daretodiffer:


I am actually studying law

Thanks

ststyreal:

Permit me to say that u are only fast at picking faults but not patient enough to read carefully. U r faster than your shadow. Please learn to be calm and cool.

xtervaganza:
arindin ni mi

arabianights:


yeah of course... you will claim that on a public forum,wont u?seeking for attention seems to be your forte and this is a clear sign of DEPRESSION AND LOW COMPLEX. work on it

frakdon:
and why do you think he has no right to Quote you, ehh madam? By the way, how would you not have known, that the aunty is late, because let say you are blind? If this is how you are gonna treat your, "maybe" future cheating husband, you go die quick, my sister biko "LEARN" like you were asked to...
And lastly, I would like to marry you...

PunkyVeer:

arabianights:



with that attitude? nope she will be held for contempt of court and possibly disbarred

daretodiffer:


I find the title and your post really insulting to women. You used the words 'mature and learn'. Do you assume that we are stupid or what? I do not understand what you are trying to achieve?

Did you try asking your aunty if she had any toasters and admirers after marriage? Ask her what stopped her? She is going to tell that she did and it was respect for her husband and their marriage that stopped her. But her husband does not the same respect for her and their marriage yet you will come tomorrow and insult a woman who cheats on her husband. Some men think that it is their birthright to cheat and he does not need to have respect for women. He goes ahead to do so and the world expects the woman to maturely deal with him. Yet you won't stop calling us petty or gold-diggers or less intelligent beings, How can you expect a specie with all that characteristics to be wiser and more mature than you are?


Why should women be wiser and more matured than man? I thought you were supposed to be the leader and the smarter one . Don't you think that the lack of those qualities make it unfit to be in a relationship not to mention lead a family?

The happy ending your uncle told you about rarely happen. You need to be mature to be able to learn that it is just a case out of many.


Moral of my rant:
Don't dish what you can take.
Respect is reciprocal
Every action has its unforeseen consequences

These apply to males and females. Treat people, most especially your partner the way you want to be treated. If they don't mind you treating them like garbage then good for you.

Crixina:
God bless you.

mizizM:


Cases are not won on attitude but on superior arguments and the LAW!

daretodiffer:


I am actually studying law

Thanks

PunkyVeer:
Moral of the story: put up with a cheating man & you're going to die early/before him.

RIP to your aunt, btw.

daretodiffer:

I am actually studying law

doyinisaac:
Lawyers that I do know are always intelligent,brilliant and not foolish....why is urs different?? u never see anything...trouble sit down jeje u go disturb am...

arabianights:


follow the thread or read from onset and u will see her wrong.am sure am not the only one criticizing her for that ,there are many of us.

doyinisaac:
Lawyers that I do know are always intelligent,brilliant and not foolish....why is urs different?? u never see anything...trouble sit down jeje u go disturb am...

akike:

mizizM:


Cases are not won on attitude but on superior arguments and the LAW!

daretodiffer:


Bwahahaha

frakdon:
I see, you are practising, your self-defence skills...
But stop laughing, because lawyers don't, smile,talk more of laughing....

joseph1832:
OP permit me to say that's your uncle, some men wouldn't even blink about it, I mean they will say if she can hold her peace for 3 months, they see no reason why she can't hold her peace forever.

Your aunt was married to a man who reason and listens, otherwise, he wouldn't have stopped cheating.

Some cheating husbands see it as their god given right and talent to cheat on their wives, whether she is aware or not aware of it isn't their business.

I tell any girl who wants to get married to have it at the back of their mind that the man they're marrying may likely cheat on them, however, how they handle it goes a long way. The fear of God doesn't have anything to do with it, self control, yes.

bronzegoddess:


I started from d beginning. Smh for nairalanders sha

babseg:


My advice for u.

Show ur man love and respect in anything he's doing. It may sound stupid but that's the best way to keep ur home

arabianights:



please ! give us a break here . did you read all the insults the lady flung at her ? even if you dont agree theres a better way of putting it.there are others here who dont accept the op's view but didnt go about insulting her to the extent of insulting the late aunt also

i happen to find this thread very interesting and have been following it.

PunkyVeer:
Moral of the story: put up with a cheating man & you're going to die early/before him.

RIP to your aunt, btw.

daretodiffer:


Bwahahaha

arabianights:
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ehn!?.......... hmm okay.dont comeback with a topic :THEY WARNED ME BUT I DIDNT LISTEN

ilawanson44:


Leave him immediately and you are going to end up whining about how "All men are Dogs" for the rest of your single life

akike:


Even though he is hurting me I know when to keep my cool and when not to.

PunkyVeer:
Moral of the story: put up with a cheating man & you're going to die early/before him.

RIP to your aunt, btw.

daretodiffer:


I didn't know she was dead. Learn to look at the cause instead of misquoting somebody

He uses his aunt as a case study. If you are a student or better still a lawyer, you should know that you attacking/assassinating the evidence yo win the argument. In this case it was his aunt.

Don't quote me again please, if you are biased.

I like objective minds