. Once dere is love, trust commitment and understanding. He has gained a lot. So 4 those who call a sexless relationship a boring one...think aback!

epelumi42:


Missclasssy? The same lady I bashed for insulting an op that expressively requested that his thread not be opened? I didn't know you had this smart side of you. I don't regret bashing you, but I must commend this. Its cool.

baysmith:
Boring boring boring.... Meanwhile, fuel Is scarceeeed !!!

1stola:

What about copy and paste...
Bros, u go quick easy to deceive o

Emenandez4lyf:
my gal is more richer, she doesnt demand all she just want is my undying love
Meanwhile, we kissed on many occasion.

missclasssy:
A relatioship should never be a parasitic one where one partner feeds and gains at the expense of the other.
It should be a symbiotic one which benefits both parties.

The primary reason for attraction is the defining factor as regards this issue.
If all that attracts a guy to a lady is her sexual appeal, then I don't see why he would be expecting to gain something else from her.

There are other things that should attract a guy towards a lady, such as the level of education she has attained, her wit, a talent she has, the way she relates with people, a vocational skill she has acquired, her wealth, etc.
When the some of aforementioned is used as criteria for attraction coupled with her physical attributes, then definitely there wouldn't be need to ask this question.

Velocitron:
I don't think just 'cause you're in a relationship, you're entitled to your partner's body, neither are you entitled to demanding gifts.

Personally, I intend on staying a virgin until marriage. Not for my husband or anyone else, but I believe I'm doing a favour to myself. Sex is a huge deal. It's practically the power of creation right there in your hands [size=4pt]or your genitals [/size] and it's a risk I'd be happy to take in the safety of marriage.

However, it's always important to set boundaries of a relationship early on. It's better to tell your partner early on that you just want a romantic relationship rather than a physical/sexual one or vice-versa. And if it doesn't sit well with your partner, let them find someone who wants the same thing they do, and you do the same.

Velocitron:
I don't think just 'cause you're in a relationship, you're entitled to your partner's body, neither are you entitled to demanding gifts.

Personally, I intend on staying a virgin until marriage. Not for my husband or anyone else, but I believe I'm doing a favour to myself. Sex is a huge deal. It's practically the power of creation right there in your hands [size=4pt]or your genitals [/size] and it's a risk I'd be happy to take in the safety of marriage.

However, it's always important to set boundaries of a relationship early on. It's better to tell your partner early on that you just want a romantic relationship rather than a physical/sexual one or vice-versa. And if it doesn't sit well with your partner, let them find someone who wants the same thing they do, and you do the same.

bushdoc9919:


Well....the benefit of knowing each other for who they really are....and not just through one dimension.

temmym4:


Bros.
If your Pr*ck is working well
If your romance fuse located at the center point of your head is not blown yet
If your heart is not built with a concrete,
If your eyes isnt blocked with a strong human firewall to see pretty women
if you are not an alien, A monk or a painted horse from a novel
If you dont want to be like a snake that passed on a rock surface with no traceable path. (i.e you dont wanna come to this world and go without an issue)
Then relationship is needed sir!

temmym4:


Bros.
If your Pr*ck is working well
If your romance fuse located at the center point of your head is not blown yet
If your heart is not built with a concrete,
If your eyes isnt blocked with a strong human firewall to see pretty women
if you are not an alien, A monk or a painted horse from a novel
If you dont want to be like a snake that passed on a rock surface with no traceable path. (i.e you dont wanna come to this world and go without an issue)
Then relationship is needed sir!

Ganoderma:



Why do guys think that the only thing they can get from a girl is sex.

[s] I spend so much time and energy defending the man folk that we also think with our brains and not just the two balls in between our legs. [/s]

But guys una too dey fall my hand. Is sex the only thing in this world?

So all the hair bills and phone recharge is just so you could get in between her legs for like 10 mins max? Seriously!?

Prettydiamond:
Sex is not love. Sex is nt what makes a relationship to stand. Once dere is love, trust commitment and understanding. He has gained a lot. So 4 those who call a sexless relationship a boring one...think aback!

1stola:

You all say these yet, all you're after and do in your every day life is; work on improving/increase your sex appeal. That is all you work on in deceit of " I want to look good"
You wanna look sexy but you don't want sex

Velocitron:


Going by your logic, 'you want to have sex but you don't want to get pregnant/STDs'?

It's perfectly normal to want to look attractive, it's an innate quality of most living things for attracting mates. Flowers and birds (e.g. peacocks) and other animals all have their own methods of 'courtship display'.

Enegod:
A relationship without sex isn't a relationship. It's a friendship and someone is a sucker.

1stola:

Going by your own logic too,
'' It's perfectly normal to want to look attractive, it's an innate quality of most living things for attracting mates."
You are contradicting yourself.
All these animals do it for one purpose : SEX
Do your research.

Joshuadon:


Are u a spiritualist


Weird

missclasssy:
A relatioship should never be a parasitic one where one partner feeds and gains at the expense of the other.
It should be a symbiotic one which benefits both parties.

The primary reason for attraction is the defining factor as regards this issue.
If all that attracts a guy to a lady is her sexual appeal, then I don't see why he would be expecting to gain something else from her.

There are other things that should attract a guy towards a lady, such as the level of education she has attained, her wit, a talent she has, the way she relates with people, a vocational skill she has acquired, her wealth, etc.
When the some of aforementioned is used as criteria for attraction coupled with her physical attributes, then definitely there wouldn't be need to ask this question.

1stola:

SMD for you
So the only thing you gain is saliva exchange?
You're a toy.

Emenandez4lyf:
Taa shut d fvck up what do u know about luv. The real fact is that am in love, go sit down joor

bruno419:
She wants you to recharge her phone, pay her hair bills, flex, go shopping, yet she says she is keeping for her husband

My question is, what will the guy benefit?

Velocitron:


Sex is the end goal, I think we both agree on that. When to have it in a relationship (before or/and after marriage) is where we differ.