anathemiamia:
your dad is a really sad man. it's too bad this has to be your lot in life but you need to build a happy place in your head. God loves you, God will forgive you. you are special. the shortcomings of the flesh does not make u a bad soul. You already know who you don't want to be and it's time to find out the man you want to grow up into.

if you read nothing else read this; chances are that you're going to one day realize you're an adult and you'll find yourself treating your child the way you were treated. don't be that person. you can have the life you only dream of. Joy comes from the heart. love yourself. Love yourself. Let the abuse end with you. it may be hard but don't let it pass on. this cross is heavier than u think it is. You will overcome

evegran:


it's my ghost.

Atmmachine:
Let me tell you something.
You're still a kid, you live with your parents, they feed you.
African parents derive joy in beating their children.

One day you will get rich and he will want you to buy mansions for him and give him money, It will be up to you to choose how to repay him.

Let me use Emmanuel Adebayor as an example, His family got what they deserve because they treated him like a slave.

If you want your dad to stop beating you. #Fight him, i repeat, #Fight him.
He will never touch you again.

justmenoni:
Op it's either u're faking this up or ur dad is actually right, I mean what sort of child(even the so called western kid's that we are trying to replicate) uses such pics on their profile when they know that their FATHER is actually going to see it...what sort of child are u portraying to be?


Perhaps u have been doing such mistakes in the past which you actually don't see as a big deal but in actual sense it's a big deal to your dad

Therock5555:
housing is not my issue but my remaining year in school, I haven't enough for tuition even that's all he pays, I mostly finance the rest

LogoDWhiz:
Hmm. This is deep.


Lemme share a true life story.

I was in church one day, and the pastor admonishing us is actually the state youth coordinator. Also for SW zone.
He's influential and also an erudite.
But the problem that he has to him is that his son doesn't listen to him.

He tried every thing he could, Prayers, Scolding and the likes. It even got to a point he said he had to burn all his clothes that he doesn't like and other stuff like that.
But this didn't change the guy.

And then he tried something he hasn't done. He decided to leave him alone and simply show him more love. And continually pray for him.

Today, the guy doesn't oppose him, he isn't strong headed. And he even goes to church willingly as opposed to previous time.



The essence of this is that parents shouldn't fight fire to fire when they feel their children aren't doing their will.
Let him/her see things in your way in a loving manner.
There are different ways to kill a rat.

Fighting it fire for fire will only spur the fire and make it bigger.
Why don't you try fighting the fire with water and things will work well.


TheRock555, just take it easy. And don't go Psycho please.

Try and see if you too can make compromise for him.

Therock5555:
trust me when I say not even depression can make me commit suicide, I love my life but I'm just scared I don't do something we all may regret someday cus I'm almost at my breaking point

Therock5555:

I have doubted my parentage lots of times because I was the only child among my siblings given birth to in the village, maybe I was exchange by some faggort nurses because I don't behave one bit like any body else in the house

ModiKen:


If your ghost looks this good, I wonder what the real you would look like...

serah109:


9ce one dude. But remember fathers are never wrong b4 ther children. Leave d house and visit once a while

ferhyntorlah:

Juwon, you too! You have joined the End Time cliques. Phahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Therock5555:
trust me when I say not even depression can make me commit suicide, I love my life but I'm just scared I don't do something we all may regret someday cus I'm almost at my breaking point

justmenoni:
Op it's either u're faking this up or ur dad is actually right, I mean what sort of child(even the so called western kid's that we are trying to replicate) uses such pics on their profile when they know that their FATHER is actually going to see it...what sort of child are u portraying to be?


Perhaps u have been doing such mistakes in the past which you actually don't see as a big deal but in actual sense it's a big deal to your dad

chocolateme:
Hmm!! Most times, the blessing and curses of our parents affects our lives positively or negatively and yours is constantly and won't stop till you become broken.
This can lead to child rebellion against his parents, an over clouded judgement which it's result can be disastrous.
I suggest that you leave that house now while your sanity is still intact to avoid landing in prisons soon due to lose of control and the devil took over. You must have relations or friends in case your dad asks your relations to throw u out. Find a way yo stay away from him and pursue your career and get your life together even if you have to suffer through physical hardship but I bet it's better than staying at home and been bounded by curses and bad luck. Remember you are a man, if you continue absorbing this, you may end up like him to your children tomorrow and eventually they will never be a blessing to u.
So fight hard and trust God, with all pure heart, you will be a blessing to your family if not now, then later. Sorry for what you are passing through.

EggovinMma:
@op How old are you?