chimkaire:
How's this a topic

Op, igata alu onye yahoo ma o bu onye money ritual

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

Rotentina:


I bought the bricks at the rate of #180 as at 2014, and I bought 2000 pcs........!!! But as at today, it goes for 230 per one.

I spent roughly 150k from foundation to the level and I spent 260k for the roofing, I spent 60k on the ceiling, yet to finish, and 40k on the flooring, yet to finish. I spent roughly 15k on the electrical (I did the wiring myself) roughly 885k and I AM HAPPILY SLEEPING THERE WITH MY FAMILY, no more under the threat of Landlord.

Specialbaby:
life has evolve the stage of sitting down and waiting for a guy and shitting babes out like watery stool,majority of ladies these days are making plans on how to better their lot and making headways but that not withstanding,no sensible and focus lady will settle for a guy with the future sha be bright mentality!


If i am working and toiling to better my self,what prevented the guy from doing so?see ehn,poverty is a curse,try being broke and you will hate your existence!

Specialbaby:
life has evolve the stage of sitting down and waiting for a guy and shitting babes out like watery stool,majority of ladies these days are making plans on how to better their lot and making headways but that not withstanding,no sensible and focus lady will settle for a guy with the future sha be bright mentality!


If i am working and toiling to better my self,what prevented the guy from doing so?see ehn,poverty is a curse,try being broke and you will hate your existence!

adeaks:
Only guys with houses and cars should even date.


Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car?

Let's start from there.

Rooneyboy:


U are so on point dear , most times I wonder why ladies choose to suffer for the rest of their lives all because of the word "love".

I tell my female colleagues to always shine their eyes when they want to settle down, else they'll forever regret coming to this world .

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

adeaks:
The fallacy in this thread is the assumption that the man's income and his life generally would remain at the same level before he got married, after he got married, and even when the kids start arriving. For someone to keep earning exactly the same income over a couple of years shows there is something wrong somewhere.

The second fallacy is that the wife wont add anything to the man or the upkeep of the house. While I am not saying the wife should be the bread winner, but why should all the expenses be on the man's $500 income alone? It means the wife is a liability and even if you are earning $10,000 such a wife will fritter it away.

How about the wife supporting and collaborating with the husband to grow his $500 income to $2000. No one wants to marry a wife who is only prepared to spend without thinking of how to earn more.

adeaks:
The fallacy in this thread is the assumption that the man's income and his life generally would remain at the same level before he got married, after he got married, and even when the kids start arriving. For someone to keep earning exactly the same income over a couple of years shows there is something wrong somewhere.

The second fallacy is that the wife wont add anything to the man or the upkeep of the house. While I am not saying the wife should be the bread winner, but why should all the expenses be on the man's $500 income alone? It means the wife is a liability and even if you are earning $10,000 such a wife will fritter it away.

How about the wife supporting and collaborating with the husband to grow his $500 income to $2000. No one wants to marry a wife who is only prepared to spend without thinking of how to earn more.

tommychow:


Looool. Who else? Tell me how many female victims you know and I'll tell you how many men I know who got dumped for a rich guy. Should I now label all naija women gold-diggers?

If it makes you feel better, I'm one of the good guys. Do you yourself a long term favor and count the good guys first. Focusing on good people (like me) brings so much positivity to your life.

Kgdavid:
Sometimes I wonder if it is compulsory to express an opinion on this nairaland. Op calls herself an economist and yet presents such a poor argument for her assertion.

Hey argument is that getting married increases the burden on a man and bringing kids into the world under such conditions would increase poverty. I wonder if this Vinshu or Vinshi person really couldn't think through more practical solutions or simply got bored and decided to seek for attention?

Here's a five minute solution that makes far more sense:

How about a young man and woman get married, maintain a small one bedroom that would suffice for a bachelor, practice birth control, and work and save together? Ms economist can't you see a multiplier effect there, as costs are minimized and income streams expanded?

Nairaland is so annoying.

Kassidy90:
I don't think Pastor David Oyedepo has a car or 3bedrooms flat before he married, Gold diggers overwhere
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Vinshu:


Can you be less hypocritical? Did I tell you that having children brings poverty? Having children increases your expenses! And if your income doesn't increase to match up your expenses, it becomes loss. And excess loss results in bankruptcy.

It's simple accounting. Read again and apply wisdom and understanding.

Why work and save together? A man's duty is to provide for his wife not two of them

skywalker240:

A mans duty abi?

But u will still go gaga for gender equality ba?

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Vinshu:


Can you be less hypocritical? Did I tell you that having children brings poverty? Having children increases your expenses! And if your income doesn't increase to match up your expenses, it becomes loss. And excess loss results in bankruptcy.

It's simple accounting. Read again and apply wisdom and understanding.

Why work and save together? A man's duty is to provide for his wife not two of them

Diddyydiva:
Mr rawRity when its time for me to cross that river, I will safely do



Thanks for the hint

Vinshu:


I give up. Many illiterates here. I'm sure many of you did not read my thread in full.

I said if there won't be equality then let the men do their jobs. Read again

I'm sick of these illiterates

yemsai:
I don talk my own o

joseph1832:
Yea but this case is one in a million. Its a known fact most women always like their husbands to have his own apartment so they can claim 'landlady' and lord it over their husband's siblings and friends.

This is among the reason why I refer to you as 'creme de la creme' when you speak the plain truth. LOL.

True that! The days of our fathers have passed, now is the day of wives who chase their husbands siblings and friends away from their husbands house, just so they can show whose in charge. Even in the midst of soaking garri. Lol.

Monalisa185:




lies!!! who beg you for support? GERARAHERE jor

hehehehe, happy thinking?

hehehehe, mud house ke? kukuma carry thatch house come na .

had a great day, hope you did as well?