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Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Gluthatione: 10:48am On Sep 15, 2016 |
Huston1:With all what u said here , you marry a good wife, all u need to do is to work on her.Take for instance about the cooking since u don't come home late , u can assist her in d kitchen sometimes, if u are a good cook that is a bonus, u can show her how thing is being done, with that u will get over it. Let me share the experience of a man with similar experience, i use to go to church early but no matter how fast I am I will always meet him and d family in d church despite that they were living very far,the man told me that since the time he married his wife she that she is somehow slow in doing things and they usually late to the church, he said since then , has been assisting his wife and on Sunday they don't cook anything they just get bread and tea prepare on Sunday morning before going to church and since then ,they have been coming early to church. So my brother don't let me bore u with words, work with her I'm sure with time she will get better. cheers 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 15, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: SMH! 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by bukatyne(f): 12:20pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
damiso: Beautiful @Huston1 I hope you find an amicable solution. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by bukatyne(f): 12:21pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: I absolutely agree with the bolded. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Katier00(f): 1:07pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Huston1:op don't you have a freezer . help her make soup and stew during the weekend, then it will be easy for you guys. the day you want rice, she will just boil rice and warm the stew or make semo and warm soup. your can even cook beans and store in the freezer. I know she doesn't have a white collar job but house chores and kids requires a lot of strength too. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:43pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Huston1: Why are you even asking us again? You did something that worked. Why not enforce it on a permanent basis? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by crackhaus: 3:50pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
This man hasn't divorced his wife yet? This is just preposterous 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by chachazzy(m): 8:16pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Op, this is the ultimate solution, trust me, it will work like Hogwart magic. Tell her you want to get a second wife that will be helping her with the kitchen work since the stress is too much on her. You can pass the message through her friend. Bingo!!! Problem solved. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Dyt(f): 11:56pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Me I am sha wondering where the OP has been Does that mean he hasn't eaten dinner in the last 2days? [sub][/sub] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jashar(f): 8:13am On Sep 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: You sef, every small thing 'divorce,divorce'. Haba!!! How many wives you go get for this life? Except you don't plan on getting married. Which is fine. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by crackhaus: 12:58pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
jashar:I just can't stand any form of abuse, I like my peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jashar(f): 1:24pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: so, late cooking na abuse? Guy nwayo nwayo ooooo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by crackhaus: 1:44pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
jashar:It's abuse oo. Who leaves a wife at home all day, only to get back from work and find nothing to eat? Is she mad? 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Berbierklaus(f): 3:18pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
bukatyne:Everyone(wives) should learn to be hospitable it is not rocket science 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jashar(f): 4:31pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: oya, no vex. You go marry better wife. She wee take care of you well. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by nautybride: 4:58pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
No one is ever perfect, please bear it o! That is your cross. While I was growing, we eat at most 9pm almost everyday of the week. Personally, I disliked it, so when I am opportuned to cook, by 7pm, I am done. That 's what I do in my home now. I hate cooking at night. If my hubby doesn't decide what he wants on time, he will end up cooking his food himself. Back to the matter, join her in the kitchen or cook yourself especially when you get home early. If you cook together for three months, she might adjust. I hope it doesn't sound like a punishment. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by crackhaus: 5:45pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
jashar:Thank you baby |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jashar(f): 9:28pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by achieverme(m): 9:39pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
oyomii: Thank you lady. You "spoke" my mind. The problem is if somebori says he wants to meet u now, u will be telling somebori no no no. Why is that sef? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by achieverme(m): 9:40pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
Huston1: I think the take away solution will be the best. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by achieverme(m): 9:50pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
Bisjosh: You cuming for me? Hulalala! I love the sound of that. Well, I am patiently waiting for you as cum for me Hope your own mummy used to cook very early sha? I mean I Dont wanna have no pot belly |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jorgzy(m): 10:56am On Sep 17, 2016 |
Lmaoo... |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Nobody: 3:53pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
crackhaus: you are too much |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by jorgzy(m): 5:05pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
Bro I condemn your patience, oh sorry, commend your patience... But really I'd advice you to focus on "the" other amazing qualities of your wife. Coz based on what you've said, you have a great wife who is loyal, who adores you and complements you in other aspects except for the fact that she doesn't seem to have the ability to getting herself to grease your tummy on time. You should however recognize that this is only a disability which you can reconfigure into an ability(to an extent) by changing a few things about your attitude towards this situation. Bro, have you forgotten? Man shall not live by bread alone, ok? (Lol) Having said this, I'd like you to accept the fact that you as a person can never(read my lips,"never" truly change anyone. It is only God who can change her. Therefore, I'd advice you to pray about it (you can even observe a fast sef, if you know say the matter don reach you for neck), believe God has answered your prayers, then keep thanking God for the beautiful change in your wife's attitude for at least seven days after your prayer. Then do these things am going to tell you now. 1). When you come back from work, buy her a gift which necessarily doesn't need to be expensive, but should be something you know she likes and would appreciate. Then proceed to tell her why you bought her the gift... Tell am say you enjoy her food the previous night and that it came earlier than you expected, thus, your reason for appreciating her with this little gift. Do this diligently for 30days consecutively and watch what happens. 2). Don't complain about this aspect of her personality to anyone or n.landers again. 3). Prepare yourself for the night: That is, tell iya sikira to prepare that concoction for you, yes, agbo jedi, opa-eyin, afato, mokole etc. Make you don dey drink am for like two weeks before you start this parole. Then proceed to satisfying her on bed almost every night, yes, lick&suck her plate till it foams with pleasure before proceeding to washing it with your natural member. ( Az in you gaz dey give am madt sex for like 2weeks steady,even while she dey delay 4 d kitchen sef, make you send d kids go play,sharpaly do am quickie or suck her breast or puna even when una know say d kids fit catch una for action). This new excitement go give am some kind adrenaline wey be say you no go understand how food go dey quick done 4 pot, coz she go wan do sharp sharp make d action continue 4 inside room. And when una don enta room ehn, hammer am like say na d last time wey you go see am hammer be that. P.s : Make sure you don't get into arguments with her no matter how much she annoys you. Even if she thinks you're being sarcastic, make her see that you understand she has been making efforts and you appreciate her for listening to you and trying to be a better wife and mother. and of course this must be after you have sat her down and talked sense into her head(you fit warn am sef say na d last time wey you go talk to am about d matter,say na action remain now). Then you must show her that her efforts are paying off by satisfying her more, emotionally and sexually. Because, I no go lie you bro, it aint easy being a wife. One kid is already a handful not to talk of two or three. Bros you must dey praise am everyday for the work wey she dey do and the one she no do. Abeg make I put fullstop for here before this tin turn to epistle. Anyway, me I just dey give my advice based on inspired thought sha, e go good make you ruminate on am and everything wey everybody don talk for here, then listen to your heart coz na you know where you go fit perform better, we no fit sabi how the homefront be fully, except for this picture wey you don paint for all of us to see. I wish you the best in your marriage bro, abeg no allow the devil use this kain small matter scatter your home wey others de envy o. Some people dey beg God for the kind wife wey you get dem no see... If she no come sabi cook at all nko? Wetin you go do?. Bro abeg lockup for the devil o, no one is perfect. Embrace her imperfections with all joy!!! Peace! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by mypains: 9:17pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
LOL. I am just trying to imagine myself in this kind of situation, honestly. me that hate being hungry? I do not joke with my stomach. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by crackhaus: 2:56pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
jagugu88li:Thenkyu 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Amandachisom: 5:30pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
So Oga I hope you enjoyed the bashing your wife has received. You could sit her down and talk to her but no you decided to talk to these ones who take pleasure in running people down. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by diva90: 6:29pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
Huston1: Your wife needs to readjust her timing or get a maid that will assist her. My guess is that she goes to bed late , wakes up early to prepare break fast for you and the kids and goes back to bed when u all have left the house. Maybe by the time she wakes up, it's around 3pm , then she starts to cook and clean. I just can't understand why it takes her that long, normal cooking even if na soup shouldn't take more than 2/3 hours max. She needs to start preparing dinner at 12 noon since it literally takes her forever to have the meal ready. I can't bring in the issue of laziness because she seems hardworking just knowing that she cooks and cleans everyday and without a maid to help. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by diva90: 6:47pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
deity: Yes that's another way. I grew up seeing my mother do the same and I do same as well. I cook in large quantities and save. When ready to eat, warm and dish. Unless OP is a fresh food man who must have his meals cooked everyday... Some men are like that. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by Huston1: 10:11pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
I sincerely appreciate you guys. I took the good advise and suggestions and it is working. It is the 4th day after I tried out somethings and it is working. Inhabe had dinner before 7pm for 4 straight days. I know my wife isnt going back to night meals. We are happy and for the 4th day, it has been romatic evenings. Thanks N.landers 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by winkmart: 10:13pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
Maybe you married my wife... she is not yours |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Work Yet Dinner Is Never Ready Before 9pm by HMZi: 10:16pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
Send am go village sharply,she simply needs re-orientation..wtf? I married ur ass to get my meals on time... |
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