Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,599 members, 7,837,251 topics. Date: Wednesday, 22 May 2024 at 08:01 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? (79796 Views)
Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend) / Worst Thing Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Has Ever Done? / Everyday Seeing Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by eldee(m): 12:38am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Krayola2: Pick carefully . . . choose the wrong one and u'll end up cuffed to a bed and robbed |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by chic2pimp(m): 12:39am On Sep 18, 2009 |
TOPE2000!:No be u talk say u dey gag? That definitely means my koboko is doing the job I paid it to do. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Krayola2(m): 12:39am On Sep 18, 2009 |
chic2pimp:haha. u don kolo! |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Sauron1: 12:40am On Sep 18, 2009 |
eldee: Yes o. . . . . . .I heard they are after Blackberry phones these days. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TOPE20001(f): 12:40am On Sep 18, 2009 |
chic2pimp: gag as in puking duh your koboko aint doing shyte b.t.w love-vendor evidence of what we argued abt: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-325213.0.html |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Krayola2(m): 12:42am On Sep 18, 2009 |
eldee: hahaha. Is that experience talkin? |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by eldee(m): 12:46am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Krayola2:Hehehe . . . nah, just word on the street ~Sauron~:Blackberry?? I heard that they take no prisoners . . . they even steal clothes and cards |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by chic2pimp(m): 12:50am On Sep 18, 2009 |
TOPE2000!:You and I know that was not what u meant. My koboko is working wonders jare. I reserve my comments until he tells us how long the thing is. He clearly said extra large. For all we know that might mean '20inches' Krayola2:Na wetin TOPE dey say for bed be dat ooo. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by tboyjnr(m): 1:31am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Heh, I avoid girls with your mentality, I love it when I take a girl out and we argue a little about who pays the bill, "pays for ur hair and clothes, nah wah oh, i hope you found that guy tho, |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TOYOSI20(f): 2:49am On Sep 18, 2009 |
how about just unconditional love and trust!! |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by chiogo(f): 2:58am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Totally disagree with the poster on most of her points. sheesh, it's just a boyfriend not a freaking fiance or husband. These are the type of girls who later complain about "cooking and cleaning for that asshole" and still getting their asses dumped. coulda saved yourself the hassle, abi who send you message? I'm not even done cleaning my own house, psh. Agree with Michellin89. Yes, guys like those "domestic" things but it doesn't mean he's not going to leave you for another chica who doesn't even do any sort of housework. It happens all the time, don't try too hard to impress is the whole point. who cares if he's a pig? not my job to clean up after anyone, too young wouldn't even have anything to do with such a person to begin with. like duh. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by denny4ril: 4:00am On Sep 18, 2009 |
ladies have a way of feeling that a lady need not be calling a man frequently and dat is why they end up losing their men to anoda lady. Uju take note and really need to read romance-gists for more romantic details. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Homonide: 4:45am On Sep 18, 2009 |
nice post, though i've got my reservations. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by tonyissey1(m): 6:51am On Sep 18, 2009 |
i partially agree wiv most of her b/f's duties depending on the schedule of the b/f anyways but paying for your hair and sponsoring your parties hell noooooo a guy wud do wat a guy ought to do at the rite time without being told so it is not a DUTY ok if the girl likes let her keep her hair for more than 6mths when its starts smelling she would take note its a lady's duty to look good and admirable even when my girl goes to do her hair and she looks sweet at times i ask her how much it cost her to look this good and i would appreciate her by refunding her the money which she sometimes REJECT. usu it would have been better you included in the g/f's duties that she takes the guy for a hair cut and pedicure and manicure and she pays for it EQUAL RIGHT AND JUSTICE. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 9:53am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Too strict commitments. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by LordReed(m): 10:10am On Sep 18, 2009 |
If u take a look at the antonyms of the word duty u will find out why this is not such a bad thing. For example Thesaurus.com reports the antonyms of duty as: disregard, irresponsibility, faithlessness, inconstancy, treachery I say this tells u alot about not doing these tins. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by arewabirin(f): 10:47am On Sep 18, 2009 |
[/font]i beliv we are meant to be there for each other, dat's just it, but deff. we both got roles to play, but it must not be a "DO OR DIE TIN" |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:24am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Nice arewa u read ma lip. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by modele2: 11:32am On Sep 18, 2009 |
Michellin89 thank you, thank you, thankyou U took the words right out of my mouth. Am i his maid? arrant nonsense!!! I never cooked, cleaned, or laundered for my hubby before we got married. I am positive he loves me for me and not my cooking, cleaning or laundry skills. He calls me the best thing that has ever happended to him. Thats why at the end girls feel cheated, 'after all i did for him blah blah blah, 'who sent u. pshewu |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by r231(m): 12:17pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
TOYOSI20: dats not in uju's dictionary,,,,,,,,,,,lol |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: I assumed people will look up the word in the dictionary before talking! TOYOSI20: r231: Now why would I want to comit myself to someone I dont love and trust |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Easybaby(f): 12:32pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too[/ You can say that again |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
chiogo: Well, nobody's forcing anybody to do anything and c'mon people do 'arranged' marriages. But if you dated your hubby for at least 3yrs b/4 marrying him, then u r a liar if you say you never cooked for him!! Personally, there's nothing I'll do for the man I'll marry that I wont do for my BF except have his children of course If marriage works out, okay, if it doesen't . . . at least I know he's done his own part too. You wont expect me to wash for a man who wont even come when I have a flat tire!! You know there's a difference between what you should do and what you have to do! |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by r231(m): 12:55pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Ujujoan: how long would take u to fig dat out,,,,,,,,have u heard of d saying YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE. Why should I be trying to make u happy, doing things for you and all u do is keep asking and don't do nothing |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
modele2: You act like its only the girls that feel cheated after the r/ship ends! Dont compare an arranged marriage to a marriage that came from a relationship!! So wat if your hubby thinks the world of you, does that make him love you anymore than most guys love their GFs? I have a friend whose BF does everything I listed and more for her. Theirs is a perfect relationship that does not have marrige in the picture. They are happy, they love each other. Husbands cheat on wives, but her BF will rather die than cheat on her! That's love!! That's a committed r/ship, that's what I mean by BF/GF. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by r231(m): 12:57pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Ujujoan: d man will get u a driver den u don't have to worry about the flat tire,,,,,,,,,,lol |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by jidealex: 12:59pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
the issue of ur b/f chilln n allowin someone toast u shouldnt be that conclusive,some guys lyk me av so much confidence in 'emselves n dont bother abt wat tha other is sayn cos eh knows that he's got all the tym to reconfig. tha gal's brain. |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by whitelexi(m): 1:00pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
modele2: Wait till he jams that busybody that will do those things and more for him, u will watch in awe how your possession will become another woman's in broad daylight At that stage, u will be able to differentiate between love and appreciation |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
r231: Why are you blabbing |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
jidealex: That was just an instance. The idea is that I should feel protected that someone special is beside me That incidence I mentioned happened with a guy I wasnt even dating. He was a 'chyker' and I followed him to a mutual friend's wedding. I mean how can you just remain passive when a fellow guy totally disregards you. Are you a weakling or what? It's just like allowing a girl, who I know is not related to my BF in anyway to sit in the front of his car when I'm going out wiv him. Even if she sat there before I came, I'll simply ask her to come down and go to the back. You dont flirt with my man when I'm dere . . I'll simply ask you to back off!! |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by r231(m): 1:24pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Ujujoan: I ON'T KWW |
Re: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by deezah(f): 1:28pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
This issue has been over flogged enough, methinks. Everyone has expressed their opinion, whether they made sense or not. Some even went away from the topic of discussion for a while, which I found rather refreshing, until some others yanked us back. Okay, everyone has his or her own way of dealing with his/her relationships. To each his/her own. Now, moving on, |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (Reply)
Nigerians Blast Young Lady Over Cucumber (photos) / She Shot Her Shot (and He Said Yes!) Pictures included / Husband Holding On To His Wife's Big Backside (Photo)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 51 |