bosun11:
As a lady , if u dating a guy and u ate from his pot in his house and cant wash d plate , u might end up loosing such a guy . "Courtesy demands you wash the plates " being the lady....Its as simple as that

RedBenson:


Does the word "a fiancee" refer to a visitor?

suzzy16:
and straightening d sheet means what,a good fiancée bah

Moana:
i didnt see anywhere where the OP said she visits the house daily? Please show me
so because it was a one time incident it means it will be repeated? Are u not being prejudicious? how sure are you that she wasnt the one who prepared the meal they all ate?

cold:

It's a reflection of oneself. I honestly can't stand untidy people (i'll refrain from using dirty). But like i said,maybe it's just me. Others might see it differently.

Kingsleyinfo:


No it doesn't mean that, it simply means good hygienic habits.

Imagine I am on leave, I decide to pay my elder brother a visit

A week later his fiancee comes visiting, and has dinner with us, then leaves her dishes in the sink for me to wash.

I trust myself sha, I go just siddon dey watch TV till my brother go wash the plates by himself.

If he coughs, I will give him a piece of my mind and get a hotel to spend the night... What nonsense.

Women are not slaves, neither are younger brothers. If she could use it, she could at least clean her own and her fiancee's dish.

I personally don't allow girlfriends use my kitchen, but when you get upgraded to fiancee 1.0 walai you better act the part otherwise na to uninstall straight. I nor fit for 'had I known'

emperorchedda:


Even if she prepared the meal, doing the dishes should go with preparing the meal

babygirlfl:
A guest is a guest and should be taken care of. She is a guest and should be looked after. If she lived there, then she could do some chores.

When I have guest whether young or old or an in law, I host them appropriately. When people live with me, then they can do chores.

Some men say they left/will leave a woman who does what the fiancee did. Women, these kind of men are men you should run away from unless you are of course one of these women who believe in becoming a cleaner for their in laws. When there are men who want to treat you like a partner, why settle for backward thinking men.

freecocoa:
If only you know.
*in ygritte's voice* you know nothing Redbenson.

Ibsgal:


All seriousness aside, I love that GOT reference.

babygirlfl:
A guest is a guest and should be taken care of. She is a guest and should be looked after. If she lived there, then she could do some chores.

When I have guest whether young or old or an in law, I host them appropriately. When people live with me, then they can do chores.

Some men say they left/will leave a woman who does what the fiancee did. Women, these kind of men are men you should run away from unless you are of course one of these women who believe in becoming a cleaner for their in laws. When there are men who want to treat you like a partner, why settle for backward thinking men.

nepp:

You weren't raised right. At all. I'm sorry

The problem with nigerian men are nigerian parents. They fail to raise their MALE kids right

khia:


10000000% on point.

Moana:
bless you

Moana:
you are better off losing a guy who belittles the role of a woman. Its as simple as that, let him be another woman's headache.

RedBenson:


Nothing to know. You're hopelessly single.

gunners160:
Hmm,It sims u guys dnt undstand the story .The elder broda owns the house nd d younger broda stays with him since he is a student. THE YOUNGA BRODA BROUGHT A lady to D house,ate with D lady and Left the plate. AFTER eating,the lady left the house leaving the plate unwashed.The elder brother challenged the younger 1 instead of apologising he got angry and wanted to fight is elder brother. . .

RedBenson:


By all ramifications, it's wrong, very very wrong for a lady to eat and leave the plate for an in-law, a male in-law for that matter to come wash the plate. Dont you have respect for men folks? If you try that, it means you can as well leave the plate you ate for your husband to come wash it while you cross your legs at the sitting room watching nollywood movie. If he agrees to do this, then the next you remind him of your undies that had been soaked for days and need to be washed and get dried.

TheSonOfMark:

Obviously there are some (pseudo-)feminists on this thread.
It's time to remind them of the harsh reality of their existence.

freecocoa:
You are a disgrace to whatever schools you attended, you are so shallow, the ignorance oozing from you is stinking up the whole place, you don't even know the definition of a visitor, I could go there everyday for all you know but I remain a visitor as long as I don't live there, you slowpoke.

I guess 'husband' is what it all boils down to in your small mind, your kind should not be allowed to raise children(especially girls) tufiakwa.

RedBenson:
A neighbourhood brother was seriously angry with his younger bro this morning when he realised that the plates his fiancee ate with when she visited last night was not washed by his younger brother.

The guy may have purposely refused to wash the plates because he believes it's an insult for a lady (be it his senior or junior) to have eaten from a plate and lacked the basic womanly manners to leave it unwashed.

Since the dude who's a student and well over 25yrs realised that a lady, who should be respecting men would rather try to bring him down to that extent and had thus refused to wash the plates.

This issue actually caused an uproar between the two brothers up to the point the elder brother was telling the younger one "finish your school asap and leave my house...nonsense".

Well, the elder brother later went and washed the plates furiously angry without his sibling. The fact that he even supported the lady on such act is what surprised everyone.

The question is, what RIGHT does a lady (be it a wife or fiancee) have to keep the plates she ate with for her brother in-law to come wash for her? Who should rather do that to who? Smh @women of nowadays. No iota of manners in them again.

Sacluxpaint:


Hoe-kay

RedBenson:


How? So men should begin to do women things before you women would see men as rightly raised? Who should wash plates in the real sense? Be sincere to yourself.

BabaOneChance:

Ok, now I think I understand ur point of view, but before I conclude on that, let me just ask this: how would you view this issue if this had been the lady's first time of visiting?

repogirl:
okay, so..... What if it had been the other way around? If it had been the younger brother who had come visiting and left his plates, I guess it would have been okay for her to wash it?

For me, I believe she was wrong but doesn't mean the younger brother is right either. It is obvious he has no respect for his brothers wife to be. If he respects the brother, he has to extend the same to the wife to be.

Dassall!

suzzy16:
as far as guys u guys re nt married yet,she can do as she pleases

freecocoa:
You are just a dolt, how can you know? Being single is not a bad thing btw, some people actually are, by choice, grow some sense my friend, it really doesn't hurt.

Just true-to-type. When confronted with well-articulated facts or compounding questions, you lots resort to being vituperative and hurling scathing invectives. As predictable as clockwork.