prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Ishilove:
This guy did summary in secondary school

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

utenwuson:
how a guy n a lady becomes besties is wat I cnt really figure out!!! maybe am insane I don't jst get it or u actually don't knw wat a "best frn" is! I. can visit my best frn for days, bath, cook,eat,play scrabble, hang out, sleep on d same bed 4 weeks wen am on leave! am jst imagining if he is a "lady"

CertifiedFreak:


Ma'am!

Michellla:
its possible.i had a male besty like that..tho he caught feelings later.
and i had to cut him off.

HRich:
If you so much desire her happiness or her company,

Why did you leave her to another girl even when you know that truely she gat no guy in her life?

If i were her i will do the same thing to you.

So the only thing i think you should do is to thank God that she have let you be.

Unless you have a dirty mind towards her.

(Don't get me please)

Michellla:
its possible.i had a male besty like that..tho he caught feelings later.
and i had to cut him off.

See waram saying?

He later caught feelings. It's not possible after all.

utenwuson:
how a guy n a lady becomes besties is wat I cnt really figure out!!! maybe am insane I don't jst get it or u actually don't knw wat a "best frn" is! I. can visit my best frn for days, bath, cook,eat,play scrabble, hang out, sleep on d same bed 4 weeks wen am on leave! am jst imagining if he is a "lady"

minnato:


Your example just goes to show that its not possible.. why den are you still saying it is possible

I tire!

yemstok:

Did o.p tell you he's a developer?

JeffreyJamez:


No it won't.... there are some really close female friends I have that I can't even consider dating... and they're cute.... it all boils down to emotional maturity...No be every babe you go get emotional attachment for na.... except you're mentally and emotionally bleeped up.

freecocoa:
What do you mean? So because he likes her company and wants her to be happy, means he should date her? Hian!

naijaboiy:

See waram saying?

He later caught feelings. It's not possible after all.

minnato:

Your example just goes to show that its not possible.. why den are you still saying it is possible

naijaboiy:

See waram saying?

He later caught feelings. It's not possible after all.

naijaboiy:
Just one question please!

How do you people comfortably become "besties" with the opposite sex and not attach some sort of feelings to it.

When I mean bestie I don't mean work acquaintance or classmate. I mean a fuckíng bestie.

The one that you can play with,argue with,show your naughtiest sides and you don't attach emotions?

Sounds clearly weird to me.

sukkot:
DAYUM nigga u gay. jus sayin

freecocoa:
What do you mean? So because he likes her company and wants her to be happy, means he should date her? Hian!

minnato:


Are you this dumb.. Don't roommates sleep on the same bed in school?? Bro I think its you that is gay.. U probably get turned on if a guy sleeps beside you.

otswag:
well, im not necessarily talking about intense emotions that will make you consider dating them or form an emotional attachment. Im saying at some point, if your friend is really cute with great qualities, a flash of an attraction alot more than "friendship" will surface. U can choose not to dwell in it though.

Michellla:
the point is__it lasted for yearsss before the whole feeling thing creeped in for him.