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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 7:31am On Oct 24, 2015
gainesborough:


We did I was thinking she will change when we marry but she has gotten worse.

Bullshit
Nothing changes and people pleas please what you see is what you get.
In fact look at that guy/girl and just imagine that the person will grow worse
he cheats when single, its gonna get worse
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Sharp9: 7:39am On Oct 24, 2015
'Even your boo get boo'. That aside sha bt some act secretive yet without a secret. My bro, communication is vital. if there's
no joy in ur marriage, do d necessary . enjoy ur marriage,

don't 'manage it'.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by x6blade(m): 8:02am On Oct 24, 2015
My brother you are single

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by grooga(m): 8:11am On Oct 24, 2015
Anytime the issue of privacy and space comes into a marriage, someone's definitely on the down low.
I advice young men, don't ever marry who you love, marry a woman that loves you. I believe that's OP's problem.... she's got his number, he can be played.
My advice is, send her to her parents and see what happens, if she's desperate to come back, take her back with stern warning and conditions. If she doesn't have any remorse and let her ego becloudjher judgement, divorce her ads and look for another wife, period.

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by gainesborough: 10:15am On Oct 24, 2015
Thanks once again
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by luuvee(m): 1:05pm On Oct 24, 2015
How can such a lady take care of kids wen she's hardly att home. Leaves 6 and comes back 10pm. Wat kind of home do u think she can make? A home she's alrready destroying.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by luuvee(m): 1:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
Honestly speaking dis is all ur fault coz u saw d signs and still went ahead to marry her. Dis kind of woman can only be changed tru God's intervention. Its obvious from her dress sense dat she's has some other dudes shes tryin tto impress or probably already bleeping so u have to investigate her to know her movemen to be sure of her actions if she's cheating on u.and if it happens dat she is man do d neccessary. There's nothin a s hurtin as seeing ur wife cheating on u. She even went as far as blockin u on facebook chai!!!. Sorry bro I can imagine wat ur goin tru.

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 24, 2015
Pardon my manners... But am thinking she is on contraceptives.. Wonder where that thought came from

Trust your instincts, most times, they don't lie.
Put in all your effort with love to make sure your marriage works, things can get better
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by LookmanTalk: 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2015
i have heard this before @don't marry a woman you love. Can you please shed more light on this?
nedu2000:
Whether she's cheating or not shouldn't matter.
If she can take care of your kids,maintain your home and doesn't bring a disease home should be your problem. Don't marry a woman you love
It's a tragic realisation but it's the best way to live up to a 100
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Achilies(m): 4:48pm On Oct 24, 2015
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gainesborough:


It not my fault

No its my fault.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by umehmj(m): 3:40am On Oct 25, 2015
gainesborough:
I am a long time member of nairaland, but due to the sensitivity of this post i had to be as anonymous as possible.
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Is she cheating on me? And what can i do to resolve this issue quickly? Our marriage is really young and we dont have a child yet but i dont want to raise children in such kind of family. I need your friendly advice please.

thank you so much

My brother she cheating o. she cheating. to confirm this, open another Facebook account, this time with a different name and a fine picture (i can supply you pix if you no get). add her on Facebook, woo her very well. she will fall for you, sex chat you, send you her nude pix. with time, give her a hotel appointment and burst her cheating ass. or pay an anonymous camera man to tail her for a day. you can fake a travel so she can bring her A game while she will be caught on lens.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 5:20am On Oct 25, 2015
I wanted to be a pastor here, but for the first time, I'm going to speak up like a real villain, there is no point you going to even talk to her or find out that she's cheating, cos she is. Here is what you do :

Ask her to follow you to the village for something, come up with an excuse, maybe someone died and that you want both of you to go home for the burial or something and that you cannot go and leave her. If she agrees, be silent don't make her know your intentions, MOVE THE IDIOT BACK TO HER PARENTS

No point you even talking to her parents just when she gets to her parents,tell her never to call you again. And when you get back home way bill her other properties to her, back to her and her parents. Don't even make mistake of calling her. Before she will bring shame to you,you have successfully and succeeded in bringing it to her. And when you come back ,marry someone else who respects you, you can even invite some of her friends for your wedding too, so they can pass the message to her. Woman way no fit respect you, day cheat on you when una day date won't accord you respect when you married, her st*upid senses hasn't told her she's married yet.

S*tupid woman. She don carry her husband do boyfriend, always want to f*uck every Thomas,William,Ayotunde,Ibidunni and Michael she sees before her senses comes back. Anuofia.

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by ezteem(m): 6:44am On Oct 25, 2015
gainesborough:
I am a long time member of nairaland, but due to the sensitivity of this post i had to be as anonymous as possible.
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My wife and i have been married for about 2 years, but it has not been so blissful for me. I observed that my wife always behave ungodly. She rarely wears skirts, always on Skinny, tight jeans and slim tops even to work or church, and as a married woman, that kind of dressing is wrong. When i talk, she would complain and nag that i dont give her space. And sometimes really short clothes and she returns home late from work. She leaves 5 - 6 am in the morning and return 9 - 10 at night. She would claim she was busy at work in different meetings.

She makes all sorts of unknown and secret calls and when i ask, she would say its her business partners that are talking to her. She spends alot of time on instagram, displaying herself, and on facebook chatting even during the day i would find her online when i assume she is at work. She even deleted and blocked me on facebook and claimed that i am intruding in her privacy.

Is she cheating on me? And what can i do to resolve this issue quickly? Our marriage is really young and we dont have a child yet but i dont want to raise children in such kind of family. I need your friendly advice please.

thank you so much

What is she still looking for not pregnant.... F**k her and get her heavy loaded ... Fill her stomach with babies ... Osiso
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by remotecontrol: 7:22am On Oct 25, 2015
Blocked you on Fb cheesy

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by ayemerbarth: 7:39am On Oct 25, 2015
Op, you should have known no 1 changes character wise rather they improve on what they have always been. In the mean time you have not told us the nature of your job or you are that type that sits at home while the wife works cos if you are then you are the wife. Lol. Resolution in matrimony is multi way thing. Talk to her. If she does not change, talk to her parents. If she is adamant, let your own parents know.if she refuse to change afterward quit the gaddem thing. It was no marriage in the first place.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by ayemerbarth: 7:44am On Oct 25, 2015
ayemerbarth:
Op, you should have known no 1 changes character wise rather they improve on what they have always been. In the mean time you have not told us the nature of your job or you are that type that sits at home while the wife works cos if you are then you are the wife. Lol. Resolution in matrimony is multi way thing. Talk to her. If she does not change, talk to her parents. If she is adamant, let your own parents know.if she refuse to change afterward quit the gaddem thing. It was no marriage in the first place.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by justkaycee1(m): 8:02am On Oct 25, 2015
Wallade:
I have a feeling that your wife is having amourous affair with someone or flirting with some people. That can explain the secrets and behaviour towards you.

The marriage is just 2 years old and she is agitating for space, blocking you on Facebook, keeping constant sexy looks even against your objection, making and taking secret calls.

You need to put your feet on the ground and be the man in the home. Shock her with some resolute decisions and instructions which will have consequences if she doesn't adhere to. However, don't be irrational, inconsiderate and unaccommodating.

Best regards

She's probably the man of the house there.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 8:08am On Oct 25, 2015
Seems so many people are not getting the picture.

she controls the house and possibly feeds the guy. You see, there is this ego that comes with you being the breadwinner. Tell the young man to get a job and start paying his bills, with that; his wife will retrace her steps.

When she knows he has money to flex, nobody will tell her. She knows the guy is broke and won't dare looking outside. She bought her clothes with her own money..... Guy find something doing and may God bless your hustle. #truth

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 25, 2015
cry

Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:31am On Oct 25, 2015
Have u asked urself if she has caught u cheating or she has suspected u cheating on her before?...Have u ever thought if is Karma That is after you?..have you even thought if you have abandon someone who really love you and now chose her because of her shape and looks?...sorry to say no reasonable man will want to marry a lady who is dressing in an indecent manner..Dating is a process you use in studying and knowing your partner life n life style well, is a process whereby you see and think if you can be able to cope with your partner life style or not before going further into marriage..Dont ever have this in mind that marriage will change one bad behaviour,pls not in all cases...the issues you are in now was caused due to you where blinded by her apearance n over love for her natural attributes when you where dating her n you neglected her bad side and believe that marriage will change her...I Can tell you that your wife is cheating on you, and if this continue it might lead to violence in your home and somebody life might be caught short...It is always hard to change a cheating spouse..Pray and let God guide you on what to do..This serves as a lesson to others, ALL THAT GLITTERS ARE NOT GOLD
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Adiwana: 9:33am On Oct 25, 2015
this is what you get from marrying a ''hot chick''..smh

From what you wrote,i was able to deduce three things

1) You are jobless which means your wife is the bread-winner

2)your wife's family is richer than yours

3)You work for her family's company or smth like that

bottom line:Your wife has more income than you.i may be wrong though

you see from what you wrote,there is no atom of happiness in your marriage..its bitter but its the truth..your wife is flaunting the body language of infidelity to your face and you cant do anything..its either its the aforementioned or somehow her family controls your marriage..anyways,you are the man of the family and should be in charge.
you have a young marriage and such things should not be tolerated..this is my own advise;

1)change your attitude entirely..be less predictable
2)when you are with your wife,just tell her to give you her phone that you want to log on to whatsapp to discuss smth with a friend/client and that you are going to be with her phone for at least 30mins..if she asks,tell her you dont have data on your phone or anything,then watch her body language
3)tell her you are to travel for 2wks..then monitor her..it may be wrong but its essential cos your happiness should be no1
if you are able to prove without any reasonable doubt she is cheating,do the needful..if not,sit her down and talk to her..also pray for her
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 9:44am On Oct 25, 2015
Sparkle777:
Do urself a favor. Spy on her, get it off u. If u re wrong,apologise and move on but if u re right. Go for counsellin and deliverance. If u cant deal wit it, end it all. Cheers.
Just follow ur instincts. Do wat u deem fit.
Guys Are Extremely Bad At "Spying"...lipsrsealed
They just Don't get it Right the way We do...undecided *catching in the act*
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Qualer: 10:06am On Oct 25, 2015
Estharfabian:
If she's on Facebook....then, trust me....She's cheating..."grin"

Fb Guys Are thirsty Niggaz...undecided *Maybe I'm being too harsh*? lipsrsealed
buh what if she was...What would You do? file for divorce? or Pray for Her!?? embarassed Divorces Are Terrible!! *cries fake tears* cry


Marriage Crisis?? Nah!! lipsrsealed I can't stand any of Those Eternal "I Do" Madness...tongue i'm Just Gonna Mold Husby myself...cool
Thank God For Technology (ROBOTS)! YAY! "grin"

na your type go come post pictures of your 'fantabulous' traditional wedding here after december holiday!! grin
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by 6fit(f): 10:15am On Oct 25, 2015
Frank3n2:
Thier is no such thing as privacy in marriage in my own understanding.. Do the needful before you live a short life because of her. Thank you

pls quickly go get thurnderbot AKA Magun. Plant it on her and rest is story...Quote 6fit

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 10:25am On Oct 25, 2015
gainesborough:
I am a long time member of nairaland, but due to the sensitivity of this post i had to be as anonymous as possible.
------
My wife and i have been married for about 2 years, but it has not been so blissful for me. I observed that my wife always behave ungodly. She rarely wears skirts, always on Skinny, tight jeans and slim tops even to work or church, and as a married woman, that kind of dressing is wrong. When i talk, she would complain and nag that i dont give her space. And sometimes really short clothes and she returns home late from work. She leaves 5 - 6 am in the morning and return 9 - 10 at night. She would claim she was busy at work in different meetings.

She makes all sorts of unknown and secret calls and when i ask, she would say its her business partners that are talking to her. She spends alot of time on instagram, displaying herself, and on facebook chatting even during the day i would find her online when i assume she is at work. She even deleted and blocked me on facebook and claimed that i am intruding in her privacy.

Is she cheating on me? And what can i do to resolve this issue quickly? Our marriage is really young and we dont have a child yet but i dont want to raise children in such kind of family. I need your friendly advice please.

thank you so much
Bros thank God there is no child bounding between you guys, So ditch her but before that make sure u install call recorder in her phone without her knowledge (u can listen to all her dial/received calls later) creat new facebook/whatsapp account and iniatiate chat with her as strange, be nice to her & pretend to be rich man.
From the aforementioned you may know wether she is cheating on u or not.

NB: if those tricks doesnt work within a week, let me know so that i can tell u how to get access to her facebook account. (But consider it as last option)
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 10:34am On Oct 25, 2015
Frank3n2:
Thier is no such thing as privacy in marriage in my own understanding.. Do the needful before you live a short life because of her. Thank you
You are right o, there is no privacy when it comes to social media.
I can access my wife facebook account etc whenever i want & she can do the same.

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 11:01am On Oct 25, 2015
Qualer:


na your type go come post pictures of your 'fantabulous' traditional wedding here after december holiday!! grin
hehehe...don't Worwee...You'd be Invited..."grin"
I'll Gist You About the Uniform....tongue
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by gainesborough: 11:26am On Oct 25, 2015
ezteem:


What is she still looking for not pregnant.... F**k her and get her heavy loaded ... Fill her stomach with babies ... Osiso

Most times we have sex she acts like she is not in the mood so I loose interest and it stops just like that till another month or two that I try again. I cannot rape her can I?
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by Nobody: 11:32am On Oct 25, 2015
NIGGUR, the b*itch ain't your wife! Throw her the f*uck away
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by gainesborough: 11:33am On Oct 25, 2015
Gentle2015:
Seems so many people are not getting the picture.

she controls the house and possibly feeds the guy. You see, there is this ego that comes with you being the breadwinner. Tell the young man to get a job and start paying his bills, with that; his wife will retrace her steps.

When she knows he has money to flex, nobody will tell her. She knows the guy is broke and won't dare looking outside. She bought her clothes with her own money..... Guy find something doing and may God bless your hustle. #truth

Sir, it not like that. I have a business which I am running and I am the one paying the bills.
Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by peedeeasobie(m): 12:00pm On Oct 25, 2015
gainesborough:


Sir, it not like that. I have a business which I am running and I am the one paying the bills.



with due respect, you talk like a weakling.
stamp your foot on the ground. Tell her to desist from anything and everything you don't want. If she insists, talk to elders, pastors, her people and if it continues, send her to her parents.

Let them cure her before she comes back again.

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Re: My Wife Is Really Strange! Is She Cheating? by peedeeasobie(m): 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2015
gainesborough:


Sir, it not like that. I have a business which I am running and I am the one paying the bills.



your wife is cheating on you!

wake up and smell the cookie.

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