My mum then.. She would beat poo out of you.. You no go try am again

[color=#770077][/color][i][/i]talk some sense into him. He's growing up.

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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Sorry maam, but I have to say he is hooked forever. Just pray he matures and see the whole theatricality in it. And yeah! Tell the dad

yettybaby112:
Opin aye tide finally, You have to change his school because your talking to his senses might not yield anything due to bad friends in school.

which school dosent have its own share of bad friends.. Changing his school wont slove the matter.

And rape conbine with homosexual.

ahamonyeka:
Before you know it he becomes an addict in masturbation.

KoloOyinbo:
This is perfectly normal for a 14 year old boy!

It does no harm whatsoever and this is despite the efforts to prove otherwise by many fake religious zealots etc.

Explain calmly to him that porn is fantasy and not real and while casual sex is fun if done carefully (i.e. with protection) and mutual respect it is much better in a proper relationship.

I would be MUCH more concerned at the beating and mental abuse inflicted on the child.

u funny ooo,, which one is that porn is fantasy, he is watching it live u are here saying fantasy, there are no film tricks in pornography oo, brotherly..

Nairalanders, permit me to revive the defunct, buried crew that proclaimed just one phrase of exclamation when we read such news.


12of such stories related to sexual perversion on fp in 3days and surely we all cant wait, but scream

(puts mic to large crowd watching)


Crowd: (in revived unison) [size=48pt]ENDTIME THINGS!!!![/size]


my oh my!

U ABSOLUTELY DID THE RIGHT THING BY BEATING HIM.THAT WAY HE WILL REALISE HOW BAD AND DESTRUCTIVE WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY CAN BE.ASIDES THE FACT THAT ITS ADDICTIVE,ITS ALSO DEVILISH AND IF NOT WELL MANAGED,IT CAN DESTROY THE BOY.PLEASE DONT HESITATE TO TELL THE FATHER SO THAT BOTH OF U CAN SCOLD HIM AND ALSO TUTOR HIM ON THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF PORN MOVIES.MY FRIENDS WIFE CAUGHT HER TEN YEARS OLD DAUGHTER WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AND SHE FAINTED.UNFORTUNATELY THE WIFE'S YOUNGER SISTER CAUGHT THE GIRL LIKE 6 MONTHS EARLIER,BUT THE LITTLE GIRL BEGGED HER NOT TO TELL HER PARENTS.WHEN THE MUM CAUGHT HER,
THE YOUNGER SISTER OPENED UP TO CATCHING HER EARLIER.THE HUSBAND WAS MAD AND STOP TALKING TO THE WIFE'S YOUNGER SISTER(NOW ENEMIES FOR NOT TELLING THEM THE FIRST TIME).WHILE THE LITTLE GIRL AFTER SERIOUS BEATING,DRILLING,QUESTIONS AND ANSWER SESSIONS WAS TAKING TO PASTOR FOR COUNSELLING.

Iyaqueen:
I just hate this NL when it comes to Advise. ....not NL but some useless comments from useless pples

Try and go to oyinbo website you will learn more....

Thump up to the pple that hv Advise her well

ur grammer alone can make someone advice wrongly

Hmm...sounds familiar @storyline.

Just don't make him feel like an Island, trust me, he'll do worse...

Draw him closer, show him love, and try to explain to him why pornography is bad..

Not everything needs beating!
He must be going through a lot...nd his friends must be teasing him...try to make him move with friends dat will influence him positively.

I'm sure...it will go a long way in changing him.

Tell his dad please!

zinachidi:
or are u sure u are regretting not watching it when u were young

I was raised to face the challenges of the morden day 21st century. I have no such regrets thankfully

We're always quick to beat a child!

Have u ever thought of telling the child abt pornography and other things he needs to know are bad b4 now?

We just assume...oh he shld knw wat to do and not..

When parents don't even teach sex education.

Ahhhhh , omo kekere ton wowokuwo

MzzTega:
Can't porn be banned in Nigeria?

which technical knowledge wey naija get to banned am. Nigeria is greatly lacking behind.

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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beating or collecting d laptop or changing his skool wont make him change. He is acting his age. So what he need is sex education. U need to let him get aware of all about sex and d reason Y he is to stay away from it. If not, he will stop watching @home and shift base to a friend house where u wont hav an idea what he is doing. It a pitty parents never want to discuss sex with their kids. It wrong

Cutehector:
The society caused it... And d friends he has... And the phone he has....

wen d secular musicians v turned their videos 2 soft cores n nolywood ain't helping matters, u wud expect such 4rm children of nowadays..
he will still watch it even if u cut his hands, u just v 2 wait until he meets God personally

We have to wait for them to commit an offence before we tell them what's wrong and what's right??

Useless African Mentality!!

F.u.ck the useless home training we think we give...its all H.orse shit!!

We only know how to beat kids like criminals, forgetting that no one is born with character...everything we do, we learnt it here on earth!!

Next thing they'd say is "when u grow up, u'd be grateful for all the things they did to u"

Like seriously?

U've beaten him enough, u still wanna take him to his dad to face the firing squad? Dats not instilling discipline, dats instilling fear!!! And d child will stop watching porn, not because its bad but because his daddy will beat him if he does!!

H.orse shzit mentality!!

When I asked why 6 year old these days look 15, they said it's good nutrition, and development.

I asked why will a 8-9 year old jump into Jss 1 , they said I'm too backward. it's development.

I asked why don't most families (especially with young parents ) have early morning devotion again, they said ahh... you want my boss to sack me. They called it development.

I asked why are kids these days do enclosed indoors to the extent they don't know their neighbours, they said it's for security reasons, and to avoid bad groups ( While they do they worse indoors ). Its development and it shows u are rich.

Why will u send an underage to driving school, when will he stop driving? They said it's in case of emergency ( the emergency turned out to be bashing someone else car). Its a good development.

I asked again why eateries flooded every weekend, from Saturday to Sunday ( instead of preparing sweet Sunday rice at home for the family ). They said no time.

Why are kids allowed to talk anyhow to there parents, they said ehhn yes it makes one free n open to his parent.( I nearly slapped a girl of 5 that told her dad shut up in a mall). Its development.


So this too is a welcome development, allow the boy to enjoy himself.
What on earth will a 14 y/o be doing with a laptop.
Where he has all textbooks, can go to computer lessons, can play Xbox. Instead u gave him a laptop that even a final student in my class doesn't have (not good sha ) .

let's enjoy development.

My opinion is that since he has already seen it, you have to engage him with sexual discussions if you have not been doing so. Don't let him see sex as something bad and he cannot discuss with you or his dad rather be open to him and please be very honest with him. With his consent, make sure his dad knows and by all means tell his dad talk about it and you will forever be glad you did. Note when the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable.

Also try and keep him away from porn and let him understand it will only mess up his mind, get to know if he has a girl friend or someone he like etc...basically win his trust and guide him accordingly Pr 22:6. Sex is not a bad thing, it is beautiful but abuse of it is bad and the havoc it has caused is simply overwhelming. Ciao

zinachidi:
u funny ooo,, which one is that porn is fantasy, he is watching it live u are here saying fantasy, there are no film tricks in pornography oo, brotherly..

Porn is fantasy. People just don't have gang bangs in public etc etc like in those films and not all sex is like the porn stars fake it.

That the issue with porn. It neglects relationships etc but if you realise it is for entertainment only then it is harmless.

Ah! I don't want to sleep angrily toonight too!

I'm just trying to imagine what the poor boy must be going through now...

All dis pipz saying flogging is a waste of time obviously haven't chopped my papa beating b4...the kin beating wey ur brain go reset 1 time

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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First of all, she should be grateful and rejoice he is straight.

Secondly, it is normal for a boy of that age. What is abnormal is easy access to it, thanks to the world's so-called "liberals".

only here to read comments

Do u tink beatin him will stop him from watchin porn wia u ar not. I think u nid not to beat d boi so dat he can be sincere nd trust you. Anyway u av beaten him. All u nid to do now is to let him knw any act of immorality damages d soul and makes d soul far away frm God. And make sure u instill fear of God in him.

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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The OP who posted this in confessionsnigeria is truly old.
LOL at the question "how is a 14 yr old thinking about sex"?
Is she serious? Like is she even a serious human being with that question?

Children that as from age 10 are already competing in inter-yansh sports.
That na the age where guy-pikin dey look for every way to stop ein prick from to dey jack anyhow for public
I started my own totology since I was 6 yrs old, with actual girls....no dulling.

I mean come on, you should have warned your children against these things much earlier than fawking 14.
In fact, Gone are the days where any 12 yr old does not know what "eating booty like groceries" means.
They will teach you more about the thing than you knew was possible with your old azz self.

I couldn't handle Secondary School without a phone. The internet is used everyday in school starting from primary over here..

HenryDion:
How is buying the little lad a laptop help in his studies? There are tons of textbooks, dictionaries and pedias to buy for him. In fact, i don't even support buying a secondary school dude a multimedia phone. If u feel like u need to be in contact with him. Buy Nokia touch. Believe me, kids don't need friends to negatively influence them cause the internet has taken the couch. Spend more time with him, be his friend, tell him to invite his friends over so that u will get to know them better. And again, u need to tell ur husband about it. At this stage in the boys life, he's passing through a crucial stage. He needs your support. Changing school won't solve the problem cause evil is everywhere.
Shalom

You caught your 14yr old son watching Porn? what nau happen?
When you finally catch him masturbatin, what follows?
You guys just keep raising kids who become better at hiding their bad behaviours.

Leave him, he is one of us. Beating him is same as beating us. You should try and subscribe his phone or buy him enough data for streaming and downloading.

Please Do Every Thing In Your Power To Stop Him From Being Addicted To It! It Takes Forever To Overcome It, Once Addicted To It! May God Help You! http://www.bummyla.com