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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Kobicove(m): 8:43am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Op, the only reason why you're interested in this lady is because you have not source of income yet but she takes care of your financial needs. Trust me, as soon as you start working and realize that you have better choices that love you claim to have will die. As far as I'm concerned a lot of the factors in this situation will count against the marriage if you still decide to go ahead with it. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Spybradd: 8:46am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Flashh: whatever..my own is simple even for a donkey to comprehend,keep ur advice to urself,old man,b4 someone call u a loser.. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by dirk: 8:49am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Guy, we are talking of a permutation of three serious factors here. U have only addressed one of them adajiboyy: |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f): 8:50am On Feb 11, 2016 |
OP If you can handle being a step parent, then you can do it. As long as you're sure your visions align and you're compatible with her. The only reason people are telling you to run is because of their prejudices against single mothers which stems from sexism and nothing else. I bet if you were a single lady asking this about a single dad whom you're considering marrying, nobody would see it as taboo. Instead you may even be made to look bad for your unwillingness to jump in and be a perfect step mom for his kids. So pls don't base your decisions on the opinions borne out of chauvinism. Rather your real concerns should be in your ability to be a step dad to kids that aren't yours. It's not easy. But If you believe you can pull it off, then you've nothing to worry about. A good person is a good person regardless of whether she's a single mom or young girl that has never had a boyfriend. Ask those who married virgin women and still ended up unhappy or divorced. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Femich18(m): 8:54am On Feb 11, 2016 |
This kind love no be here o...Anyway just follow your heart |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by otolinedebby(f): 8:54am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Dear, seeking for advice here wouldn't help u although some are genuine but d best thing to do is to meet ur spiritual father (pastor) for counseling and pray for it b4 any decision can be taking. good luck |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by emonkey(m): 9:08am On Feb 11, 2016 |
damostic2005: [size=16pt]The witches from your village , or your wicked stepmother, or the okpo wey she don take nack you for blokoss, have not yet left your case. SMH [/size] |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by valdes00(m): 9:11am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Spanner4:tanks bro |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by tritt(m): 9:15am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Police is your friend. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by LyfeJennings(m): 9:27am On Feb 11, 2016 |
sheilak: There is nothing mature about a young man with no job dating an older woman with 2kids. I've seen it and been through it. They would have no common ground. The boy is thinking about a future for himself and the woman is thinking about future of herself and her 2kids with other relatives. The young man in question would bring NOTHING ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO THE TABLE. U GOTTA THINK.. I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. I CAN DATE A COUGAR NOW COS I HAVE A JOB AND I'M DOING WELL AND WE WOULD DO FINE BUT NOT AT THAT AGE IN THAT SITUATION 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by jtwest(m): 9:30am On Feb 11, 2016 |
U apparently have what u want to do in ur heart, just came here to see how popular your decision is, anyway advice or anything here doesn't guarantee the success or the failure of your impending marraige. Mind you; LOVE AINT ENOUGH WEN YA TALKING MARRAIGE!!!! |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by mrkings84(m): 9:30am On Feb 11, 2016 |
I perceive u have eaten "kob no mi" |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 9:49am On Feb 11, 2016 |
D problem with fucking calabar person sweet p*ssy, u just wanna own d p*ssy. I swear I don't knw wot dis calabar ladies put in dir p*ssy . Naa d p*ssy dey control d guy nothing else |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Philinho(m): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2016 |
what is pushing U is sex and what she have .....u have already decided just want to hear our mouth...pls QUIT .. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by GboyegaD(m): 9:52am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Flashh: I advise you go read your initial post again. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:10am On Feb 11, 2016 |
dirk:year bruv I understand.but d fact is that our culture,our nun has really portrayed marrying a older woman or a single mum as a taboo.wit real love nd understand I tell u that woman would love him morethan any younger girl would do.but it his decision to make sha,I wish him all d best. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by oodua1stson: 10:10am On Feb 11, 2016 |
2 kids and older than you? por que ? |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:10am On Feb 11, 2016 |
dirk:ye bruv I understand.but d fact is that our culture,our nun has really portrayed marrying a older woman or a single mum as a taboo.wit real love nd understand I tell u that woman would love him morethan any younger girl would do.but it his decision to make sha,I wish him all d best. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by crystalclear(m): 10:13am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Hmmm...........,my dear friend,don't go near! Wedlock is like a place besieged,those in wish to get out and those out wish to get in. He who neva learns to look forward,remains behind;to know the way forward,ask from those coming back. The reality is she must have seen farther;a prospect in you which she intend to capitalize upon. Look after the kobo,and the naira will look after itself. Remember also that,when poverty comes in via the door,love flies out via the window,and am pretty sure you wouldn't want to c the oda end of a service woman. Judge yourself with this two questions1)Do i have the financial carrying capacity?What have i really achieved?Still a job seeker and a marital novice. (2)Why was there a break-up after two kids?It cld probably an egocentric chauvinism from her.Just mark my words,make it first,and better ladies will come after you,then you have options to choose from. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 11, 2016 |
HungerBAD:that moment when the hammer hits the nail on the head |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sanchase: 10:21am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Bro women with kids have many things in common, they have baggage being their kids, no matter how sweet her toto tastes don't commit yourself or make d mistake of getting her pregnant, u go suffer o !! Their kids always come first no matter how dear you are to them. They see men as bunch of scumbags. Secondly, if you correct their kids to an extent they will embarasss you in front of the kids. I will advice you just keep fuuccking her 3 times a day buy no commit. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by SurefireAsoOke: 10:24am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Irore:This is Nigeria(Africa) |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:26am On Feb 11, 2016 |
isinno:* How does your post co-relate with mine? Or you just feel like quoting me. Mtccheww!! Don't quote me again abeg |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by MrBasketball: 10:27am On Feb 11, 2016 |
GboyegaD:How is that even an insult? Some people ehh. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by profosenogoboy: 10:33am On Feb 11, 2016 |
To it just s sucid mission |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Dexema(m): 10:34am On Feb 11, 2016 |
cococandy:hi cococandy from my own point of view the age is the least of the issues on ground, hell I can marry an older mature woman once the love is there. but the main issue is 2 KIDS who are almost adolescents + a militarised woman whose history and background remains hazy, then compare with a 26yr old jobless graduate with very little relationship experience (he has been dating her since he was 22). it doesn't just balance, if the woman truly loves him and she doesn't have any ulterior motive(s) she should free him and look for an older more stable man, btw she's not too old herself. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f): 10:38am On Feb 11, 2016 |
If she's a good person what's unbalanced about the union? Would you say the same if he was the one with the kids and older then her? And what has her occupation got to do with it? Militarized? What does that even mean All this skepticism boils down to so much unfounded assumption and prejudice rooted in sexism. Simple and short. Dexema: |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Happiness456: 10:38am On Feb 11, 2016 |
You are very much on the right path since she is a single mother and you have known the truth about her. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by ominiriches2016(m): 10:45am On Feb 11, 2016 |
If she has fed you with coc-nou-mi (Calabar soup). Make sure u meet a spiritual man of God (Jehavoh) to pray for you and vomit all that you've taken and be free from all forms of temporal satanic bondage of love. Ur mama dey tell u watin she dey see as she sitdone for ground. U came dey claim say, u be graduate. Oluku. |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Dexema(m): 10:45am On Feb 11, 2016 |
cococandy:there is no sexism here just plain reality, if the reverse were the case it would be allowable because the male is supposed to be the MAN in the house, or how does he act his role as a man in the house with no income? by just bleeping her? or haven't we seen cases where husbands lost their jobs and became frustrated thanks to their wives, and by the way I know what I mean by "militarised " women as I have come in contact with many force women and trust me very few of them are submissive and peaceful on the homefront . 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 10:47am On Feb 11, 2016 |
rawpadgin: Funny but true |
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by nickxtra(m): 10:49am On Feb 11, 2016 |
CertifiedFreak:...and a Police officer for that matter! Pls go and ask Godwin Anabor, what and how an older woman, a retired police officer he married dealt with him. |
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