JimiCoker:

Thanks dear. Somehow made it through the gloom, now I'm back to being awesome. Thanks for keeping me company, t'was really nice of you

PunkyVeer:


Dude, you once told me Joseph was your real name

PunkyVeer:


Do the people ever protest though? Here we are big whiners & stuff gets sorted fast when we take our beef with the govt to the streets. They shouldn't give them (the leaders) rest.

joseph1832:
I remember once asking you, if you believe everything you read online?.

all4naija:

Nigerians have the mentality of individualism and can't fight for the rights of others. They would rather seat on their poor a$$es or rob the innocent than face the government in protest. Bunch of brutes who refuse to organize and get civilized. Sh*t!

PunkyVeer:


Sigh. Well, that's their baby to carry if that's the case.

StPete:
Madam, I'd have to be plain with u. There is nothing anyone can say or do to make u not feel the hurt of betrayal you're going through. However, you're somewhat the cause of your own problems. Lemme explain

Trailing your husband all around town all because u don't want him to cheat is not a very wise thing to do. First things first, if he's taking care of you and provides the necessary things at home, then let him be. Most men are just wired to want to play around and no amount of tears or shouting can stop that. At worst he'll up his game and do it very far from u.
A woman I knew once left her marriage all because the husband was cheating. Five yrs later she remarried and the new husband now not only cheats, but also beats her wen she complains. Now she regrets leaving d first marriage. I know it can be painful to see ur husband sleep wit someone else, there's no justification whatsoever on his part, but d sooner u let things be, d better u hav dat peace of mind. Channel dat energy and thoughts into a personal business and in raising your child(ren). Peace be with you.

all4naija:

Sure, it is! They are annoying to me despite all the abundant resources available in that nation they can fix the infrastructural problems. Howdy? How is the weather condition over there?

Yinabim:
U can't stop a man from cheating.. All u can do is Pray that God takes control of his life, hiding it from u all dis while is because he respects u, fighting the lady isn't right ,u didn't have to cos it don't stop ur husband from doing it again, jst Pray, carry on ur duty as his wife, don't pack out of ur home nxt time plz, and don't nag jst make him understand ur feelings lovingly,i know it's not easy and am not married but this things will be helpful

utenwuson:
when I c stories like ds I wonder perhaps cos am a muslim! if not what's so hard on ds! imagine u trailed ur husband every nick n cranny jst cos u want 2 catch him wt another woman? as a man our obligation is to provide 4 d home, mk d woman comfortable in all aspect Wc include sex, care, money n being there 4 d home! I don't jst get it when u cry n wail cos a man has a woman outside! by bringing home as wife alone is 2 tell u hw important u re! u even took a blood oat wt ur husband? God!! lemme advise u! I know sm guys/men ll come n say on d contrary claiming their responsible but u must av ds in mind dt EVERY man is polygamous in nature! imagine a guy walking wt his pretty gurl frn n stil turn around 2 look @ a booty dt jst passed by! my advice 4 u is ds! try n differentiate btw love n sex! what mks u think men go out there 2 av sex wt oloshos? stop punishing ur sef woman

Youngpo413:
that's why it is good for ladies to date players and cheats so that they will get used to it when married.

PunkyVeer:


Erm...yeah.

The weather is just right. Not hot or cold. Hope you're enjoying the bomber jacket weather over there

PunkyVeer:


So are you calling yourself a liar? Blimey!

joseph1832:
Nope. I'm simply saying I told you exactly what you wanted to hear.

PunkyVeer:


Oh really now? And I wanted to hear that your name is Joseph? Joseph of all names? You can't be serious!

joseph1832:
Like I told you before: "its your opinion".

PunkyVeer:


Lol, like it is also your opinion thinking I wanted to hear some hill billy name like Joseph

MsGlobalwonder:
looool. Here they come with "every man is polygamous "mantra. Blablabla. Will you be happy if your wife keeps men outside? If no, then y shouldn't she act? Lool. Men feeling entitled since 1020. Smh

halfrica:
Op wrong madam u shdnt av held her cloth


Mehn dats why married men will keep sleeping around u nag at him while he goes out to sort for relief joy nd happiness

Wen u saw him u shd av acted like u wana lodge u cud av pretended to order a room nd fake a call.

Then wen u get hme u shdnt talk bou it prepare his best meal dress sexy look good.
Smile at him .ur husband will b shakin nothing scares a man more like a silent hurt woman

by himself he wud report to d whole family wat he did

U can den quietly secretly pray to God

But shouting dragging his cloth nd all will make him av an excuse to cheat more

Av learnt dat secret once ur bf or husband cheat just switch ur happiness to God because before they can change their ways it wud take a long time why die before ones time

halfrica:
Op wrong madam u shdnt av held her cloth


Mehn dats why married men will keep sleeping around u nag at him while he goes out to sort for relief joy nd happiness

Wen u saw him u shd av acted like u wana lodge u cud av pretended to order a room nd fake a call.

Then wen u get hme u shdnt talk bou it prepare his best meal dress sexy look good.
Smile at him .ur husband will b shakin nothing scares a man more like a silent hurt woman

by himself he wud report to d whole family wat he did

U can den quietly secretly pray to God

But shouting dragging his cloth nd all will make him av an excuse to cheat more

Av learnt dat secret once ur bf or husband cheat just switch ur happiness to God because before they can change their ways it wud take a long time why die before ones time

gamaliel121:




Saying it is easy mehn....

Ur husband just finished fuccccking another womans puccii and u say she should have taken it easy??

Hard mehn....


If u were her(God forbid) u may have done the same...even worse sef.....

And I think that..no matter how calm she acts and shiiit....he'll still be fuccking dem women's pussiess


...Sorry for my vulgarity..just cnt help it...

PunkyVeer:


Lol, like it is also your opinion thinking I wanted to hear some hill billy name like Joseph

utenwuson:
one bottle of coke 4 u my dearie! ds s d only way to punish a man! thank God d man is not a reactive man cos she has brought his ego down n most men cnt stand that! if he react she ll eventually av bruises! most women need counselling

halfrica:


Excuse me i will do wat i posted

I av done d crazy ways nd i ended up loosing

Actin crazy will nt help keep calm cry to God secretly

Omo if i catch bf wit anoda woman na to gather body

I once had a bf who was datin me nd anoda girl i even followed him to see the girl greeted her we bcame frnds we always chat fb she complains bou my bf to me i wud even b begging her to forgive him i kno she is a gf bt to her m my bf younger sis God is mu witness i never had a fyt wit girl or my bf den bt all i kno his he broke up wit d girl before we later broke up


Take it calm nd classy please!!!!!!!!

joseph1832:
Em sorry girl, I don't do teen drama. Bye.

PunkyVeer:


No, I'm not. I'm a marshmallow. I just have firmly placed boundaries, especially when my heart is at stake. I will NOT allow someone Bleep with my feelings.

The way I see it is simple. You cheat on me, yeah you win, because you just gave me a fly kick in the face. I fall. One point to you. One heartbreak for me. Game over. If I take you back & you cheat on me again & again, that to me is unnecessary pain. Repetitive heartbreak. I don't have time for it. The one heartbreak I experienced when you 1st cheated is enough. I don't need to be going through the same experience over & over as if there's nothing I can do about it. So it's like choosing lesser pain of walking away, than stay & be in pain for God knows how long. I REFUSE

gamaliel121:




But isn't that more painful?


Being friends with hu ur bf is grinding day and night? Nor be me ooooooo

MsGlobalwonder:
bottom line from your advice: she should stay with a cheating husband. Now truthfully tell me, if the case was reversed; would you dish out this same advice? No lie oo. also, what about diseases? What about her? She doesn't deserve to be happy? She doesn't deserve peace of mind? Or she should get used to being sad right because she has to be married? Just curious

CoolUsername:
Be strong, whether you want to leave him or give him another chance is completely up to you. Nobody has the right to 'play around' in a relationship unless it is an open relationship; so, don't listen to that 'men are polygamous' bullsh!t. You need time to think so you don't have to listen to what some dude is telling you on the internet. I am sincerely sorry for what you must be going through.