Estharfabian:
Guys Are Extremely Bad At "Spying"...
They just Don't get it Right the way We do... *catching in the act*

Sparkle777:


True, he should get a sister or female friend to help him do the spying.

gainesborough:


Most times we have sex she acts like she is not in the mood so I loose interest and it stops just like that till another month or two that I try again. I cannot rape her can I?

gainesborough:
I am a long time member of nairaland, but due to the sensitivity of this post i had to be as anonymous as possible.
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My wife and i have been married for about 2 years, but it has not been so blissful for me. I observed that my wife always behave ungodly. She rarely wears skirts, always on Skinny, tight jeans and slim tops even to work or church, and as a married woman, that kind of dressing is wrong. When i talk, she would complain and nag that i dont give her space. And sometimes really short clothes and she returns home late from work. She leaves 5 - 6 am in the morning and return 9 - 10 at night. She would claim she was busy at work in different meetings.

She makes all sorts of unknown and secret calls and when i ask, she would say its her business partners that are talking to her. She spends alot of time on instagram, displaying herself, and on facebook chatting even during the day i would find her online when i assume she is at work. She even deleted and blocked me on facebook and claimed that i am intruding in her privacy.

Is she cheating on me? And what can i do to resolve this issue quickly? Our marriage is really young and we dont have a child yet but i dont want to raise children in such kind of family. I need your friendly advice please.

thank you so much

SylarsMcQuins:
This guy just dey make me dey vex, me wey neva marry gan my blood dey hot talkless of wen I marry u put for house.

My gf dares not try any of these rubbish characteristics talk more of my wife, well she knows her man and what he's capable of.

This guy na cool guy na why sha, na why d lady dey use am kpa. Bros wake up

gainesborough:


OK what should I do?

gainesborough:
I am a long time member of nairaland, but due to the sensitivity of this post i had to be as anonymous as possible.
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My wife and i have been married for about 2 years, but it has not been so blissful for me. I observed that my wife always behave ungodly. She rarely wears skirts, always on Skinny, tight jeans and slim tops even to work or church, and as a married woman, that kind of dressing is wrong. When i talk, she would complain and nag that i dont give her space. And sometimes really short clothes and she returns home late from work. She leaves 5 - 6 am in the morning and return 9 - 10 at night. She would claim she was busy at work in different meetings.

She makes all sorts of unknown and secret calls and when i ask, she would say its her business partners that are talking to her. She spends alot of time on instagram, displaying herself, and on facebook chatting even during the day i would find her online when i assume she is at work. She even deleted and blocked me on facebook and claimed that i am intruding in her privacy.

Is she cheating on me? And what can i do to resolve this issue quickly? Our marriage is really young and we dont have a child yet but i dont want to raise children in such kind of family. I need your friendly advice please.

thank you so much

ogawisdom:


U married a runs girl, what do u expect. She is still acting single in marriage sorry but what is d use of a woman dt works 5am to 9pm to a real man . man way woman dey feed like u go suffer. Op u r jst a man in d houz n nt a man of d houz

ogawisdom:


U married a runs girl, what do u expect. She is still acting single in marriage sorry but what is d use of a woman dt works 5am to 9pm to a real man . man way woman dey feed like u go suffer. Op u r jst a man in d houz n nt a man of d houz

gainesborough:


Most times we have sex she acts like she is not in the mood so I loose interest and it stops just like that till another month or two that I try again. I cannot rape her can I?

Homguy:
you better send that woman back home to learn manners? Are you even a man? Common , its just two years! You want to continue like this till death do you part? Then you would have lived a wasted life.

BTW, do you know you might soon be fathering another man's child as yours? You better wake up

Estharfabian:
If she's on Facebook....then, trust me....She's cheating...""

Fb Guys Are thirsty Niggaz... *Maybe I'm being too harsh*?
buh what if she was...What would You do? file for divorce? or Pray for Her!?? Divorces Are Terrible!! *cries fake tears*


Marriage Crisis?? Nah!! I can't stand any of Those Eternal "I Do" Madness... i'm Just Gonna Mold Husby myself...
Thank God For Technology (ROBOTS)! YAY! ""

gainesborough:
Alright I'll just file for a divorce then.

Thank you all.

Mods please close this topic.

nedu2000:
Whether she's cheating or not shouldn't matter.
If she can take care of your kids,maintain your home and doesn't bring a disease home should be your problem. Don't marry a woman you love
It's a tragic realisation but it's the best way to live up to a 100

gimakon:
I wanted to be a pastor here, but for the first time, I'm going to speak up like a real villain, there is no point you going to even talk to her or find out that she's cheating, cos she is. Here is what you do :

Ask her to follow you to the village for something, come up with an excuse, maybe someone died and that you want both of you to go home for the burial or something and that you cannot go and leave her. If she agrees, be silent don't make her know your intentions, MOVE THE IDIOT BACK TO HER PARENTS

No point you even talking to her parents just when she gets to her parents,tell her never to call you again. And when you get back home way bill her other properties to her, back to her and her parents. Don't even make mistake of calling her. Before she will bring shame to you,you have successfully and succeeded in bringing it to her. And when you come back ,marry someone else who respects you, you can even invite some of her friends for your wedding too, so they can pass the message to her. Woman way no fit respect you, day cheat on you when una day date won't accord you respect when you married, her st*upid senses hasn't told her she's married yet.

S*tupid woman. She don carry her husband do boyfriend, always want to f*uck every Thomas,William, Ayo tunde,Ibidunni and Michael she sees before her senses comes back. Anuofia.

gainesborough:
Alright I'll just file for a divorce then.

Thank you all.

Mods please close this topic.

Goodboiyy:


If you talk to her and she fails to listen beat her.

akinsal:

B4 u close d thread. I read u are married for 2yrs now without kids. av u guyz gone for medical examination?
perharps dat cud av been her reason for all those acts.
however if findings from d medical report shows d fault is from u. i think u need to soft pedal on ur nxt line of action and find solution to ur problems first.
Hiwever if d fault is from her u need to man up and let her know d meaning of wat she is doing.
I think divorce shud b d last option.

gainesborough:


I can't. I'm not ready to go to prison.

Goodboiyy:


Behave like a man for once.. So you believe your wife will arrest you because you discipline her ?. Are you sure you are not under a Spell ?.. Cous this is not ordinary.

Oboy you be man oo.. no they behave like dodo

Goodboiyy:

Y nw baby.. wen u get Ayo?..

gimakon:


Na S*tupid man, thats why another man is Fu*cking his wife for him. what he suppose to have, his right , another man day enjoy am, he come here to speak english. Dunse, no go learn how to handle your wife....Dumeon!

We have no kids because we have no sex. She said she is not interested in kids until she is 26 or 27. She is 22 now

Estharfabian:
LoL! who's Ayo?

Goodboiyy:


Behave like a man for once.. So you believe your wife will arrest you because you discipline her ?. Are you sure you are not under a Spell ?.. Cous this is not ordinary.

Oboy you be man oo.. no they behave like dodo

Goodboiyy:


So you mean you haven't sex Your wife ?.. With the way she dey dress Hot ?.. Chai.. some men they fuckup.. Rape her if possible men.. Where do you live.. maybe we can meet so I can talk sense into your head.

gainesborough:


We have no kids because we have no sex. She said she is not interested in kids until she is 26 or 27. She is 22 now