HARDDON:


Ask yourself these Qs

1) Why do men ask ladies out n still end up expending time, money , energy, resources n sperm? N wen its time to marry, he still has to buy a ring n get on one strewpid left kneels like a stranded stranger begging for a ride wit her royal ducess ?
he finally marries her, he still has to fend for her, feed her, cloth her, pet her n pound her?

One wud think that since he asked her out, she should hv the resources not just to accept, but to spend on him!

Why do d men hv to do everything while she sits like a peahen to enjoy all?

HARDDON:



These are just brief intro into where it all started n why men feel that they must ask a gurl out b4 they can have her.

WHY DO MEN ASK LADIES OUT?

1) the most glaring reason unequivocally, is to shunt d circuit btw meeting n mating!
Men want unreaserved access to her body n d best way to do that, is to ask her out n once she accepts( rarely however), he bassically owns her. Unfetted gyration

2) to ward off other potential malemood that might be eyeing her. Men r territorial . Once she says YES to him, he can easily monitor, manipulate n control her activities n she cant accept others ( supposedly)
Want her for potential pseudo keeps

3. Men ask ladies out so that they can geniunly have some1 to share life with, grow together in understanding( wit or without sex) n wen its time, get married( very rarely though)

4. Some men ask ladies out cos of d financial benefits they can derive from her( very rarely though)


5) men ask ladies out cos we were wired thus. N r more adventurous, less emotional( shld she reject us, we can easily dust off n move )

These n many more r some of d reasons men feel oblidged to asking ladies out.

HARDDON:


Most of these reasons were quite kul in d 80s n early 90s but they hold very little effects now!

Infact ladies in dis age only READ ONE MEANING N ONE MEANING ALONE TO GUYS ASKING THEM OUT NOW! :

"he wants easy access to my pants!"

So instead of ur smooth talk of wooing her to endear her to u, it rather makes her weary of u!

Ladies have evolved brothers! Ya'll shld too!

They hear their mommas saying men are not trustworthy. Their elder sisters saying men r cheats, their aunties saying all men r dogs n once u let them smooth talk u, they eat n take off!


Then here u r, wit no doctrine about the right ways to treat women from ur father coupled wit d high libido he so gladly bequethed to u, approaching same gurls wit gf talks!



What do u think they naturally wud do?

RED FLAG U.!. Use that foolish talk to trap n milk u! Leave u in a limbo, they stand @ d door, not accepting ur gf proposal nor walking away. They hang on to milk u cos u let em.

This is where magas r made, this is where mugus die n full fledged men r turned to Fzone puppies!

Wud u blame them? No, You asked them out!

HARDDON:
WHAT IS THEN THE PROPER WAY OF ASKING LADIES OUT IN THIS AGE N TIME?

Answer: You Dont!
Rather you make them ask You out!

Yea, i know it sounds twisted, but daz why im here....

Call me The dymistifier! I have evolved also!

There is sometin you should appreciate, just like he/she who cares less controls any r/ship/marriage, so also
he/she who is ASKED OUT holds d C nob.
wudnt u rather be on d driver's seat?

HARDDON:
WHAT IS THEN THE PROPER WAY OF ASKING LADIES OUT IN THIS AGE N TIME?

Answer: You Dont!
Rather you make them ask You out!

Yea, i know it sounds twisted, but daz why im here....

Call me The dymistifier! I have evolved also!

There is sometin you should appreciate, just like he/she who cares less controls any r/ship/marriage, so also
he/she who is ASKED OUT holds d C nob.
wudnt u rather be on d driver's seat?

Kalatium:
@Harddon
I have been able to test your Drills on new catch and it works but my main problem is my female course mates, they know me as quiet/gentle guy, so when I try it on them they are giving me tough time. Despite me trying to socialize with them but it feels like they ain't comfortable with me.

Adasun:
harddon is really moving at his own pace.



Patient!!! Patient!!!

HARDDON:


Me: Hello
Her: Hi, who im i with?
Me: arrh, not the indomie vOice again! ( Line of Note i used d day we met )
her: oh , U! ?
Me: yea, i know u hv been expecting my call.
Her: u wish
Me: did u just say u wish we were married? Not so fast!
Her: lol, wen?
me: oh forget it, I knw i have that effect on ladies. It makes u feel strange n start talking like u were hY. Then u go forgeting what u just said.
Her: huh? i never said anything like that. Lol
Me: ofcos well WE knw already. Have u added a lil height now? Last time i saw u were....hehehe

Her : i was what? Lol

Me: oops, gtg talk soon. #Calldrop

HARDDON:


***Call clicks

Her: hello,
Me: *rapping or flowing peotry nonechalantly a lil distance from my phn which is on speaker....
Her: *dead silent enjoying d show
Me: **when I know i got her stung, go close to d phn n "hey ya troublesome one"
She: common dont stop, i was njoying d show ! Lol!
Me: what show? Oh, so u were eavesdropping u mean uve been wasting my airtime? Arrrh
She: lol, i helloed, no response that was wen i realise u got a show going on
Me: u owe me huge airtime, besides, that wasnt for ur ears! Dont want u to fall so deeply in luv wit me!
She: why ?
Me: from experience, i know. My voice is a huge charm!
She: u dont say! So what did u put in it that draws ladies?
Me: oh alot! But u got to unravel it piece by piece, the only issue is, your heart wud neva ramain dsame.
She: why wudnt it?
Me: because a woman's mind is like a big chess board having black n white button. The more whyt button u activate, d more luv she feels towards u. N im blessed wit a special gift; I know hw to romance d whyt buttons ever so smoothly
She: Mmmmmmm
Me: see? She is short of words n already falling! Lol
She: very funny.
Me: before we go on, u hv to promise u wudnt fall in luv wit me
She: why?
Me: oh , so u were already huh?
She: no! Just that u r so weird, itz strange to hear a guy say dat
Me: yea i know im sexy, thanks for d compliment . But wud u just kindly promise me u wudnt fall in luv wit me ?
She: tell me why first
Me: ladies first
She: ok, i promise.
Me: not convincing enuf....... ive got to go now, ok, bye
#Calldrops

HARDDON:



The above convo, is a perfect example of how Men go about programming in ladies' minds, luv towards them.

That is a template u can adapt to different convo situations n it wud still yeild same result.
The secret is, everytime u guys talk, u set word trap questions for her n her answer wud pan out in such a way that make it look like she is seriously dying to have u. N when she falls for it, u dont fail to remind her that u can see she is really falling for u!

She: so tell me about u
Me: mmmmm, (whispers, i can see she is falling for me already) ........


Me: how is it that everytime u hear my voice, u cant contain ur joy?
She: oh yea? Probably, u make me happy!
Me: hmmmmm, probably U r in Luv with me n not just lady enuf to say it! I have to guild me jrod jelously now.
*********----*-----------

Me: do u always talk wit this sonorous bedroom voice or is it only wit me?
She: lol
Me: Chai, some1 is swinming in my luv ooooo
************★********★6*******

U keep swinging this type of line into every convo u have.


They UNKNOWINGLY Start feeling gut level attraction n luv towards u.

B4 u know it .....

Rayfield:
HARDDON, when a lady you've 'pressed' her mumu (emotional) button, who was so much attracted to you for some time decided to tell you on chat after an arguement that "she doesn't have feelings for you..." what do you do, say it plainly bro... Thank you.

HARDDON:


U simply press d mumu button again , dis time, non stop!


She didnt just snap out like that. U hvnt been man enuf?

There is a catch to mumu switch, u hv to know hw to press it to hv her wanting more of u.
Just like crush can be CRUSHED, the BUTTON can be lost or d other party simply take it back by been wiser!

Even charms face off people's eyes let alone this swindle

Rayfield:

I gat you bro... I've ignored her for a while since last year, strategizing on the next pouncing. What "line" or system do you think I should come up with coupled with the fact that she is such an emotional cecelia...

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 12:

Do Ladies Choose Who They Fall In Luv With?

peterpen:

Hell No

peterpen:

Hell No

Kalatium:


Bro I think is high time we stop asking Harddon about the Right lines because whenever you are given a line, the surprising thing is that the girl might not respond the way you expect this will then make you come back here again asking for more Drills. In page 1 Harddon discussed on how to think on your feet and come up with a line.
The lines Harddon gives here are guidelines, from experience I think it will be better to use his principles to create funny lines because if you are only interested in cramming lines, when you are discussing with a girl you easily get confused and go blank when she gives you a response you don't expect. Hence the reason for your questions.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 12:

Do Ladies Choose Who They Fall In Luv With?

Niggafckyou07:
I am new here but have been following your thread for a while. You have my respect for all your efforts to transform and boost the confidence of young killaz. To answer your question, attraction is a choice. When a gyal likes you, it's cool. When she doesn't, it's a no brainer.. There is no logic to it. However, a guy can empower himself through the principles here to flip the attraction switch of these girls... I submit.