agabaI23:
Did she really scam me? I could have said no to her. Lol

She didn't scam you . You gave her simply because you wished to. She wasn't the smart one.

Ur a fool...a very big one

HungerBAD:
You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

Haba hungerbad, female students kwa?


You are spoiling things for those of us that are genuine na

HungerBAD:
You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

THE FIRST TIME YOU EVER MADE SENSE ON NL

Don't regret it cos na guy like u bought SUV for a girl in this Naija that make a Uganda babe to quit her boyfriend.

southernbelle:



with just your look, all these happened in your mind eh?

no be lie. It happens like that...

agabaI23:
lol
I have overgrown such kinda behaviour. What wil I gain? I will like I am smart? I know I am smart I don't need to humiliate her to feel smart. That will be getting down to her level.

don't use that word with your name plzzz

Swissheart:
She didn't scam you . You gave her simply because you wished to. She wasn't the smart one.

Abi oo. Hopefully she go get sense.

My dear its only in Nigeria you will see such stupid and foolish,idiotic behavior.In other climes a girl pays her bills when you take her out unless you insist you will pay would she allow you do that for her. That is the more reason why you see many of them stranded without any serious relationship because all the guys are wiser instead they play the go-as-you pay lotto.

Arinze86:
Ur a fool...a very big one

Hmmmm, thanks for your effort but im not a fool sha

macotrading72:
well I don't know what you call swag because I would have done the exact same thing, give her the money and block her ass from reaching me no more.

Why will you give her money?

Hey my guy u don f...up u dash olosho money and u no bang her


U for wash her say u don lodge to relax after the swimmin dats gonna burst her brain girls like lodging

3k I fo don bang her taya before we swim the point is you for no give am money don't ever help a girl cos its just waste

Unless u ave banged her before u can help any girl

Fedayeen02:
don't use that word with your name plzzz

Ok put all of it close to your name alone bro if that will make you happy.

poweredcom:
Hey my guy u don f...up u dash olosho money and u no bang her


U for wash her say u don lodge to relax after the swimmin dats gonna burst her brain girls like lodging

3k I fo don bang her taya before we swim the point is you for no give am money don't ever help a girl cos its just waste

Unless u ave banged her before u can help any girl

lol really? It is all about banging?

...and if a guy had asked you for 1k, you would have prefered to buy him bear instead...i wish d girl had collected 30k from u.

Eiyaaa! U shouldn't ve done that when it wasn't you that invited her to shop.. Well just let that go u re a Big Boy n more than de 3k.. Some babes sef

I think inviting her to swim on a first date or meeting is way too intimate that's why she in her low mind set decided to make some cash out of it... which was wrong.. I remember going to swim and as I came out in my swim suit... the guys inthe pool became so nice and were so eager to teach me... I had a good laugh as I stayed away from them.. i wouldn't go swimming on a first outing with a guy.

It seems most girls in Nigeria have turned to scammer, I met a girl, the next day I visited her, the next thing she said was that she didn't feel like eating the food they prepared for her at home, she said she wants to get something to eat at a supermarket and I followed her, she got biscuits and big coke, I brought out money to pay bt she quickly paid, on getting to her house she told me she didn't feel like eating the biscuits and the coke again, to cut the long story short, not until I bought suya for her that night o, the next night wen I called her she said she wanted Pizza or Shawamah, that was how I stopped calling her, imagine a lady that av nt even ask out.

I really like your action.u displayed discipline and maturity. Ladies nowadays can do anything just to extort money from men unknowingly to them that men has stepped up their game n become wiser.I pity my fellow ladies cos I am one.God help our generation.

cazchukwu:
So.... who lost? She got free money. U should have never given her that money. When i got out to lunch or something with a girl for the first time, she always pays for her food. Second date means that we are both serious, so then i pay. U just met her and don alrwady dey spray cash. Mr ATM. Dash me moni abeg.

So you ask a girl out and she still has to pay for her food?

Nigga smh

The moment you handed her money she begins to think you atm, that's where they get it all wrong. Most of them with without brain don't even know that for you to hand her 3k you probably have multiples of that to spare ,and that by you giving her 3k is not a show of weakness but kindness.

I like the op.. Some gals can fall hand ehh

agabaI23:
Ok put all of ot close to your name alone bro.

i got scared looking at your face with the story you are spewing here.so you look like this and you ve been sitting on igbo matter since last week.



Nsogbu di na ebea

hahn:


It's all good but you shouldn't have given her the cash sha but I understand your position.

I fit see 50k for there?

Send your account number sharpish

agabaI23:
lol really? It is all about banging?

See never trust any naija babe wey eye don tear they are all olosho and Bleep material until u Bleep dem dey won't play with your mind

Imagine wat 3k will do for this guy one yeye gal don dupe am he was lame

Yesterday I bang a babe last Monday also anoda with Mouth Gig n doggy total na 3k I spend

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

hommie don't listen to these niggas ...u balled Kobe on the bîtch like a classic man ...I respect u for that ..cus I would do the same thing too

niggi4life:
BRO, SOMETIMES ITS NOT ABOUT SEX, THE WAY A GIRL WILL BEG U FOR MONEY AT TIMES WILL MAKE YOUR PENIS TO FALL

Thanks

amokeme:
some female students are very independent and don't go about depending on guys for money... while some so called "working class" ladies are the real set with the MDS (man dependency syndrome) so I think it's an individual thing and how a lady values herself. Me personally, I'm a student and no guy under the surface of this earth can tell me "I got you this" or "she begged me for money" I don't accept birthday gifts I can't afford... I hate insults so I avoid it at all cost, especially when it comes to this kind of thing. And yes, I'm a student. So I think it's more of a personality thing.
If I can't afford it, then I have no business having it.
So incase a guy gets me a birthday gift amd starts feeling like he has some kind of entitlement towards me, ill simply throw your nonsense back at you.
This particular lady the OP is talking about seem to be a "packaged hungry girl"

That's my darling!!! I will soon come proposing

It is your type that will find giving #500 to a beggar as too much,well na we guyz way.

Fortunately or unfortunately, majority of Nigerian girls and ladies (working class or student class) survive from begging guys directly and indirectly.

I read someone said he prefers dating working class ladies, I laugh in Greek hehe ....working class ladies are the most greedy insatiable ladies in Nigeria! Their own demanding is first class....flight ticket, MBA school fee, this and that, and some even demand for car, house if they notice that you have the money. Ladies of our time are really not encouraging at all!

I still wonder why Nigerian ladies labor to go to school, secure job and still end up begging and collecting money and material things from men yet they demand gender equality.

Some guys will think dating rich ladies like Linda Ikeji will save them from spending on ladies...hehe....Linda type don't demand naira, they demand for pounds and dollars and they can't even reply a hello from any guy who isn't popular or well-loaded financially, so they are all the same, sadly

amokeme:
some female students are very independent and don't go about depending on guys for money... while some so called "working class" ladies are the real set with the MDS (man dependency syndrome) so I think it's an individual thing and how a lady values herself. Me personally, I'm a student and no guy under the surface of this earth can tell me "I got you this" or "she begged me for money" I don't accept birthday gifts I can't afford... I hate insults so I avoid it at all cost, especially when it comes to this kind of thing. And yes, I'm a student. So I think it's more of a personality thing.
If I can't afford it, then I have no business having it.
So incase a guy gets me a birthday gift amd starts feeling like he has some kind of entitlement towards me, ill simply throw your nonsense back at you.
This particular lady the OP is talking about seem to be a "packaged hungry girl"

So true, thanks for this comment