malchy:

well sha, i will forgive depending on the nature of the insult.

dan_dollar:

Yes,i wud,but things may never be the same again.one went as far as calin me a deamon,an animal,simply because i refused to simpatize with her when she got into trouble with some authority because she went out with a married man who she had ealier told me was an odinary friend and lied about it.
wud i have given her a slap if she had told me all dat to my face? I doubt it.i don't subscribe to that.i had to let it go anyway,but things weren't the same way it used to be.

yeswecan:

This question doen’t deserves a direct answer. Why will she rain insult on you in the first place? Women have been stereotyped as verbal abusers. If that is the case I prefer to stay single because I can’t stand insult from any one.
As far as I can remember, my mom never insulted my dad and my dad never laid his hands on her. You have to play your position right. Please understand that verbal insult is a form of abuse, I don’t see any difference from verbal and physical abuse. As for me, I hate insult more that anything on earth.

Ladies, just because yours boyfriend/husband accepts your insult is not enough to think it’s just OK to insult your spouse. Also there are some women living under an abusive husband, Please understand they are both abuse (Physical and Verbal) and its wrong. If you are a product of this theory, just consider yourself as an abuser and it’s only a wimp puts up with an abusive lady.

I like natural things, if we love/trust each other and do what is right, I don’t see any cause for an insult in the first place. If there is any misunderstanding we seat and talk it over. Finish.

Diva1:


There is a difference between an abusive lady and a lady that snapped with words just one day after taking so much from her man and putting up with it for so long and then the man shows very little or no concern. Wha would u do in that case?

kasshogy:

Well! it happened to me, I really fancied my ex, but i did have much time for her , cus i was chasing the cash, and i blame her cause if she'd bothered to come closer to me, i probably would have given her extra attention but she always expected i'd be the one giving all the attention, well to cut the long story short, she asked me to make a document for her using my discretion, so i did and had it sent out to where she wanted it sent, but what did i get in return? she calls me up to tell me the document i wrote up was scrap.
I asked her to calm down as i would come to see her to clarify the issue, only for me to get to her house and recieve the cussing out of my life. I believe her neighbours even heard she was so mad and called me unmentionable names.
But me being the man that i am, i left her crib humbled and never called her again. She called me after a couple of months begging to have her back but never in my life had i been so insulted and there was no love lost between us, it was over however sad.

yeswecan:

Effective communication is one of the best ways of maintaining a good relationship. Why would she put up with what she doesn’t want for so long? If there is any problem, it should be treated instantly. There is no justification for an abusive wife, if she does it once she will do it again.

Real men respond to respectful ladies, love is not the most important thing in a relationship. If you are respectful to your spouse he will respond with love and respect (If he is reasonable).

umm that doesn't seem like an healthy relationship.

tope2000:

@Topic
It depends on how much insult and how often u insult him

Are you a guy or were you too blind to read the thread topic?!

Topic

Yes!