Cesclxg:

Does it matter if he made his real intention known after making the declaration that he wud pay her rent? Does it matter if he reneged on his promise? Is he bound by any contract to kip his promise? What if he wants something in return and that thing is sex? Are u to be the judge of that? Will u act as the judge, the jury and the excecutioner? Is the money not his? An offer was made buh u ain't okay with it, so u walked away and he did the same... Wasn't it the op that was trying the reach the man in question on phone? The man is not ready to part with his hard earned money, are we to blame him for that? Pls enough of ur hypocrisy. If u think the man is wrong, y don't u give the op the #40k?

reminiscing:

Thanks a lot.I was very shocked that he barely knows me and he is asking for sex

jusRadical:


Rubbish.

The sacrifices of a sinner is an abomination before GOD. Proverbs 15:8

reminiscing:

He asked me why I Dont go to school often when the school is in session. I told him that for now I only go to school wen I have enough t.p.He then asked me why I wasn't staying in d hostel rather than come from where I stay which is far,I told him I couldn't get a space because there was no money to do so.He then promised to help...

flokii:


bro.. calm down na

shey dem tell you say na me be d guy ni?

btw how're you sure d guy in question has much or is rich

you know somtin I've learnt in life?... never judge from one side of a story as there are always three sides

ow I wish d guy can give his own account of d story

reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...

efficiencie:


...and imagine a world where no one cares who dies and who lives but all we care about is what we gain...is that not the world we are in today? Many of you talking and spouting all manner of crap can do so because a rich man hasn't walked into your relationships, order the kidnapping of your girlfriend (because he's rich and powerful) and have you fan him while he pounds your highly cherished girlfriend to stupor...many of you are narrow minded and only see the flow of events from your hedonistic perspective...

reminiscing:

Attention seeking MALLAM SPICY sorry MISS Spicy.if you read my post well you will realize that I carefully stated that I didn't ask him for the money.Dont come here fumbling like say u see me for your dream......lol

efficiencie:


Bro i do not need the account of the other man...I feel emotional about this because it is what is happening everywhere and everyday...People who have power believe they can use it however they like irrespective of who lives or who dies...

Look at our schools, imagine in an MSc class a lecturer is dictating a textbook and she knows because she's powerful no one can challenge her madness...imagine a lecturer whose sexual advances were denied by a student and because of her the lecturer chooses to mark down everyone just to spite only one person in the class...why, because he has power to do so and no one can challenge him...

If we all ventured in search of power to molest, coerce, subjugate and oppress others tell me what kind of world would it be...would it be paradise?

SUPOL:
most times dey use lies to toast n get d girl which is like giving d babe face currency after d show

reminiscing:


That is why they are sending me to school so I can become HOPEFULLY RICH

efficiencie:


you call me a hypocrite? Ok let's see who the real hypocrite is...If i need a human head for ritual purposes and i pay an assassin to get me your head at the price of 50k, would i be morally justified?

Please answer, Yes or No and explain...by the time you are done explaining you'll know who the real hypocrite is!

jusRadical:



And you barely know him but you are asking him of money or you agreed for him to help you.


Face your studies and leave men alone.

efficiencie:


Bro this is why this world is screwed and will remain screwed till the end...with the resources in this world, should anyone be doing a shitty job? No, please look at Nigeria. With over 600 billion dollars made in oil revenue since 1999 should Nigeria be reeling under the oil price crash and many battling with no salary payments? I am not against people making their choices when there are ample choices to make...Have you read the works of Amartya Sen? Please do if you can and you'll see that the developed countries are called developed because on the average its people have a wide range of choices to choose from...An American prostitute is into the job because its fun and they even talk of making a career out of it with the like of Angeline Jolie, Sara Jay etc being celebrated porn stars at some point in their lives. Now these have choices...but in Africa this is not so. The choices are severely limited and people are burdened into doing what ordinarily they would not have done...

Bro, my point is if you, I and all of us were governed by the very same philosophy that guides that man who made such an offer, the world would be what Thomas Hobbes said it would be: "short, nasty and brutish..."

efficiencie:


Bro i do not need the account of the other man...I feel emotional about this because it is what is happening everywhere and everyday...People who have power believe they can use it however they like irrespective of who lives or who dies...

Look at our schools, imagine in an MSc class a lecturer is dictating a textbook and she knows because she's powerful no one can challenge her madness...imagine a lecturer whose sexual advances were denied by a student and because of her the lecturer chooses to mark down everyone just to spite only one person in the class...why, because he has power to do so and no one can challenge him...

If we all ventured in search of power to molest, coerce, subjugate and oppress others tell me what kind of world would it be...would it be paradise?

Cesclxg:

Ur logic is so wack. The analogy u just gave is baseless since it has nothing to do with the discussion in question. The example you gave is a case of 'apples and oranges' comparison. Two entirely different scenarios with nothing in common...

armadeo:



For your information Thomas Hobbes is right the world is short nasty and Brutish. Better wise up fast so you don't end up with the short end of the stick.

Somebody has to do the shitty jobs despite all the money cause even in America some one clears the shit. That's just reality.

efficiencie:


...yes, it is baseless because you say so...you know exactly what i am alluding to but you chose the regular cop-out technique...the man in the post can use his money to get sex and he is justified at that, so also i can use my money to bring down your head for ritual purposes and i am justified at that...the central theme is using your resources to get what ordinarily your money should not be able to buy...but unfortunately, money can buy anything nowadays and that includes sex and your head on a platter...

doveda:


Werey!

May thunder fire you!

reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...

efficiencie:


Yea reality...the hundreds of thousands of people dying per day, the over 700 million people living below the poverty line, the soaring rates of human trafficking, the rising level of drug trafficking and oh lest i forget the legendary 90-10 principle - 90% of the world's resources controlled by 10% of the world's population...well if that is the reality the good, the bad and the ugly must embrace, then i guess i had better be the best in art of being conman because life has become a zero sum gain...your loss, my gain...is this your reality? O ma se o!!!

armadeo:


All examples given here are completely tangential to the discourse.

Unrelated.

The situation is more like a student who can't meet up academically begging the lecturer to pass and the lecturer asked for sex. She then has a choice.

efficiencie:


...yes, it is baseless because you say so...you know exactly what i am alluding to but you chose the regular cop-out technique...the man in the post can use his money to get sex and he is justified at that, so also i can use my money to bring down your head for ritual purposes and i am justified at that...the central theme is using your resources to get what ordinarily your money should not be able to buy...but unfortunately, money can buy anything nowadays and that includes sex and your head on a platter...

David97:
[/quote[quote author=misspicy post=41565991]
Please answer this few questions

1)are you related to this man?

2)what type of circumstances did you meet with him

3)what is your relationship with him

see lady it is high time y'all realise that manna does not fall from heaven,how can you in this present day and age think that a full blooded man will just carry his hard earned money and pour it on you,when
1)he is not your boyfriend

2)he is not your sugar daddy

3)he is not a mugu

4)he is not stupid

5)he is not even related to you

don't you know that greedy girls have made it hard for a man to help other girls that really needs help?who wants to be seen as a mugu?
E be like say you be learner

I know you are expecting supernatural help from above,then you must be sensitive to the things of the spirit not just expect every man out there to drop their hard earned money on you like its your birth right
imagine asking a man for money just one month after meeting him? and you posted this on nairaland? lmao

armadeo:


Wrong again.

The man asked for sex and she refused. The correct thing to say is would you accept a monetary offer for your head. He can then make a choice.

armadeo:


Wrong again.

The man asked for sex and she refused. The correct thing to say is would you accept a monetary offer for your head. He can then make a choice.

armadeo:


Wrong again.

The man asked for sex and she refused. The correct thing to say is would you accept a monetary offer for your head. He can then make a choice.

doveda:
These are the same moro..ns that will scream ho.es, slu.ts, women and money etc

May you reap what you sow 1000 folds!!!

efficiencie:


so the lecturer in this case is justified to make such a offer? if he were then no wonder Nigerian universities churn out graduates that can hardly think outside their Instruments...

so the best that a lecturer can do to a student who isn't meeting up academically but wants to pass is to offer the sex for grades transaction...WoW, if Marie Curie were trained like that i wonder if we would have been able to study radio waves today...Bro, if you fail, you re-study, re-sit and re-write the exam. How does sex for grades fit into the curriculum of the University...