U re a big fool keep searching untill u clock 40 plus and end up marrying ur younger broda's age if at all u will even marry. smh

[quote author=faith551 post=38888949]

If a lady is not physically attracted to her man and if she is ashamed to present him to her friends as her husband,

she has no business contemplating marriage to him.

He may be God-fearing and all that, but then most men are.

Ladies, even men, enjoy the confidence engendered by being around someone thy love.

If you doubt your love for someone, do not commit yourself.

bronzegoddess:



Its called "having a good friend". We all need good friends

I hate this girl and her mentality. Girls of nowadays sha..are u people human being at all?

xyoung:

I hate this girl and her mentality. Girls of nowadays sha..are u people human being at all?

ahahahah...hating on someone u don't even know? Lol, please don't let the hate go to waste, do somthn useful with it.

jabojafa:
na lie joor na Obot Akara. Na Vincent E. From Ika

Akwa Ibomite

LookmanTalk:
I had a very interesting discussion with a female friend and she told me that she is in a dilemma on whether to marry a certain brother.. these are her reasons

1= He is ready to marry her although well behaved but she is not attracted to him physically and is not sure if she will ever see pass this... she said she will not be proud or comfortable showing him off as her partner

2= she only feels she likes him because he has the fear of God, has future prospects but she will rather keep him as her friend

She does not need him for any form of financial security but says she is confused and needs advise especially from married people, she does not want to go through any marital breakup

Open to all, please advise

Where is that young lady that asked me how ladies remain single at 38, read this post and you will have answers to your question.

Protracted singleness always happen gradually and logically, if any matured single lady can be honest enough to narrate how she got to that state, you will discover they always have reasonable facts at different points why they shouldn’t marry some particular guys.

What exactly do you need in a partner ( both gender now)? You testified a man is God-fearing and SOMETHING inside of you is still giving you other temporal, societal, learnt and trendy reasons why that GOD-FEARING man is not meant for you.

Most of the things we call physical attractions are unconsciously learnt and they are actually out to manipulate you and rob you of your joy. How did you learn about height? Should a partner’s height affect your joy?

Thank you all for your contributions/comments, so my friend says she is telling the brother her mind tomorrow 14th Oct 2015.

Watch out for Part 2. lol

Nnemuka:
mumu, what is wrong being 32 and single? is it a curse kids everywhere

Please take it easy,how am I to know you are 32 and single.

no m

Nnemuka:
am not even 30. But i plan to be single at 30.

Okay o.... Just know you are engaging on a risky venture,don't let your look decieve you.

QTEST007:


Okay o....
Just know you are engaging on a risky venture,don't let your look decieve you.

how is that risky? It is Ok for a man to be single at 30 but risky for a lady? why so

LookmanTalk:
for?

For "CHANGE"...

Hello Everybody!

So the decision has been made. My friend told the brother that she will rather have him as a friend than go into a relationship with him or marry him. She said before and after she told him and explained everything ,he did not say 1 WORD except for 'thank you' and he left!

She is asking for my advice but i do not know what to say. I promised to update what happened on nairaland so here we are!


My friend is confused...........

I don't advice confusionist, most especially on romance...


But the said Lady sounds like a cheat!

LookmanTalk: Hello Everybody!

So the decision has been made. My friend told the brother that she will rather have him as a friend than go into a relationship with him or marry him. She said before and after she told him and explained everything ,he did not say 1 WORD except for 'thank you' and he left!

She is asking for my advice but i do not know what to say. I promised to update what happened on nairaland so here we are!


My friend is confused...........

What else does that your insatiable friend want the guy to say?

That "she just made his day"

Why is she still confused? Off course, he was hurt, that was why he left. He may still come around later.

Its not advisable to marry someone you are not physically attracted to or someone you will not be comfortable showing off. She made a good decision. Never marry out of pity!

Anyway to me oooo, the Bros never get money well well, if the bros don hammer correct money. The attraction go come by fire or by force (even aki and pawpaw get wife)... If another lady comes around to marry the guy and ur friend in question is not married yet, she will start blaming the devil that does not exist for her high taste guy with 6 packs. Sit down dia, age stil dey for her side. Go and marry CR7 now. Shebi u want a guy u re proud to show off. Like as if the show-off is what u re after in the marriage.

[quote author=bronzegoddess post=38889008]Quite a number of us ladies are in this situation. That guy comes along, is caring, God fearing, hard-working and all, but we don't get that romantic vibe with the person. I'll say keep him close, not necessarily date him, just keep him close



Y'all are allowed to read whatever meaning u want to this ^^
[/quote

U advice her to keep dis brother on friend-zone right. I believe d girl in question is soo fucking childish.

The Lady does not need his money, trust me.

wolestix:
Anyway to me oooo, the Bros never get money well well, if the bros don hammer correct money. The attraction go come by fire or by force (even aki and pawpaw get wife)... If another lady comes around to marry the guy and ur friend in question is not married yet, she will start blaming the devil that does not exist for her high taste guy with 6 packs. Sit down dia, age stil dey for her side. Go and marry CR7 now. Shebi u want a guy u re proud to show off. Like as if the show-off is what u re after in the marriage.

well

simdam500:


What else does that your insatiable friend want the guy to say?

That "she just made his day"

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