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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by formular123triol(m): 10:50am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Well,different strokes for different foes.If the cap fits you,wear it.But never confuse hanky-panky with love,'cos they are separate entities,and love alone does not determine a conjugal bliss.Think of the future,not now,'cos every lady tend to act-up during dating and courtship,but unveil & unleash their obnoxious attitudes when they settle.Am speaking from experience though! |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by ziego(m): 10:53am On Feb 11, 2016 |
amtaken: Those u mentioned are singles This is a mother of 2 Ohooooo A police man And older as well Abeg ooo truth must be told She needs someone who can control her not whom she will control |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:53am On Feb 11, 2016 |
lequatee:lmao, hahahaha. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f): 10:55am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Dexema:No sexism but it's okay if it was the man? According to whose law? Oh boy. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by danton(m): 10:58am On Feb 11, 2016 |
HungerBAD:guy u nail it... |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Dexema(m): 11:02am On Feb 11, 2016 |
cococandy:on a final note, this is africa, Nigeria where a considerable chunk of resources for family upkeep is "expected" to be provided by the husband and hence the supporting role played by the wife, I hope you do get my drift, different lands, different laws, practices and ideals. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f): 11:11am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Dexema: What's the issue? that he doesn't have a job yet or that the woman has kids? Because you seem to be drifting between the two points. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by donbenz(m): 11:12am On Feb 11, 2016 |
End time love |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Snoolv360(m): 11:27am On Feb 11, 2016 |
You get mind...infact, you also get liver wey biG pass you. The day she will treat you like common criminer is near, that thing wey you called love go clear from your eyes. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by MrPaul2: 11:32am On Feb 11, 2016 |
damostic2005: Tell yourself the simple truth, you want her care and money. Come to think of it what will you use to take care of her and her two kids if she wasn't working? young boys of nowadays |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by KehindeOlubayo: 11:38am On Feb 11, 2016 |
I wish to advise you to first of all, pray about it. Is it the will of God for you to marry a woman separated from her husband? Let God be the bases of any decision you intend to take. Emotion and lust could mislead and eventually kill. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 11:39am On Feb 11, 2016 |
cococandy:You have made an intelligent submission with your post on this subject, but I'm afraid your opinion has been influenced by your own penchant for the disease that is "Feminism". Life is complex and is hardly defined by any rule, yet, from time to time, we must learn to commit to see beyond our noses, shun every form of sentiments and say the gospel truth no matter who is involved. No matter the analysis we choose to do with this, a lady with kids from her teenage years must have been wayward in certain respect. I understand that there should be room for improvement in all cases, but we must learn to avoid choices that will damage us in the years and years to come. I could just go on with my thoughts, but I'm obviously not a big fan of these things. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 11, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Ok, I understand now |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by ranksz: 11:45am On Feb 11, 2016 |
All I can tell you is "DON'T DO IT" |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by sheilak: 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
LyfeJennings: Well, that was not your inital argument |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by siblings(m): 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Fallen in love with an older woman is very easy and interesting (reasons best known to people involved now or before) but when it comes to staying with someone for the rest of your life, you must think with your head. Always listen to your parent as their blessing is very important. Though, the choice is all yours Good luck |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by amtaken(f): 1:11pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
She's not legally married. Mrs. Mohammed had children too oo. ziego: |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Analysiscorner: 1:23pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
It is you that would choose whom to marry. Aside having bad character, you can confidently marry her. But talk to your parents with love, for them to see the reason why she is a wife material, if she is. The two children that she already had is not a problem. In terms of responsibility, she is already working. In terms of morals, she's better than a lady that have had 2 abortions . Love between you two, to me, is not infatuation, cause you have seen her character a little bit. Thinking like an African, she is still within the reproductive age. And you are not alone in this- marrying a lady who is your senior. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by ibedun: 1:32pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
My myopic silly Yoruba men and women marrying hateful Yeebos and frustrated Akwa Yeebons out of lust (men mainly) and frustration (women mostly). You all will soon find that those multi tribal marriages do not last beyond a few years once the lust has worn off. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Analysiscorner: 1:34pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
konvict0111:Yes! Having two kids during teenage age points to some previous waywardness .But she can't be more wayward than the lady with 2 or more abortions. This lady with 2 kids is not trying to hide her previous waywardness. But the one given to abortions is obviously trying to hide things from us. Moreover we don't even know the circumstances that led to her having 2 kids for her former lover. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by ibedun: 1:37pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Analysiscorner: Think like an African and you are doomed!!!! |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 3:49pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Analysiscorner:Chief, I agree with you and definitely appreciate your point of view. I can't say a lady with kids from her teenage years is more wayward than another who doesn't. We will need to look at the particular circumstance of each person's case to pass on a fair judgment. Also, I do not hold brief for ladies of easy virtues who continue to find an escape route in abortions for their misdemeanours. My point is that the young man in this story need not be the hero in the life of the lady with kids. He may wish to support her in other ways, if he so wanted but to commit to a lifetime arrangement with such a lady is not something I would readily advise anyone to get into and this is regardless of any consideration, be it age, tribe, colour or race. Ultimately, the choice is his to make and of course, the attendant consequences whether good or bad. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by LyfeJennings(m): 4:20pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
sheilak: Guess u misconstrued my words. The guy is not in love, he is not in the right position to decide if he is in love or not. His affection is as a result of idleness or fantasy, U can't give what u don't have. Dating an older lady is one thing, dating a single mum is another thing. Dating an older single mum of 2 is like 3 things rolled into one. Each of the 3 has unimaginable weight. This guy needs help to get a good job and work on himself 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by sheilak: 4:22pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
LyfeJennings:You can't be 50% certain The best thing is for him to wait a couple of years to see if he still feels the same way. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f): 6:02pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Disease that is feminism? That's it. I'm done with ya ignorant arse If this was a convo, it ended there with that silly line. konvict0111: 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Caseless: 6:40pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Angelberry:how are you doing? Where have u been? |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 7:09pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
cococandy:Dear Cococandy, How or, exactly in what way did my post strike you? I accept it is within your rights as a human being to express your opinion on any subject matter, but to do so in the manner in which you have done is clearly a red herring sign of what you purport to represent. There's surely something about this your feminism which God himself will tell us when the time comes. And indeed I was looking to engage with you in open conversation but as you have appropriated the title of "know it all" to yourself, I would have no further choice than to let you live in and enjoy the comfort of your false paradise. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 8:30pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Caseless:Fine sir, you? am very busy. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Caseless: 10:44pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Angelberry:I'm fine . Busy? That's cool. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Flashh: 11:10pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
GboyegaD: Spybradd: Why are these folks so down to the bottom of iQ? mikolo80: Are you asking this? mikolo80: I don't give answers to dumb questions. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Spybradd: 11:16pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Flashh: reason is simple..we find it hard to make sense when blokes like u keep spilling thrash from the arsse.. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Flashh: 11:19pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Spybradd:Look at my post and yours, will is spewing thrash? You couldn't give any advice, but you decided to let people know how ṣtupid you are. |
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