bmos:


Sorry for what? Was she grabbed and taken to him in another town to be his wife. You are just greedy. You are married, you are married. Just get use to it.

pato405:
Attention seeker alert!

You were 32 when you married and you are married for a year now, meaning you are 33 now.

In your previous post, 3 yrs ago, you claimed 28 yrs old (which means you ought to be 31 now). How come?

Inconsistency = liesssssss

conclusion: story unbelievable, cooked up lies.

scaredy:
Thaxs for the advise and kind words.I was expecting a bashing but was ready to take it so long as someone will advise me too. Its not as if I dnt love my husband its hard to not love him , but I want the shame to go. I feel the private is more important. He carries me like a princess that's why I want to give him the best too and I want to start with not being ashamed.

bennyrazz:
@op, you have a very big problem. Do you know what the problem is? the problem is "what people, friends and family think about you". Judging from your post, that led you to marry an ugly man @32. Deep down, you love him but people seems to give some kind of glare when both of you appear in public. Still yet, you are still wondering and thinking "What are people saying about my husband?" you are the problem @ scaredy. so you need to redevelop mentally and stop giving a damn about what people say or think

Vikings007:
I'm sure Your husband[b] is not as ugly as Seal(musician),yet he had a wonderful wife(a super model)...I'm sure Yours is lil compared to that couple.
#LoveYourHusband.[/b]

thorpido:
Be content with such things as ye have!
You have married him already so quit thinking otherwise.You are honest with reasons why you married him.Now choose to enjoy him and your marriage rather than worry about what people say.At 33yrs old,you should have learnt to care less about many things.
You should help him dress neatly and trendy and he's good to go.

If any of your kids look like him,would you begin to hide the child?

jmichlins:
Just divorce him if your not comfortable with him. but your really a farming tool

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

kobonaire:
This could just be a FAKE story by the OP because in 2013 the OP claimed to be 28 years old and was seeking advice in this thread on how to have "wild sex" in his thread : https://www.nairaland.com/1533671/wild-bed
Now in 2016 the OP has suddenly turned 33 and is married to a fugly sugar daddy ..... SMH
[size=1pt]@Scaredy[/size]

kobonaire:
This could just be a FAKE story by the OP because in 2013 the OP claimed to be 28 years old and was seeking advice in this thread on how to have "wild sex" in his thread : https://www.nairaland.com/1533671/wild-bed
Now in 2016 the OP has suddenly turned 33 and is married to a fugly sugar daddy ..... SMH
[size=1pt]@Scaredy[/size]

Mindfulness:


You were insecure before you got married ('everyone was married but me') and you are insecure after you got married (but when I say that marriage is not the magic cure for happiness, people will argue. )

The reason why you feel insecure is not your husband's appearance, the reason why you feel insecure is inside of you and it will follow you wherever you go.

scaredy:
Thaxs for the advise and kind words.I was expecting a bashing but was ready to take it so long as someone will advise me too. Its not as if I dnt love my husband its hard to not love him , but I want the shame to go. I feel the private is more important. He carries me like a princess that's why I want to give him the best too and I want to start with not being ashamed.

if you really want my advice? Please divorce him and marry one of those "handsome dude" like Davido!

God! Someone dont deserve a good husband!

And to think there are wonderful women out there, who deserve this type of good husband?

Miami11:

Our job here in the forum is to advice. Stop acting detective.
Maybe she is confused the way she seems confused about her choices

scaredy:
Thaxs for the advise and kind words.I was expecting a bashing but was ready to take it so long as someone will advise me too. Its not as if I dnt love my husband its hard to not love him , but I want the shame to go. I feel the private is more important. He carries me like a princess that's why I want to give him the best too and I want to start with not being ashamed.

scaredy:
Thaxs for the advise and kind words.I was expecting a bashing but was ready to take it so long as someone will advise me too. Its not as if I dnt love my husband its hard to not love him , but I want the shame to go. I feel the private is more important. He carries me like a princess that's why I want to give him the best too and I want to start with not being ashamed.

Dbeze:
Eyiaaa,,, sister why did go and marry yellowbar man naaa,