tiamiyukunle69:
Let her hire a cook. Strictly for cooking.....preferably a male cook

a male cook that will fvck the wife later?

dd

Its a misnomer in the African context... But I really don't see any fault in it. Best thing is for the man to make her learn what the family likes to take regularly...

The man is a weakling! The woman better change or .............
The man should also reject the food bought by the woman from the canteen and stop eating such nonsense. They say the way to a man's heart is food prepared by his wife.

honestly won't take that o
she must cook or we both cook
later the kids will join the kitchen crew

teddybear007:
Since the lady is always tired wenever she comes bck from work, d man should atleast try and be of help to her in d kitchen in whatever way he can. Btw this story get as e be, d lady no dey cook on sundays abi she dey purchase food ni on dat day? Gracias.

. What about weekends or come to think of t,she might be a bad cook....

marriage palava



I hate marriage


*walks out of thread*

By their posts you would know their Sex

The man can help out sumtimes....if the wife is not the lazy type...atleast he understands the nature of her job before marrying her....thats what those vows are for!

miriamgroove:


I SAID MY OPINION...HOW DO MY OPINION AFFECTS U.

Chei

KAYNINI:
h

. For hen

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..

Useless contribution to the subject matter. I do not think you are properly brought up and lack normal upbringing hence your useless comment.Do you know what it meant for a married man with children to be out here to complain of such issue?

What kind of a woman would be buying food from canteen when money is been given to her for the family? She will NEVER EVER last one day in my own house.

Sign of responsibility!

KINGSAMURAI:
This is a vital scenero in most homes today, a married man in my neigbourhood with two young kids is complaining that his wife always purchases dinner for the whole family to eat and its getting embarassing to him, he gives the wife money to cook but she will not cook but prefare purchasing meal from a canteen for the man and the children to eat, bringing excuses that she is tired after returning from work in the evening. Now, the husband wants to divorce the woman. "please women in the house is the man overeating or the wife is at fault?

THAT IS A STVPID REASON TO DIVORCE YOUR WIFE

THE BEST IDEAL IS TO TALK SENSE INSIDE HER HEAD, BUT IF THE TALKING DIDN'T WORK,

BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER IT WORK LIKE MAGIC.

redcliff:

Chei

. Asin d grammar alone can scare sme1 away....

heediots be like >>>>>>>>>>>

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..

miriamgroove:

I SAID MY OPINION...HOW DO MY OPINION AFFECTS U.

chisos... Blunder oooo... Where the ELS students?

Ddonoflife:
. For hen

you be class prefect

KINGSAMURAI:
it affect me

Chei...na wa o..you and your quotee should take it easy

Understanding n sacrifice are vital parts of every relationship... Both parties should sit n analyse wat z best for dem understanding each other's Part n ve willing to sacrifice. Divorce aint d best option

Idydarling:
...and to think this made front page?

what? bcaus it against d women folks?

I feel this is how marriages of this generation would turn out esp with ladies of this age.

But wetin you dey look when una dey date. The woman is simply at fault, buyin canteen food even for the kids. Haba. You fit guys can get an house-help or something but even that could be dangerous.

sonofananimal1:
THAT IS A STVPID REASON TO DIVORCE YOUR WIFE

THE BEST IDEAL IS TO TALK SENSE INSIDE HER HEAD, BUT IF THE TALKING DIDN'T WORK,

BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER IT WORK LIKE MAGIC.

. I tink beating her is the stupid thing to do in that kind of situation....come to thnk of it,she might be a bad cook buh I support d idea of talking

sonofananimal1:
THAT IS A STVPID REASON TO DIVORCE YOUR WIFE

THE BEST IDEAL IS TO TALK SENSE INSIDE HER HEAD, BUT IF THE TALKING DIDN'T WORK,

BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER IT WORK LIKE MAGIC.

Dude.... This is 2015..

sonofananimal1:
THAT IS A STVPID REASON TO DIVORCE YOUR WIFE

THE BEST IDEAL IS TO TALK SENSE INSIDE HER HEAD, BUT IF THE TALKING DIDN'T WORK,

BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER IT WORK LIKE MAGIC.

LOL now dats weird

bringing excuses that she is tired after returning from work in the evening.

OP in this case I think the husband is insensitive to the needs of the wife! At times I help my wife to do dish and house keeping, when she's really tired I cook,.... Though not as yummy as hers
Once she puts to birth I'll bath and prepare the kids for school, by so doing you help your wife You never can tell what she's facing at work . In moments like this you lend her your shoulder to rest on

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..

Seriously ....... Is that your final answer?

Women of today are very lazy, troublesome, insulting and stubborn!!!!
It is better for the man to marry the caterer in the canteen since the wife is virtually useless!!!

KAYNINI:

you be class prefect

. For where

.

phyllosilicate:
Seriously ....... Is that your final answer?

pls ask am 4 me

Typical Nigerian man will buy you food nd take you out yo have dinner before you marry but after the wedding he expects you to cool all his meal and never eat out. thats none of my business dou