Gurgle:


LOL ok night has fallen

maybe tomorrow

Gurgle:

LOL ok night has fallen
maybe tomorrow

Taiwo20:




so wheres the shadow now

Gurgle:

Oh! oga sorry I forgot

Taiwo20:



*yinmu*
see you madam......babysitting and other duties aking its toll....

btw how's family?

Gurgle:


Lol sorry, I actually wanted to take one when I stepped outside but I completely forgot

yeah theyre all ok, thank you and how are yours? how is your kehinde

Taiwo20:


okies....they are all fine. He's fine too.

naijaboiy:
Well sometimes you can't blame the ladies.

There are some factors which you listed above that they have little or no control over.

Like the issue of bride price in the east.
[b]I'm not from the east but what I could gather is that this bride price is more like a tradition to them and they can't start changing it. Most of the time the women are not allowed to have a say in the matter and that is how they lose prospective husbands

The family members don't care about the effect this bride price issue of a thing is affecting their girls.

You see a very beautiful woman who is still single simply because her family has put a very high price on her head and no man is ready to come and pay such an amount to get married to her.

As for some of the other points,,the women who are guilty of it should better change.[/b]

Gurgle:


Ok

ive uploaded a picture6

its of my elbow

Taiwo20:



I disagree....It looks more like your thigh... in fact it's your tie

marriedvirgin:


na you be bastard,all your children shall be bastard and the children of your children shall all be bastard.

dumo1:


Sorry it didn't work out man. M sure it still hurts. Did she get married 2 sum1 else?

harry509:
2 cut my story shot. Most nigerai ladies has fish brain. They jst av dis mindset let already made guy cum my way *empty brain pity 4 dem* and they Rr so lazy dats y.

Princess4eva:
Unless we want to look away, this problem is very rife in our society. Personally, I am married but I av a friend am worried for, she is way older than me, she has just finished her masters program which in my opinion makes it harder to get a suitor. Men are always intimidated by successful women. Meanwhile, she had to return to school after waiting endlessly for a man who isn't forthcoming.
Many ladies are unwilling to start from the scratch with any man, always looking for readymade. It doesn't work that way most of the time. Everybody cannot marry rich husbands. Also, even financially stable guys are reluctant to settle down, always looking for flimsy excuses to avoid marriage-
you know - Casanova things. May God help us.

chayomastic:
is it wrong to want more for urself. why ask a lady to consider a conductor.....later when the lawyer lady and conductor guy start dating ull say love is blind.. ..or ul say d woman is d breadwinner nd rides d man...its difficult nt to ride a man wen ur giving him pocket money.
the conductor can marry a pepper seller.....marriage has class
ladies dnt necessary look for made men....we just look for some1 in d same level as us....it wnt hurt if hes level is higher but dedinitely not lower.

harry509:
quite udastndn, but hw many ladies or let me say girl's Rr ready 2 plan life wit a urg guy who jst cumn up? Jst few of dem let me 3% @ of 100. Bt girls dis days see's evry guy dat aproach dem as an oportunity 4 dem 2 careter all their need's. U kw wat am 2okn abt. My x is an example.

chayomastic:
hmmmmm.....a close friend dated a guy who is not too financially stable...she accepted him cuz she loved him. she even borrows him money...only for the guy to be spending her money on another girl, later dumping her.
so dnt blame a lady that decides not to date struggling men cuz most guys dnt realize wen they have diamonds.

tmann626:

nooo. she's dating anoda guy bt it doesnt hurt any more. i v gotten ova ha

Gurgle:


yeah everybody keeps saying that. Im going to change it

but its my arm, really

Toks2008:
Desperate for a husband


For many years i never knew how ladies in their very late 20s,early 30s and late 30s feel when it comes to the issue of settling down with a man until recently when i had the cause to really get close to many of them.

Yes many of them will always insist that marriage is the least of their worries but deep inside,most of them are hoping desperately to have a man to settle down with and my acquaintanceship with some of them made me decide to write this short piece hoping that when they see and read it,they will come to understand that their desperation is self inflicted and until they learn to put themselves at a vantage point,they will only hope and wish for a long time that a man comes their way.

I have witnessed many deliverance session for ladies all in the name of looking for a husband but after a close look i come to realize that they are their own problems and this is as a result of the society that have brainwashed them and rather than dealing with the problems,they end up running from from one prophet to another and from one deliverance service to another and some have become a shadow of themselves as they turn to emergency sister dressing like masquerades,going without earrings,make up and even on low cut all in the name of looking for a man.

Please when next you see such ladies,help me inform them that deliverance won't solve their problems and even when we know that there are spiritual hindrance to getting a spouse,most times what we need is a re orientation of our minds,ways of life and culture.

1.Many ladies will not say yes to a man if you are not ready to do traditional wedding,legal wedding,white wedding,blue wedding... Please tell me how easy you expect to find a man in this harsh economy.

2.As an Igbo lady,you are naturally at risk unless you drive it into your man's ear that in your own family they don't ask a man for crazy bride price otherwise you will only see men come into your life without discussing marriage and you will think its a curse from the village but its only as a result of the funny belief that Igbo ladies are expensive to marry.

3.How many ladies can start a life with a struggling man? I guess part of the prayer point during deliverance is that GOD should bring a ready made man to propose to you.Mumu

4.Funny doctrinal belief is another hindrance and many ladies who run to conservative churches in the bid to have a man end up in more bondage.I had a lady friend in her 30s who i admire so much but she goes to one of this conservative churches and there was a time i was so sick and i was expecting her to visit but she never did and when i told her i was angry,she was so quick to say she can not visit me at home and i was like FOR REAL? Even a sick guy? i even told her that she would have at least come in company of a friend and i lost interest in the friendship instantly and i wonder how she will get a good man with that mindset.

5.Rough past is another hindrance and many ladies just believe that if a man loves them the past does not matter.

6.Lack of wife qualities is another issue and i wonder how a lady who does not have the required quality to be a mrs to a man will be desperate fore a man because even if any man comes,he will eventually leave you until you work on yourself.

The bottom line is that many ladies we see in churches today who tend to be looking for a husband are their own problems. So stop been desperate and work on your mindset and you will be surprised that in no time,a good man will walk into your life and marry you.

Eze2000:

can u or anyone else pls give me the name and service days of any church in Lagos with a high population marriageable single ladies.

aspirebig:


I can sense fully grown frustrated single, claiming to be a married virgin online. See the yeye name.You better mind your frustrated life.

Calling you a bastard is an understatement. You are a big fool. Coming online to form,. Abi you wan miss road, ehhh, you no get elder for house?



If you dont want me to add more frustration to already frustrated single life.

Animal like you.

marriedvirgin:

You are a dog and it is your life that shall be frustrated forever.It shall never be well with you forever.Carry your anger else where and kill your family with it because you have no use to even live.Useless thing !!

aspirebig:


So you are still talking. Who released you from psychiatric hospital?

It is not well with you already, and so shall it remain with you, your unborn generation, your parents, if you even know them or have any, now and forever and ever.

Your username alone, implies that you are not sane. A completely confused, frustrated, insane, sick, poor and smelling fellow. I can even perceive your smell from here, huummmmmm.

marriedvirgin:







You idiot .You are a mad man yourself.Your entire generation shall be wiped out before you open your eyes.You shall never see good on this earth.You talk about my parent,let me give you this,your parents shall meet their doom before you know it.You dog!!! Since you want to continue insulting me I am ready for you. Suffer thing !!.It is you and your family that would smell and you know what it means when a human being starts smelling ! Stupid thing !! Tlk again, I am ready for you.You piece of dirt !! mad man


you name says aspire big ?? For where ??From what to what keep teasing me and I would give your share you cheap rat !!


I pity you , because you don't even know what you are doing.

You started this, and you will surely get what you deserve. Next time, you will learn to "talk less". You don't even have any parents. Bastard. You keep saying dog, as a married virgin , Obviously you are married to the dog.

No sane human will be a married virgin.

marriedvirgin:



I have decided that I would set an example on you so that you would know i'm not kidding.