Estharfabian:
What's so bloody bad At being Friendzoned abeg??

So, Its now a crime for a girl to have a cherished Male bestie? ehn?
boys ehn....

if she's Friend-Zoning you...it's A privilege..!Many would kill to be in Your shoes!
You should be happy rather than lamenting/wailing.... the only difference is You won't get the cookie....Which shouldn't be a problem Atall...

Laveda:
I believe "forming hard to get" and 'friendzoning" a guy are two different things I don't know why y'all mix them up

If you ask a girl out she doesn't give you an instant answer maybe she starts telling you 'I'll have to think about it,I have a boyfriend, No for now I ain't interested' you can term that hard to get......but in a situation where by she's giving you that sisterly love you're deep in that zone.....Naijaboiy listed all the points already..

Laveda:
I believe "forming hard to get" and 'friendzoning" a guy are two different things I don't know why y'all mix them up

If you ask a girl out she doesn't give you an instant answer maybe she starts telling you 'I'll have to think about it,I have a boyfriend, No for now I ain't interested' you can term that hard to get......but in a situation where by she's giving you that sisterly love you're deep in that zone.....Naijaboiy listed all the points already..

obiorathesubtle:
I guess I'm the only guy on Earth who has never been friendzoned.. And I owe it to my strict policy




If we won't _fuck;_fuck off..

kingstylo01:
this reminds me of a gal I so much cherished to the extent that I can even take a bullet for her. I love her so much and anytime she smiles at me, I feel she loves me. I have even started boasting about her in front of my friends.


if I tell ya what shocked the hell outta me back-to-back, you'll pity me. just last week Friday, I called her and told her that I will be coming to visit her on Sunday. I dressed up, sprayed a very nice perfume and with my Lamborghini I cruised to see her. Do you know that when I got to her house she was tying only wrapper? I was shocked but kept . she rushed up to me and said "my brother welcome". She then introduced me to her cousin as her class mate who helps her in assignment! I nearly cried but I maintained.



I never knew I was the chief laboratory officer of her friendzone department until I stumbled upon this thread.


Chai, ihaff suffered.

Touchey:


Lol
I bet she saved your number on her phone as " assignment boy"

Cutehector:
you babe hav just sworn for yourself and so shall it be, amen!

Lovelynature:
Oh really? Nice point Laveda. And when the guy in brother/friend zone ask her out you hear things like, '' you know you are like a brother to me.'' ''We are friends already and you mean a lot to me.'' ''You are my dear friend and I don't want to lose you.'' Women eh! That's why I usually make my intention known to her almost immediately after making the move, so as to know where I would belong. And when I hear something like, ''Let's just be friends for now''. I would just find my way. There are other ones readily available

refiner:


u can't Jst fall in Lov wif someone Jst like dat,,.....u guys ought to start with being friends den Lov may av its way if u guys finally have strong feelings for each oder.......meeting a gal for d first time and telling her i Lov u Jst like dat is a total turn off on most gals.....

markkaycee:
Regular writeups,nothing new..but wait o,we cant always be intimate with any girl that we meet..some are really,really nice to keep as jus friends.,they tell u everything and are fun to be with,believe me they are the ones that help u when u need assistance..e.g financial,emotional etc.. Its fun to keep a female as jus friends,ur mindset would be elevated one way or the other

Lovelynature:
Yeah, I get your point.

I don't mean at the moment I make the first move. But I would like to make my intention known to her as early as possible because prolonging the friendship could result to friendzoning. And of course I'm likely to get the ''let me think about it'' initially. Her next reply could determine where the whole game is headed.

refiner:


hnmmmm...Ur choice dear,Buh as for me,its friendship first and we will allow Lov take its role wen it should.....nt Jst to say I Lov u to sombody Jst lik dat....

Lovelynature:
Yeah, you can check my profile I think one of my posts ''How To Make Her Start Crushing On You'' is related to what you mean here, and you can also read what most people said about the post related to their relationships. You see, there's a way a guy can channel a lady's heart towards himself without being friends first.

danbrowndmf:
They have low self esteem cus they can't let go? No i don't think so sir.


Toasted someone for 3good years while i was working,then i could easily afford her bills but she wouldn't say yes to my proposal..but you what? She finally agreed after 3years & this time around she was all over me like calling me almost 5times a day.


Guys not giving up on ladies does not mean they have low self esteem sir..people have different reasons why they keep on trying. We can't just tag them "low self esteem"


someone like me...i usually get tired of toasting a woman...once i try for a while & no positive reply, i'll just give up. But that particular girl i dunno why i have to chase her for that long.come to think of it she was even older like 3years or so.




Cc naijaboiy

Teespice:
all this noise about friendzone sef.

na wa.

there are women out there who have also been friend zoned. how many times have you seen them create threads bemoaning their fate.

let it rest abeg.

i don't think you read the original post,if not you wouldn't be saying this,and if you did then you clearly did not understand it.

kingstylo01:
this reminds me of a gal I so much cherished to the extent that I can even take a bullet for her. I love her so much and anytime she smiles at me, I feel she loves me. I have even started boasting about her in front of my friends.


if I tell ya what shocked the hell outta me back-to-back, you'll pity me. just last week Friday, I called her and told her that I will be coming to visit her on Sunday. I dressed up, sprayed a very nice perfume and with my Lamborghini I cruised to see her. Do you know that when I got to her house she was tying only wrapper? I was shocked but kept . she rushed up to me and said "my brother welcome". She then introduced me to her cousin as her class mate who helps her in assignment! I nearly cried but I maintained.



I never knew I was the chief laboratory officer of her friendzone department until I stumbled upon this thread.


Chai, ihaff suffered.

naijaboiy:
These are some sure ways to know you've been friend

Estharfabian:


if she's Friend-Zoning you...it's A privilege..!Many would kill to be in Your shoes!
You should be happy rather than lamenting/wailing....

Really ?!

Like really ?!

davide470:

E be like say dem don friendzone my guy.

Sorry bro.

Laveda:
Nope..I don't think you get it
Who said guys don't friendzone girls?
It happens...just say you've never come across that..

Estharfabian:
What's so bloody bad At being Friendzoned abeg??

So, Its now a crime for a girl to have a cherished Male bestie? ehn?
boys ehn....

if she's Friend-Zoning you...it's A privilege..!Many would kill to be in Your shoes!
You should be happy rather than lamenting/wailing.... the only difference is You won't get the cookie....Which shouldn't be a problem Atall...

tolutweety:



[color=#006600]E be like say dem don friendzone my guy.

Sorry bro.