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Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

I888:
it's tradition things bro.

To be candid, they are often the cause of their own predicament in many instances.

I know how many times, while growing up, that I have been turned down, the ones that dated me abused me one way or the other.

Yet, I have one of the most understanding, loving and accommodating personality with truer intentions.

After the break up, they often want me back.

I got tired of the whole BS and just decide not to be serious with any of them anymore. Right now, I have as much as 5 side chics no main chic.

I have my plans and there is something I am chasing which if accomplish, I would just go off and buy one of them, even though she has a guy. After all someone did same to be which one of these girls dump my asss for.

But I don't care, life is never fair and it's the way we just have to live till death.

The OP can't say while she was younger there wasn't truly a guy who really loved her, that's where the regrets set in, the desperation get worse as time ticks.

One of my ex is now a Church goer, gentle and submissive but in her younger age, she was so uncouth, rude, deceptive.

Fork it bro... I have chosen to be ruthless and a mafia with life.

Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

1) Btw the God who you expect him to implement your curses says you should pray for ur enemies,
the God you expect to implement your curses says no enchantment shall before him,

2) the God who you expect to implement your curses once told Abraham that he would curse anyone who curses him ( do you know how much God cherishes ur boyfriend?),

3) You probably have been having sex, the God who u expect to implement your curse says dont have sex outside marriage so you are also disobddient and susceptible to his punishment.

4) the God who you expect to implement your curse has destined someone else for him and u, you might simply be fulfilling Gods purpose,

5) in short by cursing him you are only wasting your time, and the guy would fall in love again and find true love,

6) people repent and God forgives them with or without your consent especially when you refuse to forgive, he has to move on too,

7) he would apologise but not come back and if you are a christian the bible says Jesus christ literally has carried all our curses (since cursed is any man that is hung on a tree)........

And if you are not a christian or muslim and dont believe in God you would understand that curses are trash and nonexistent.... I can only make you feel cursed by auto suggestion (if you know psychology)

I have an uncle who has broken many hearts and i can admit it, but my uncle today is a multimillionaire who flies private, who is married hapilly today and who charters jet to transport his kids from Naija to dubai for holidays, the curses didnt work, he is rich and happily married to a gentle and beautiful woman!!!!

We cant all marry those we date or "love" , Sad truth but Move On!!!

Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

Ifakiland:
that was how an ex cursed me for leaving her, warned her not to cos we both sinned, she no gree....her dad died few months after....op u don't know d spirits protecting d guy curse him at ur own risks.

Moppsys:



Thank you so much for your advice, I know setting him up was the wrong move and I regretted it, but I have been a victim of abusive marriage and relationship cheating partners etc, and he was well aware of this, very much aware.[b] so him doing exactly the same thing got me all worried [/b]and he was denying it point blank which prompted my wrong move. He has well forgiven me until his family got involved and turned everything into a mess. And If he said those painful words to get back at me for setting him up, all well and good.

Wowzer:
Op. You are only cursing yourself. Have you finished cursing the guy that married and dumped you? You should be happy he is out of your life for good. Unless you are hopeless and desperate. Continue cursing till eternity. The lady mentioned below can help you further.

@prettysassygirl. You didn't mention what killed your ex guy. So you believe he died as a result of dumping you and the curses your reigned on him. You must be joking. If that is what you think...then you should be dead for all the wrongs you have done to other people.

You both sound fetish to me. Women who can't forgive and move on or accept what they can't change have no place in marriage. Probably, going by your thinking...all the numerous ladies who broke my heart should be cursed and dead by now.

Koolking:


Curses don't work in relationships my dear. Absolute waste of energy. Who is hurting who for curses to work on one? I believe both relished the relationship while it lasted, while trying to discover and rediscover themselves.

What happened in your case is a mere coincidence.


Of course, it hurts us when someone we feel we loved with every breath in us walk out of our lives. Just give yourself time, you'll find out that it was the best decision for you to move on. There's no point dissipating your energy cussing.