Elosky20:

just like ur statement.people go into relationship nowadays because they want to enjoy sex without condom, i also pity for ladies.

ssoftappless:
yeah we are all saying d same thing, a condom is used by people who thinks the lady they are going down with might have some kind of disease or something, taking a look at d history of condoms, it was originally produce 4 prostitutes, now countdown to this day, the men are using what was meant for cheap sluts on their girlfriends. "so its better to use pills or injection than to use condom bcaus by using a condom then ure terming ur girlfriend as a slut. "i am not saying i dont fornicate, infact i fornicated today but i have never used condoms in my life.

Jolllyjoy:
@toks2008


condom is used for protection and i personally think,a guy who care about you will insist on using it since it more reliable,pills can fail but the possibility of condom breakage is thin if properly used.




What you wrote there is one of the tactics used by guys on gullible gurls all in d name of b.f and g.f afffair.
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Abstainence is still the best.

fikolo:
@ OP, you have every right to your opinion but please bear in mind we live in a real word with real problems. It only makes sense to choose a less evil when faced with odd choices. Don't play with HIV! Don't bring a child to this world when you are NOT ready.

I am very sure most parents will swear their wards are virgins, same with most guys about their sisters and vice versa, leaving one wondering who are those getting bleep every seconds!

Please, take time to visits HIV clinics and their wards in hospitals, maybe you will have a different thoughts regarding UNPROTECTED intercourse. This is not a question of love, respect , cheap or trust. The first basic instinct of human is survival after wish we could discuss other issues.

Folks protect your future by all means necessarily!

misspicy:

i thought am the only loose girl here o God bless you

see rubbish talk

let him not stop,let the foolish ones believe him at their own peril

queenfav:
God bless u darling..I have been noticing op's threads on nairaland,most are void of commonsense and rational thinking.He needs a healthy dose of reality!

bqlekan:
as in ehn.. I pity the lots of those who reads sh*ts on here and follows blindly.. The dude should be stopped from spreading craps like this..

misspicy:

ko ni da fun aye love......infact i want to.ask.the OP a.question,is relationships based on sex alone?


how can you say using condom that is used for protection is demeaning to a particular gender,wait is it only females that wear the condom? what of the male that wear the condom? what of gays that are both males?

jeez inu den ro mi fun opolo kukuru ti agbalagba mii gbe sori.....lori pe e fe so fun wa pe okunrin ni yin?

HIV that some people get thru hair cut,1 night stands,knife cut,blade cut even hospital syringe o.....someone will now take a risk on the basis of true love like seriously?

even if they go for test and know their HIv and other STDs status how many people go for the three three months test which is the best way to test against this disease



so because i want to show that am faithful and trusted i will now encourage my boyfriend who likely has other girlfriends and side chicks the sex without condom? because my so called boyfriend loves and respect me,i will gladly get infected? because i want to be tagged a decent lady? ko ni da fun aiye decent

Jesus
ori mi ngbona i swear

misspicy:

you dey mind the hypocritic eediots? as if the useless love will stop him from dumping them.after he is fed up of their punny or that love will stop him from cheating if he wants and he will still bring the d!ck he used in cheating and put it direct inside them and give them STD all in the name of you are decent and they will say he respects them and is not demeaning them,while he gives them as many STDs as possible....awon ode




if you want to be decent abstain from sex,be a virgin.....lobatan

suzzy16:
seriously dear,aint good for teenagers reading dis

Khd95:
I came to read comments

Bekwarra:
So OP you mean anytime I go to Calcutta in Apapa or. Goodtime in Mushin or Shadow in Isolo Road or Happyano in Olateju or Express in Itun Agan or etc etc I should not use condom for Loveth, Rosemary, Tina, Vivian, Blessing, Joy, Gift, Glory, Veronica

MzLarem:
I kash you

Khd95:
ahhhhh iyalode
covers face

MzLarem:
hehehe..kontunu..I no go tell.

suzzy16:
thank u my lady for dis,some ladies should learn to love with their brain,nt their heart,most guys out there cheat on their girlfrnds.and what I knw mostly about nigerian guys is dat,they like. Going down raw with a lady,they hate dat thing call condom,which protects frm any serious sexual disease

Khd95:
olorun i didnt do somtin to sikiratu omo iya elewa oo,iyam a gud boi

bqlekan:
I tell you.. he should preach abstinence and quit beating around the bush.

Toks2008:
This will be a very controversial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and of-course has no deep respect and affection for the lady...This is what goes through the mind of guys in most cases.

Going back history lane,we will find out that condom was created to prevent spreading STIs and birth control but today,in the marital settings, there have been advanced and safe birth control methods and you will hardly find a married couple using condom to make love which of-course leaves the use predominantly among the unmarried for casual and reckless sex.

So any lady that allows a man use condom on her is sexually reckless and should be placed side by side with the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act.....quote me anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex with a casual lady a man has no deep respect or affection for.

If i were a lady,i would rather not have sex at all than have a man stick a latex inside me.If he truly wants me then let him put a ring on it and then we can start making love the way it was originally designed by GOD.

My candid opinion.

Vikky014:
sme gurls are jst so frustrated in life eh. their comments speaks volume. na waoh..i pray she wunt die today out of frustration and e-jealousy
hahahahahahahahaha

Vikky014:
sme gurls are jst so frustrated in life eh. their comments speaks volume. na waoh..i pray she wunt die today out of frustration and e-jealousy
hahahahahahahahaha

MzDeeb:



I have gone through all the comments here, from what i can deduce- its true some people are frustrated not because they really want to be but because of envy [the truth is really hitting them on the wrong side.]

I tell people being a virgin doesn't equals to u having the best marriage or love story. Having said that, this should mean that virginity shouldn't be celebrated. It is a pride of a woman for crying out loud . Almost all guys pray their future wife is a virgin. Because there is a blessing n glory attached to it from God.

Nevertheless, non-virgins shouldn't be condemned also. Judge not, we are all sinners.

Also, non - virgins should not always take it personal when their counterparts are being praised. It ain't that fault na haba. Cos all i see is bitterness, Jealousy and envyness...

People should learn to relate with each other well even if they have different opinions n views. Virgin and non virgins - strive to develop yourself in all aspect n have a good character because in marriage only sex will not keep u there forever.

NB: It is not everybody that one gives reply to. Some people are not worth the stress cos of their low IQ n level of reasoning.

Peace...

MzDeeb:



I have gone through all the comments here, from what i can deduce- its true some people are frustrated not because they really want to be but because of envy [the truth is really hitting them on the wrong side.]

I tell people being a virgin doesn't equals to u having the best marriage or love story. Having said that, this should mean that virginity shouldn't be celebrated. It is a pride of a woman for crying out loud . Almost all guys pray their future wife is a virgin. Because there is a blessing n glory attached to it from God.

Nevertheless, non-virgins shouldn't be condemned also. Judge not, we are all sinners.

Also, non - virgins should not always take it personal when their counterparts are being praised. It ain't that fault na haba. Cos all i see is bitterness, Jealousy and envyness...

People should learn to relate with each other well even if they have different opinions n views. Virgin and non virgins - strive to develop yourself in all aspect n have a good character because in marriage only sex will not keep u there forever.

NB: It is not everybody that one gives reply to. Some people are not worth the stress cos of their low IQ n level of reasoning.

Peace...

Toks2008:


Lets assume one reads this in isolation please what comes to mind?

The fallacy surrounding condom use has made it easy for sexual recklessness to be the order of the day. We now see women who ought to bury their head in shame coming out to the world to spew morally decadent utterances and i can't help but see why ladies are now seen as intimacy gadgets that should be used and discarded.

My point is that condom use on a lady a man sees as a potential wife is tantamount to sleeping with a lady of easy virtue.

You talk about guys cheating on their girlfriend as if husbands dont cheat on their wives but the funniest thing is that most maried men use condoms for the girls outside to protect the wife and what does this translate to? it simply menas those ladies out there are potential disease carrier,how disdainful.

That guy that wants to use condom on you probably has a special girl he wont use rubber on and that means while he sees you as a slut,he sees the special girl as SPECIAL so why not make yourself special and do the right thing by getting married first rather than allow him screw you with a rubber like a LovePeddler?

so conclusively i made a simple remark that rather than a lady allowing one regberegbe guy use condom on her, she should rather ask the guy to put a ring on it or take a walk rather than to allow one randy dog poke a rubber in her but here we have unreasonable and dumb ladies reading crazy meanings and coming all out to defend the use of condom in the light of illicit sex outside marriage..how stupid,dumb,and appalling.

I t is understandable if guys come out to curse vut im so surprised that this thread have brought out the ladies with slutty mindsets who gallivant in the euphoria od condom sex outside marriage rather than real sex within the confines of marriage.

MzDeeb:



I have gone through all the comments here, from what i can deduce- its true some people are frustrated not because they really want to be but because of envy [the truth is really hitting them on the wrong side.]

I tell people being a virgin doesn't equals to u having the best marriage or love story. Having said that, this should mean that virginity shouldn't be celebrated. It is a pride of a woman for crying out loud . Almost all guys pray their future wife is a virgin. Because there is a blessing n glory attached to it from God.

Nevertheless, non-virgins shouldn't be condemned also. Judge not, we are all sinners.

Also, non - virgins should not always take it personal when their counterparts are being praised. It ain't that fault na haba. Cos all i see is bitterness, Jealousy and envyness...

People should learn to relate with each other well even if they have different opinions n views. Virgin and non virgins - strive to develop yourself in all aspect n have a good character because in marriage only sex will not keep u there forever.

NB: It is not everybody that one gives reply to. Some people are not worth the stress cos of their low IQ n level of reasoning.

Peace...

silvermania:
i love dx write up,

Vikky014:
Thanks swthrt. jst woke up to study then i saw this. Gud am and God bless

MzDeeb:


Thanks...

markkaycee:
mr man.., u are seriously misleading people..u dont reason like this at this age/time..pls my people protect urself.,male and females are likely to be carriers of stds..be wise..

markkaycee:
mr man.., u are seriously misleading people..u dont reason like this at this age/time..pls my people protect urself.,male and females are likely to be carriers of stds..be wise..