brandon180:
dunno why am still finding chatting and calling difficult..

XavierBlue:
do

Ogaonos:
u nt d only one having guys do jux dt we ar gud at hiding it.let me tel y u having dis difficulties.is because u werent social 2 gals in ur sec.days dt y.if i ask u hw many female friend u hav during ur secondary sch.d answa none dt wer it all started.but is nt our fault.hw 2 solve it start 4rm sumwher.by chattin wit gals dt their confidence is egual or lower dan urs.den progress 4rm ther.

swave7:


Oga Don, it can't just be me na. I've done my part, my own issue is if she wasn't interested in doing anything with me she should've just said no outrightly. I don't like it when women play mind games, give vague responses & dance around things. Simple yes or no would suffice o.

I hear in Mars ladies speak outrightly

Here on earth, when ladies speak...
Their YES means NO
Their NO means MAYBE
Their MAYBE means YES
Their YES means YES
Their NO means YES

it's that complicated.

Point is you aint going to get straight answers from a lady.

That's why you as a guy need to develop your intuition.

Learn to decode meanings beyond their words.

brandon180:

by chatting i mean fb, whatsapp and the likes, am good in real life convo..

DavidTheGeek:



I hear in Mars ladies speak outrightly

Here on earth, when ladies speak...
Their YES means NO
Their NO means MAYBE
Their MAYBE means YES
Their YES means YES
Their NO means YES

it's that complicated.

Point is you aint going to get straight answers from a lady.

That's why you as a guy need to develop your intuition.

Learn to decode meanings beyond their words.

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
I don’t know how to say but I feel it’s spiritual problem oo .. imagine me .. 300lvl uniport I have no babe I have bleeped befor in the school with the number of fresh girls coming in every year .. bye it’s a problem from my sec school days because I didn’t socialize with girls ..
If I see a girl I don’t know what is holding me from talking to her and I’m not good at coming up with funny lines ..
there’s this beautiful girl I saw .. I prepared to talk to her but to my greatest surprise when I jam her coming moving in opposite directions I just pass like goat wey dey find grass .. I don’t just understand .. I don’t know if it’s confidence or lack of self esteem or whatever ..
Abeg who knows the problem ?

I will appreciate if anyone can provide satisfactory answer.. thanks


CC: DavidTheGeek
Cc: XavierBlue
Cc: HARDDON

Spiritual problem?

Oh pls!

Here's the thing...

When you want to try something out for the first time or do something you seldomly do, naturally your body will stop you and try to convience you not to do it.

It's simply your body's way of protecting you from "harm". You just have to push yourself and do it anyway. After two or three times of doing it, your body will adjust and get used to it.

It's not spiritual, it's normal.

*By the way, the easy way to approach a lady is to approach her like someone you talk to already. She's your friend, it's just been a while you guys talked.

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
I don’t know how to say but I feel it’s spiritual problem oo .. imagine me .. 300lvl uniport I have no babe I have bleeped befor in the school with the number of fresh girls coming in every year .. bye it’s a problem from my sec school days because I didn’t socialize with girls ..
If I see a girl I don’t know what is holding me from talking to her and I’m not good at coming up with funny lines ..
there’s this beautiful girl I saw .. I prepared to talk to her but to my greatest surprise when I jam her coming moving in opposite directions I just pass like goat wey dey find grass .. I don’t just understand .. I don’t know if it’s confidence or lack of self esteem or whatever ..
Abeg who knows the problem ?

I will appreciate if anyone can provide satisfactory answer.. thanks


CC: DavidTheGeek
Cc: XavierBlue
Cc: HARDDON

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
I don’t know how to say but I feel it’s spiritual problem oo .. imagine me .. 300lvl uniport I have no babe I have bleeped befor in the school with the number of fresh girls coming in every year .. bye it’s a problem from my sec school days because I didn’t socialize with girls ..
If I see a girl I don’t know what is holding me from talking to her and I’m not good at coming up with funny lines ..
there’s this beautiful girl I saw .. I prepared to talk to her but to my greatest surprise when I jam her coming moving in opposite directions I just pass like goat wey dey find grass .. I don’t just understand .. I don’t know if it’s confidence or lack of self esteem or whatever ..
Abeg who knows the problem ?

I will appreciate if anyone can provide satisfactory answer.. thanks


CC: DavidTheGeek
Cc: XavierBlue
Cc: HARDDON

sexymonkey:
try dirty face small b4 u embark on am.

Kayus4real:
Thumbs up guys. You guys are Marvellous! Approaching and getting a girl and getting her number is not my problem. I am quite good in that. The problem is how to initiate a conversation later on either on call or chats and get her interested. My question is, after getting the number, what next and how to do it right?

ChiefPiiko:
I saw ur post lamenting, over a year ago that someone conned you of 600, Engr Arthur is Mariga

fayded:
...hey, I need your help. I was in a relationship with a girl, it started out as fwb(friends with benefits) initially. Then we just started dating. In the long run, she started pulling out and hardly hang out with me. So I confronted her on that matter. She was always talking to one guy like that. I told her To stop talking to him. And along the line, I said some things to her. She was pissed. I apologized though, and she was still angry and even left me there. Since then, we don't talk to each other again. How do I get my balls back pls. I know I bleeped up.. Cos now I think she has lost d respect for me. I used to be the alpha.. Now I don't even know anymore. I need my balls back. Any advice would be gladly appreciated.
Davidthegeek
Magikalz
Xavierblue
Harddon

fayded:
...hey, I need your help. I was in a relationship with a girl, it started out as fwb(friends with benefits) initially. Then we just started dating. In the long run, she started pulling out and hardly hang out with me. So I confronted her on that matter. She was always talking to one guy like that. I told her To stop talking to him. And along the line, I said some things to her. She was pissed. I apologized though, and she was still angry and even left me there. Since then, we don't talk to each other again. How do I get my balls back pls. I know I bleeped up.. Cos now I think she has lost d respect for me. I used to be the alpha.. Now I don't even know anymore. I need my balls back. Any advice would be gladly appreciated.
Davidthegeek
Magikalz
Xavierblue
Harddon

Rubbiish:

You need your balls back or u need her back??
If it is your balls, they are with u...but if what u want back is the lady & not your balls...Then i think u should learn to respect people's opinion when they no longer have intetest in u.
No one will respect u when u force yourself on them....Let the lady be & forget about her...
To her she has found someone better & she has forgetton about u, find someone who will appreciate u & stop using getting your balls back as smoke screen...

Adasun:
Mansnothot ur convo looks more of an interview to me.and secondly,u over valued her.didn't u c wat she wore,her make up,hairstyle eta el.make fun of those things.




And when she is laughing so hard,push ur phone into her hands while telling her u don't want her to be dreaming abt u 2much.



"type ur eleven sisters here joor,don't want u thinking abt me 2much in da 9it"winks.



U tried in da voice part tho but hw u say it matters 2.
U trying bro.

mansnothot:


She had no make up on... Na dt one scatter my dada

wat abt those slender legs of hers dat may break if she ran 400metres.



Or that nose of hers dat is syphoning all da oxxgen



and hey no be only ur dada she scatter,check dat balls between ur legs if they ar stil intact

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
I don’t know how to say but I feel it’s spiritual problem oo .. imagine me .. 300lvl uniport I have no babe I have bleeped befor in the school with the number of fresh girls coming in every year .. bye it’s a problem from my sec school days because I didn’t socialize with girls ..
If I see a girl I don’t know what is holding me from talking to her and I’m not good at coming up with funny lines ..
there’s this beautiful girl I saw .. I prepared to talk to her but to my greatest surprise when I jam her coming moving in opposite directions I just pass like goat wey dey find grass .. I don’t just understand .. I don’t know if it’s confidence or lack of self esteem or whatever ..
Abeg who knows the problem ?

I will appreciate if anyone can provide satisfactory answer.. thanks


CC: DavidTheGeek
Cc: XavierBlue
Cc: HARDDON

BossNation:
Good evening house I'll keep this short
There's this ex of mine I wanna win back like I have lot of feelings for her but the thing is we broke up in a crazy manner like she was ranting and abusing then on WhatsApp.
and we don't even talk since then it's close to a year now so last week I went to see someone in her hood and she actually greeted me wella so I told my hommie I still love this babe and unbelievably he sent me her contact
please house what's the next step now I won't mind if I get some page links if that will help
cc HARDDON and everyone help a bro

Goldcoen:
Pls can u ensure ladies don't see dis otherwise is a waste

Goldcoen:
Pls
haddon I need ur help to keep my new found girlfriend i need u to tell me hw to continue with dis girl as long as beding n keeping her, i met her say on Friday and den rap for her n she gave me her number the next day evening i called her n say hello wamnting to know when she got back home, so after three days i called her again we talk, she was happy, buh recently she told me she lost her big sis dat she needed to travel shes looking for some cash n i said that she shud not worry God will provide for her she said amen, after another three days we we're just chating on whasapp i made her laugh along the line i said something like hope u didn't kiss me without my permission in ur dream she laugh n said nah, I said say the truth othwise i will come over n take back my kiss ,ur dp look like beautiful masquerade dat she shud change it so i said , she reply n said her bf love it i said ok whatabout the one that like the original face, as a result she ask me hw did u get my number dis was hw she stop chatting telling me she doesn't like my chat so she logout, what do i do nw?