Ishilove:

Which web link is that?

The one you included in ur previous post quoting me.

AreaFada2:
The one you included in ur previous post quoting me.

Sorry about that. Please scroll up and read

Ishilove:
Sorry about that. Please scroll up and read

hbd ...Happy birthday .tho u no free move my topics go front page those days.

Iamsynord:


hbd ...Happy birthday .tho u no free move my topics go front page those days.

Just seeing this.

Thank ya

Old things have passed away

WTF is diz?

it's not enough for us all to just be telling her "leave", "pack out"
etc.

some are so affected by what they've gone through to think straight.

please Daystar Church has a place for ladies in her shoes around Magodo.
let her visit the place or the church if she can't locate it.

also Lagos State has an agency for women going through domestic abuse and or violence that we should put as options to her.

Ishi how have you been?
great job.

First of all, I am sorry for the situation you have found yourself in.
You were naïve when you were used by that man so none of this is your fault.
Staying with that man is not the best option. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you and worse than that , he physically abuses you.

I will advice you try your best to find a way to move out of that house.
You don't need to depend on him for survival. There are other things you could do. You could start up a small business so you can take care of yourself. There are a lot of business ideas you could pick from, especially in your school environment. You could also learn a trade or vocation.

In addition to that, there should also be other guys that might have been asking you out and all that. There could be one that would be ready to take care of you. Perhaps you should try to open up a bit. I am not saying you should sleep with men, or sell your body to them, no, all I am saying is you make a couple of friends and perhaps you might find someone to love and who would love you too.
You can't fight this battle alone.

What about members of your extended family, friends in and out of school. There should be someone you could talk to and who could be willing to help.
Just open up to someone close, you will definitely feel the load lifted from you shoulders.

I don't know how committed you are to your religion, but in cases like this , religious organizations can really be of help.
You could talk to your religious leader about everything. They could help.
Even the fellow members of your religious organisation, whether it's a church or a mosque, can also help you.

Young lady, we as humans always face various challenges in our lives. But we should never give in to them and lose all hope.
There is still light at the end of the tunnel. Everything will be okay,
Just keep on trusting God and be prayerful as well.

The statement above me make sense.. but sweet it wud have bn if the guy talk abt finance..let not forget she can't don't av money to maintain her self.

So in my own opinion I think I wl suggest let raise a little fund for the victim so she can start any petty trade within d sch campus; So I enjoined all nlander working class shu contribute at least something to help assist is not just by comment.

This nairalander mailed us this rather pathetic story. She requested her identity be hidden because not only is she well known, the man in question is also a nairalander.

lord have mercy.

itstpia8:


lord have mercy.

amen

The story is pathetic but I still blame her. From what I can deduce, the babe is not ready to work menial jobs to survive, she prefers to rely on her BF for survival regardless of what she goes through in his hands.

dats exactly what I saw in her...she didn't start school immediately. hair dressing would have favour her if she had learnt it

How far with the babe?

Una happy new year