Kreamie:
There's no smoke without fire..

The OP should tell us what he's been doing wrong

But for 11 years tho...Wow..What sort of goals? She's close to menopause FFS!

OP, at this point; you have an option...


[size=20pt]ERITREA STRAIGHT!!!!!![/size]

ELVISHOT:
A man has cried out for help after staying 11 painful years without having a child with his wife only to discover a hidden secret about the woman he called a wife.


Dear Readers,

I have been married for eleven years now. My wife is a teacher (customer service facilitator). She was into this profession before I met her and married her. But I am so confused that I can't really explain what is going on in my marriage. We have no kids yet, but she gets pregnant, before I will know what is going on, I will see her using sanitary pad, saying her period just came out.

What surprises me mostly is that, I have followed her to the hospital countlessly and the pregnancy report reads positive, what l don't understand is how it will come out just like ordinary mensturation. I have forcely dragged her to the hospital myself, but the doctor said she is ok.

I tried to monitor one pregnancy of hers. Sat at home, denied her of her work. It got to three months and that month was when my mother passed on, and I had to rush to the village, staying one week, she called me after 4 days saying she is bleeding, I told her let me call my uncle who is our family doctor, she told me that she can't wait, that she is in pain, that she will visit the hospital close to us, when I returned, she was on pad. My mistake was that I didn't go to the hospital to ask them whether my wife was their patient when I wasn't around. I got so worried that my brother decided to know what she was up to.

So my brother asked his friend to woo my wife, lets know whether he can be able to make her talk. The guy sought for her friendship request on Facebook and she accepted. They went on as friends for 4 months before she could start talking of her married life. I have the screen shot messages with me. Where she told the guy, that she has dreams to fulfill before having a child. That she has been aborting her pregnancy because she doesn't not want set backs in her career. That children are one big headache and set back in marriage. The guy asked her is her husband not complaining? She told him, that she has her ways with me.

That the husband is and illiterate business man, who managed to go to the university. From my childhood I have always wanted to do business, but my father being a medical doctor had a rule, that all his children must past through the university before starting a business. I made first class in Computer Science. It's painful but am not annoyed, but I am terribly shocked to be living with such a woman under my roof. I have not confronted her on this, but I am still in shock. She is 42 years and I am 47years.

Shared by - Cynthia Uju Raphael, a relationship expert and manager.

Source: http://ndubuisiude..com/2016/02/i-been-married-for-11-years-without.html

EnlightenedSoul:


What's this about Eritrea everywhere?

Kreamie:
Lol...This is me trolling fam

Vikky014:
see them. i hope ur wife follow

oloyede252:
what is wrong with career woman..you must be a sahm ...its the woman choice to abort,its her body.you dnt knw maybe her husband is abusive.if he want a child.adoption is there..or is it by force to get pregnant

efficiencie:


...my apologies but i suggest you seek the services of a psychiatrist, you urgently need it! Nothing justifies making and killing unborn babies...If her actions are justifiable, then assassins, armed robbers and even kleptomaniac politicians have their evils justifiable!

EnlightenedSoul:


No, what do you mean exactly? People are mentioning Eritrea left and right and I'm not getting the context.

telldem:
This is made up, no woman will be 42 and still abort na lie

daretodiffer:


You don't have sense

daretodiffer:

my father is stu.pid

oloyede252:
ode you that you have sense where is it.its a right for women to decide what they want to do with their body.it part of what feminism fought for.freedom of choice

daretodiffer:


I cry for you

mykel25:
Not everyone on Nairaland ll believe your story, we all are not gullible.....shes 42 n still aborting...do u wanna tell she's not aware she's getting close to menopause? I SMELL LIES all diz bloggers sha...forming lies sin 18BC

oloyede252:
ehya cry for your family.dont knw we have cave women too.

geez18:

i'm sure you'll have a heart as black as the woman in this story.

Laserjetm1132:

probably she will give birth when she Don enta menopause!
ladies self, since she knew she has a carrier to meet up with why in heaven sake did she get married at the first place?

EnlightenedSoul:


No, what do you mean exactly? People are mentioning Eritrea left and right and I'm not getting the context.

Laserjetm1132:
my dear ooo, at 42

daretodiffer:




Do you know how ridiculous you sound?

oloyede252:
really.what ridiculous in gender equality,feminism and women right.

daretodiffer:


Is that you in your profile pic?

If yes, are you into eccentric fashion?


If yes, you need to tone that on those colours. They don't go together at all..

No offense




I will be deleting this post in about 2 mins

oloyede252:
you dnt have sense.ugly ape.