cococandy:
Okechukwu speak for yourself please.

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First, my name is not okechukwu. can you point where I generalized? I only gave an opine devoid of sentiment and fallacy on what should or suppose to be has african(quote one african culture or ethnicity that does otherwise).

Does my opine stop people lyk the Op bro from doing things contrary to our cultural and ethnic values has africans?..certainly not.

Why is it so? Cos africans have been a victim of mental slavery, thus.
Gave way for the inebriation of western hegemon to infest on our socio-cultural ways.

It only takes a true son of MAMA AFRICA and strong mind to resist western maisma of deception and zombiefication(don't mean to insult the Op's bro).

I'm not telling you to subcribe to my assertion..NOPE.
I don't give a flying fvck if you do or not. I'm saying it for the benefit of my fellow men on this thread, wallowing in tragic misadvanture of civility, and quest to please a woman.
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Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

oyin you sure say this story na true...because i no fit understand am...is it that the wife was pregnant

IzonOwei:
oyin you sure say this story na true...because i no fit understand am...is it that the wife was pregnant

You know me na, make I ring u

Oyind17:
She is not sick

how would you know

I don't understand those who say it's not her business. It's her brother for goodness sake! The man is obviously in an unusual situation and you're saying it's not her business. Please try and talk to your brother. His life and well-being is your business, maybe not his marriage.

Olasco93:
Just be patient as this is the first time you're noticing this. I would advice that you stay clear from them because you may just be the 'Angel' that will destroy your brother's marriage.
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You're not even replicating your signature...

Neither are you

It is totally wrong jhor....forget the era of gender equality,women are supposed to be obedient to their husbands and treat them like the head of the family they truly are, I can't belitle me husband that way at all....sending my husband petty messages like a house boy in front of visitors? Haba!!!! That's completely stupid

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

is your brothers wife pregnant/sick or somewhat down? if yes then its allowed but if other wise


just kindly maintain ur lane......................




but pray for him while maintaining your lane ooooo

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Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

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lols, my dear I understand how u feel...

Nice response ...

@OP How your brother lives his life is entirely up to him. and its none of your business.

boboLIL:
Mind ur business...or she will also turn you to housegal cos you reason like one

EfemenaXY:


It's none of your business how they decide to run their marriage. As long as no one is getting hurt, you should respect yourself and stay clear. Leave them alone. Don't be a home wrecker.

The marriage is already wrecked. The man already "de-manned".
Call him and tell him your observations perhaps he might wake up but surely start deliverance from spell prayers for him.
No man is suppose to live like that in a marriage... it is unusual.

EfemenaXY:


It's none of your business how they decide to run their marriage. As long as no one is getting hurt, you should respect yourself and stay clear. Leave them alone. Don't be a home wrecker.

EfemenaXY:


It's none of your business how they decide to run their marriage. As long as no one is getting hurt, you should respect yourself and stay clear. Leave them alone. Don't be a home wrecker.

The marriage is already wrecked. The man already "de-manned".
Call him and tell him your observations perhaps he might wake up but surely start deliverance from spell prayers for him.
No man is suppose to live like that in a marriage... it is unusual.

So many hypocrites on this thread!!!!!!!!!!they will be giving advice here on the thread yet they are guilty of the same thing in real life!!!!!!awon weyrey....

is a pity. may be she's the bread winner/probably pay his groom price.

Oyind17:

Lol, I wish u know me in person

My brother, what you stated herein is wrong no matter what anybody is saying. It is wrong for your brother's wife to be sending him to be doing such a thing by asking him to go get yam and tie it for her sister is usel---ess.

I do not care to say that if any man is doing this, he is under a spell.
Call a spade a spade. Your brother is under a spell.

Oyind17:

Lol, I wish u know me in person

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

HOW E TAKE CONCERN YOU

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

E dey pain you?

You are cursed!

Wetin consan you? (How is it your business?)

Is it your fcking household?

Mind your fcking business, fuuktard.

Typical African monkey.

Oyind17:

As his younger sister, I am hurt

She could be pregnant, just forget abt it cos u don't know what's really going on BTW two married couple. Probably dats how the love works for them one person must bend for the other not necessarily the woman all the time!

andyanders:



My brother, what you stated herein is wrong no matter what anybody is saying. It is wrong for your brother's wife to be sending him to be doing such a thing by asking him to go get yam and tie it for her sister is usel---ess.

I do not care to say that if any man is doing this, he is under a spell.
Call a spade a spade. Your brother is under a spell.

Are u married? Don't criticise what u don't know.
My husband wakes up midnight every night to check on our five kids. He cooks, washes , sweeps and I send him on errands all the time. By the way he is handsome and RICH! He loves house work not that he is trying to pls me it's just in him based on the way he was trained.

Seek spiritual help but dont let your brother or the wife know

fruityjojo:

She could be pregnant, just forget abt it cos u don't know what's really going on BTW two married couple. Probably dats how the love works for them one person must bend for the other not necessarily the woman all the time!

I forget am before I come here, thanks

There is no smoke without fire. A deviance from what should be naturally obtainable is an indication that all is not well. The lady in question may have gone diabolic to ensure full compliance to her demands without question no matter how degrading- He will think he is showing love- God has shown you this so that you can begin the process of his deliverance. You must let someone know, only a trust worthy person.
Secondly, your brother may be married to a narcissist (pls google and read as much as you can abt them). That is a very serious problem, because his life will never remain the same and may require therapy if he ever gets to escape. The solution; well evil can only thrive in darkness (ignorance), so tell your family, I mean those you trust. It will begin a very long hard battle but its achievable.
Thirdly, is his wife the bread winner of the family? If she is, she is simply playing her role no offence. Solution, make your bros go find work wen go give am plenty money so as to get back his confidence and assume his rightful place. Damn all narcissists, may God save all your victims from you.

Sagamite:

E dey pain you?
You are cursed!
Wetin consan you? (How is it your business?)
Is it your fcking household?
Mind your fcking business, fuuktard.
Typical African monkey.

Familyland troublemaker
Telling me I am cursed is out of place but I'll pass
New year new life things, no fighting

lielbree:
HOW E TAKE CONCERN YOU

Get lost! this one big pass you

EfemenaXY:


Oh, you're female?

No wonder you sound bitter. Jealousy stuff. I doubt all you typed is true - and even if it were, it probably didn't happen the way you've painted it on here for us.

You must truly dislike your sister-in-law. What are you expecting your mum to do? Rain insults on your brother and his wife? Turn your brother against his wife?

Stay clear of that marriage. Mind your own business.

You are sexist!

You are a misogynist!

Shaftrod:
That's the idea of what a modern man is.

some women will shamelessly make their husbands to do this...smh

lielbree:

Are u married? Don't criticise what u don't know.
My husband wakes up midnight every night to check on our five kids. He cooks, washes , sweeps and I send him on errands all the time. By the way he is handsome and RICH! He loves house work not that he is trying to pls me it's just in him based on the way he was trained.

He may be washing plate now while his wife is here bragging.

Woman! if your husband is doing all that, what are you doing as a wife? I believe you are an African woman

Family / Re: If You're Happily Married, Please
Share Your Story by lielbree: 10:25pm On Jan 04
I've been married for 10years now. The first 4 were
hell!
My marriage is like a fine wine. It gets better with
time. I can say I'm very happy I endured and
stayed.
My spouse also did a lot of enduring.
We thank God each day for where we are and
knowing it will only get better

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

hmm... You ladies ehn, i just don't know how God created you all,, shouldn't you know its Love, do you even ask yourself if your SIL is pregnant or ill,,, and am sure you pray and want the same, isn't it ? Please leave their marriage alone.

Now if its jazz, damn your brother must had done something really bad kikiki Lol

Maybe she paid her bride price.

lielbree:

Are u married? Don't criticise what u don't know.
My husband wakes up midnight every night to check on our five kids. He cooks, washes , sweeps and I send him on errands all the time. By the way he is handsome and RICH! He loves house work not that he is trying to pls me it's just in him based on the way he was trained.

so you also send him on errands for your siblings abi..........
tying yams and going to the market for your sister........
and washing car for your brother...........
when your cousins come around, what errand does he perform for those ones.......
bloody hypocrites.
just imagine.......
comparing a family man caring for his own kids to another who's busy running errands for his junior ones.
nonsense.