wildrose21:

I suggest you read your nairaland personal text and really understand what what it is all about...

I really should counter your logic by posting pictures of a woman who was stripped naked for allegedly kidnapping, another picture of a woman who allegedly murdered her husband in Ibadan, and yet another who threw her new born baby into a pit... And insinuate they are 'equal' to men (those dearest to you) or better still 'equal' to you...

But on a second thought, you are entitled to your opinion, and just maybe you really ain't worth the stress...

RaggedyAnn:




And there's her Jackpot prize! A marriage proposal to reward her support for the oppression and neglect of her race. Well done.
All you women advocating the right to your own bodies, your property, equal opportunity and wages - no husbands for you. Whatever shall we do?!!

RaggedyAnn:




And there's her Jackpot prize! A marriage proposal to reward her support for the oppression and neglect of her race. Well done.
All you women advocating the right to your own bodies, your property, equal opportunity and wages - no husbands for you. Whatever shall we do?!!

chiwetel:
And where exactly is our place??
A place where we are intimidated and forced to give up our dreams?
A place where we are disrespected because we are seen as inferior?I could go on and on,that's more like an animal's place..
I am no feminist, wherever that word came from I just don't see any reason why I should subdue my potentials,and give up my dreams because a society of small minds doesn't tolerate otherwise.
I don't know about you,buh I want to be a successful wife,mother and individual and ofcourse am totally willingly to submit myself in wholeness to a man that not only knows my worth,buh is ready to support me to efficiently utilise my potentials.
isn't that what living is all about?

chiwetel:
Fine,I understand your perspective.

so,as a HEAD you don't want a follower that can wouldn't be a liability to you,that can support you in plenty ways to achieve a common goal.you don't want a follower that you can partner with and share all your losses and profits with,a productive and useful partner?seems you prefer otherwise.
if truly in the concept of marriage a woman is the helper,then I don't see any reason while she should be totally silenced to a point where she becomes redundant to even her own self.

fellis:



You see all these men? They are all superior to you.
They are better than you and their lives have more value than yours.
The first is a theif, the second is a mass murderer and the third are three mentally unbalanced/lunatics in an insane asylum.

They are all superior to you dolly joy.






I didn't just insult you by the way, you said men will always be superior to women so I am showing you pictures of different men that are superior to you.

zeeudenwa:


just look at

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look at what? Bcs he opined that equality should not be brought in the family front
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Shym3xx:


Her race? So feminism is now about race not gender, yes? Cray!

Anyway, can someone please educate me on what "feminism" is about cos I live under a rock and I have lost touch with the world lol.

Beehshorp:
Anytime I see OAP freeze I know dat waheva he says is rubbish whether he tries so hard to make sense... He and Lai mohammed and apc dey dsame category

Sokoflow:

I seldomly leave a comment here, but in response to what you said and @dollyjoy did said too. I think she has said it all by saying "what matters most is
respect and understanding in any form of affair". By respect and understanding,i think she meant a man who respects his wife, support her to achieve her desires,potentials and goals. A man who treats the wife right, cherishes her. Who doesn't relegate the wife, he allows her have a say and her way when the need be, also who understands reason for actions taken by the wife. Above all a man that loves his wife and have good listening hear. I hope with this, you get where @dollyjoy is coming from(point of view).

Gerrard59:


Nobody is saying men have to wash dishes, however, leaving dishes unwashed and even clothes for your partner to come and wash when you could do it isn't fair. Saying that a lady who comes from work late in the night to come and cook even when you came earlier than her is not fair. What stops the man from cooking and keeping some for his partner? This transcends beyond feminism, it's about doing to others as you want others to do to you.

Furthermore, feminism has helped the world and obliterated useless misconceptions and culture. Why should a lady have a male as a sponsor before she can rent an apartment because she's single? That's what feminism has done to help the society. It has given rights to my sister, nieces, female cousins and definitely my future daughter(s) to do things hitherto they weren't allowed to do or achieve. Saying that women have to put up with terms like "men are polygamous by nature"; which gives you the freewill to cheat isn't fair whatsoever.

Nevertheless, there are fanatics in any system or movement. However, feminism, however you look at it has contributed to global development. It has given rights to those who don't have any, hope to the downtrodden, opportunities to those who didn't have any to grab, dreams to those who never had any, education to illiterates and many more.

I'm proud to be a feminist.

chiwetel:
And where exactly is our place??
A place where we are intimidated and forced to give up our dreams?
A place where we are disrespected because we are seen as inferior?I could go on and on,that's more like an animal's place..
I am no feminist, wherever that word came from I just don't see any reason why I should subdue my potentials,and give up my dreams because a society of small minds doesn't tolerate otherwise.
I don't know about you,buh I want to be a successful wife,mother and individual and ofcourse am totally willingly to submit myself in wholeness to a man that not only knows my worth,buh is ready to support me to efficiently utilise my potentials.
isn't that what living is all about?

Owliver:
no that is not the case here. feminists want equal right and that is what we kick against. there is nothing like equality in a society. osinbajo is vice president doesn't make him less a human. Buhari would break down if he does all the executive and ceremonial job himself. he "needs" his vice. you see? everyone is important but can never be equal. the moment equality comes in the picture there will be conflict of ideas. there will be war of words. no one submits to no one. and that is anarchy.

if you understand human psychology you'd know women are more powerful than men. but you don't use your power well, but are busy chasing a concept that breeds anarchy.

hope you get

doll912:



Who you be? I

cr7lomo:



U must have complex issues...did anyone stop u from being an achiever... Is Genevieve, okonji oweala , omotola, deziani not from the same society or country as u are...mehn , gdfoh

fellis:



You see all these men? They are all superior to you.
They are better than you and their lives have more value than yours.
The first is a theif, the second is a mass murderer and the third are three mentally unbalanced/lunatics in an insane asylum.

They are all superior to you dolly joy.






I didn't just insult you by the way, you said men will always be superior to women so I am showing you pictures of different men that are superior to you.

cr7lomo:



U must have complex issues...did anyone stop u from being an achiever... Is Genevieve, okonji oweala , omotola, deziani not from the same society or country as u are...mehn , gdfoh

Moneytize:
No she is not supporting any oppression. She is a virtuous woman who is like a crown to her husband(not a foot mat), for her price is far above rubies.

chiwetel:
alright, still using your analogy. if equality is unattainable so therefore what prevails is inequality,from which stems up discrimination, unfair treatment and adverse effects of inferiority.

How do we attain a balance?

aalangel:
My dear colleague Freeze is beginning to bore me.

chiwetel:
Thanks,its clearer now.

Respect would also entail you accept her in all totality as well as understand why she yearns to be productive.

Gerrard59:


Nobody is saying men have to wash dishes, however, leaving dishes unwashed and even clothes for your partner to come and wash when you could do it isn't fair. Saying that a lady who comes from work late in the night to come and cook even when you came earlier than her is not fair. What stops the man from cooking and keeping some for his partner? This transcends beyond feminism, it's about doing to others as you want others to do to you.

Furthermore, feminism has helped the world and obliterated useless misconceptions and culture(s). Why should a lady have a male as a sponsor before she can rent an apartment because she's single? That's what feminism has done to help the society. It has given rights to my sister, nieces, female cousins and definitely my future daughter(s) to do things hitherto they weren't allowed to do or achieve. Saying that women have to put up with terms like "men are polygamous by nature"; which gives you the freewill to cheat isn't fair whatsoever.

Nevertheless, there are fanatics in any system or movement. However, feminism, whichever way you look at it has contributed to global development and advancement. It has given rights to those who don't have any, hope to the downtrodden, opportunities to those who didn't have any to grab, dreams to those who never had any, education to illiterates and many more.

I'm proud to be a feminist.

cr7lomo:



I will mark ur handle cos its certain that you are naturally dull so as the people that liked the nonsense u put up... I dnt even know how to start with u cos....u are just dumb

fellis:



You see all these men? They are all superior to you.
They are better than you and their lives have more value than yours.
The first is a theif, the second is a mass murderer and the third are three mentally unbalanced/lunatics in an insane asylum.

They are all superior to you dolly joy.






I didn't just insult you by the way, you said men will always be superior to women so I


wat am showing you pictures of different men that are superior to you.

cr7lomo:



I will mark ur handle cos its certain that you are naturally dull so as the people that liked the nonsense u put up... I dnt even know how to start with u cos....u are just dumb