. Wen will I meet caring guys like OP. Lol.

Olalan:
Really don't understand what's happening to most girls now, meet a stranger and you start singing the being broke tune, you can't even differentiate BTW the ones that truly need it and those who want to take advantage of guys.

It is very pathetic, aswerigod

agabaI23:
Thanks, anymore blessings from your stables?

See ehn, girls must see you as mugu material for her to have done that on the first date.

Take my advice, get some fake notes and keep them in your car. Whenever you meet such a girl again, give her the notes and as soon as she goes into the shop, drive off.

We will both see her on nairaland frontpage the next day.

Trust me

hahn:


See ehn, girls must see you as mugu material for her to have done that on the first date.

Take my advice, get some fake notes and keep them in your car. Whenever you meet such a girl again, give her the notes and as soon as she goes into the shop, drive off.

We will both see her on nairaland frontpage the next day.

Trust me

lol
I have overgrown such kinda behaviour. What wil I gain? I will like I am smart? I know I am smart I don't need to humiliate her to feel smart. That will be getting down to her level.

ros5:
. Wen will I meet caring guys like OP. Lol.

It appears you have been behaving like the girl in the pic and you have been meeting hahn? Ndo!

agabaI23:
It appears you have been behaving like the girl in the pic and you have been meeting hahn? Ndo!

. Lol. I pray o. Ndo nke gi.

steppin:

I give to people who are in need of help, not gold diggers.
From his story, the lady is clearly one.

What is the difference between someone who needs help and a gold digger?

u did the right thing o.p..... she will definitely regret her actions when she gets home....she has lost alot just for being selfish and stupid...

even in this buhari time..mugu still plenty for Lagos dey form super man and caring. .swerve : .ogbeni

Tunami:
why wont you find it very to hard to believe. Anyway am not surprised.

You guys come up with damning stories just to discredit the womenfolk.... Please change your mentality

nma24:
You guys come up with damning stories just to discredit the womenfolk.... Please change your mentality

just shut up if you don't know what to say. someone is saying the truth and you're talking trash.

ros5:
. Lol. I pray o. Ndo nke gi.

lol ook naa

nma24:
You guys come up with damning stories just to discredit the womenfolk.... Please change your mentality

You know my mother is a woman and I have sisters.
That you don't want the story to be true doesn't make it a lie. If you feel it is too bad to be true just know that's how bad it is and that is the reason i posted it here. Take heart OO nne. Inugo!

nma24:
You guys come up with damning stories just to discredit the womenfolk.... Please change your mentality

hmmmmmmmmm my dear, if i tell you my own encounter you would b ashamed of SOME of your female folks. it may sound strange to you cos you dont have the mind or your manners are far above those but trust me bitches are getting OVER AMBITIOUS.

BreakormakeupGi:
Kudos to you bro.

She will forever regret her attitude towards you.


..............but only if she have conscience shaa


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Lol

CindyeMerAld:
u did the right thing o.p..... she will definitely regret her actions when she gets home....she has lost alot just for being selfish and stupid...

Hmmmm, What can I say.

HungerBAD:


As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.
.

some female students are very independent and don't go about depending on guys for money... while some so called "working class" ladies are the real set with the MDS (man dependency syndrome) so I think it's an individual thing and how a lady values herself. Me personally, I'm a student and no guy under the surface of this earth can tell me "I got you this" or "she begged me for money" I don't accept birthday gifts I can't afford... I hate insults so I avoid it at all cost, especially when it comes to this kind of thing. And yes, I'm a student. So I think it's more of a personality thing.
If I can't afford it, then I have no business having it.
So incase a guy gets me a birthday gift amd starts feeling like he has some kind of entitlement towards me, ill simply throw your nonsense back at you.
This particular lady the OP is talking about seem to be a "packaged hungry girl"

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

You gave 3k to a roadside beggar, i believe your reward for heaven for better.

Someone you just met and you encouraged her with 3k to scam another broda another day. You no try. First day, no. If to say nah restaurant you go on a first date with her and spent 3k, its understandable.

CindyeMerAld:
u did the right thing o.p..... she will definitely regret her actions when she gets home....she has lost alot just for being selfish and stupid...

lol, people like that have no shame, she is not going to regret anything. To her the OP was just "bad business" unto the next victim, that's all!

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

girls are scam

the little 3k that this babe "won" is a victory to any broke begging desperate babes (yes, however small the handout may be), and you should have gotten rid of her as soon as she asked for money, not after.
it is every man's duty to TEACH such babes to ACT RIGHT, and that such miserable way of life is unacceptable.

OP e be like say u be nice man oooooooooo. Howuufar naw? I broke small na! Me no dey buy pevfumu o. Jez money to take do some little thini. Make I send account number?

schumastic:
u did not even wait for December to reach self before you start giving out cash, father Xmas

wicked

Hungry girls on the loose, na this type alhaji dey collect luck.

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

Mine is;

I met a girl I happened to fancy at Shoprite yesterday. She was actually ahead of me with some few meters, before I could meet up with her because she was rather walking too fast, she had driven off!

I followed her and managed to get her notice and we talked for about 5 mins while i was standing outside with her inside her vehicle. She wounded her car window that I could barely hear her, but was able to talk to her and convince her we hang out.

She agreed but on a premise that I buy her fuel as her vehicle is running low on it. I agreed! We drove back to Shoprite as agreed. Shockingly the first thing she asked before pleasantries was the money for fuel, that if I don't give her there won't be any point for us talking.

I was really taken aback and I told her outrightly that the money wasn't the problem but her unethical methods. I said I wasn't going to fall for that and I drove off!!

I was really going to give her that money for the fuel but somehow felt embarrassed by her methods!!

nairaman66:


Mine is;

I met a girl I happened to fancy at Shoprite yesterday. She was actually ahead of me with some few meters, before I could meet up with her because she was rather walking too fast, she had driven off!

I followed her and managed to get her notice and we talked for about 5 mins while i was standing outside with her inside her vehicle. She wounded her car window that I could barely hear her, but was able to talk to her and convince her we hang out.

She agreed but on a premise that I buy her fuel as her vehicle is running low on it. I agreed! We drove back to Shoprite as agreed. Shockingly the first thing she asked before pleasantries was the money for fuel, that if I don't give her there won't be any point for us talking.

I was really taken aback and I told her outrightly that the money wasn't the problem but her unethical methods. I said I wasn't going to fall for that and I drove off!!

I was really going to give her that money for the fuel but somehow felt embarrassed by her methods!!

dude, sadly you also have to look at your own methods, thinking it is "ok" to agree buying a gal fuel in order for her to give you any attention. you cant expect anyone to act RIGHT if/when you yourself dont.

So.... who lost? She got free money. U should have never given her that money. When i got out to lunch or something with a girl for the first time, she always pays for her food. Second date means that we are both serious, so then i pay. U just met her and don alrwady dey spray cash. Mr ATM. Dash me moni abeg.

MRBrownJ:


dude, sadly you also have to look at your own methods, thinking it is "ok" to agree buying a gal fuel in order for her to give you any attention. you cant expect anyone to act RIGHT if/when you yourself dont.

Dude I was going to do it, but not on her own terms! It was all a ploy by her and I fell for it.. But she doesn't have to use that as a yardstick for a conversation!

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

That's totally a misconception. Maybe she thought you're a wussy.

A woman that loves you will not behave like that. She was totally insane, so to speak.

Naughtysite:


You gave 3k to a roadside beggar, i believe your reward for heaven for better.

Someone you just met and you encouraged her with 3k to scam another broda another day. You no try. First day, no. If to say nah restaurant you go on a first date with her and spent 3k, its understandable.

Did she really scam me? I could have said no to her. Lol

DeeTus:

That's totally a misconception. Maybe she thought you're a wussy.

A woman that loves you will not behave like that. She was totally insane, so to speak.

You may be correct but then you really talk about love after a chance meeting. May be like..

chiefojiji:
OP e be like say u be nice man oooooooooo. Howuufar naw? I broke small na! Me no dey buy pevfumu o. Jez money to take do some little thini. Make I send account number?

Mr nice guy abi?