skarlett:
Romance section and people that don't like reading sha

Add low attention-span to that list.

This is really an insightful article Michael. Thats one of the formula long lasting partners say they use in their relationships, a little distance doesn't hurt.

Thanks.

sinaj:
There is no manual for having a good relationship. The tips that works for Mr A might not work for Mr B.


Just pray nd hope for a partner with a good heart.

Dazall, the sooner everyone realizes this, the better.

But all the same nice piece. Bro.

dingbang:
The saying, what works for A, may not work for B is not applicable to this write up.



Sinaj take note.



Darkrebel101 the write up Is magnificient!

It is applicable... You should understand that the makeup of each individual is very different!... The fact that a lil distance will work for you doesn't mean it will work for another couple with a totally different chemistry.

Hi flawless miss @Nkaytiana

SmellingAnus shud see this...

cc: Lleigh

yes, true, bt can u practice wat ure preaching??

skarlett:
Romance section and people that don't like reading sha

This is really an insightful article Michael. That's one of the formula long lasting partners say they use in their relationships, a little distance doesn't hurt.

It is quite insightful but he should tone down on the grammar

Cc: DarkRebel101:

QueenSuccubus:



I think I can relate to the message of this thread.. Lemme read back again later ...

Boo Op is right... I like the write up...

alright. but someone somewhere opened a thread about people who are too busy for their partner. I guess this post cures the problem.

I love this post op...

SmellingAnus:
Boo Op is right... I like the write up...

Me too..


So, do u like long distance relationships as well boo?

QueenSuccubus:




Me too..


So, do u like long distance relationships as well boo?

hahaha... I prefer long distance friend... Long distance relationship is too complicated for my liking.. However the op is also saying that people in relationship should learn to give each other space sometimes which I perfectly agree with...

PrettyClare7:
alright. but someone somewhere opened a thread about people who are too busy for their partner. I guess this post cures the problem.

I love this post op...

Thanks, ma'am.

SmellingAnus:
hahaha... I prefer long distance friend... Long distance relationship is too complicated for my liking.. However the op is also saying that people in relationship should learn to give each other space sometimes which I perfectly agree with...

LDR is truly complicated one boo.. It's too risky actually and all u have to give is ur word and trust.. I won't give up til I find the guy I wanna spend the rest of my life with..

I don't care how far he is, I will go sail and find him

QueenSuccubus:



LDR is truly complicated one boo.. It's too risky actually and all u have to give is ur word and trust.. I won't give up til I find the guy I wanna spend the rest of my life with..

I don't care how far he is, I will go sail and find him

I support you boo... You will surely find him next year

SmellingAnus:
I support you boo... You will surely find him next year

Yes! I hope that 2017 will be so fruitful for both of us boo

DarkRebel101:


It crashed because distance was not balanced with intimacy and closeness. The two must always work hand in glove.

It takes a great deal of maturity and forbearance to make a long-distance relationship work. I know some people who have done it successfully but I still don't think it's the ideal form of relationship. Long-distance relationships are studded with so many uncertainties and are very much subject to Murphy's Law which states that if there's even a fragment of chance that something can go wrong, then it would eventually go wrong.

And being in the same city rules out any chance of something going wrong?

I beg to disagree bro.

DarkRebel101:


It's not in anyway encouraging long-distance relationship, but that we should allow for some little pockets of distance [occasionally] to keep our relationships from growing cold.

When you visit Nairaland everyday there's the every tendency that it will eventually grow drab and that you'll get bored of it. But stay off Nairaland for two weeks or two months and you would be itching to log in because the distance you've created must have sparked a new interest and curiosity in you. You catch the drift?

once I loose touch with a person via call or chats for 2days, I start loosing interest in dat person. That's why I typed that d xme principle can't b applied to evrione.

sinaj:
once I loose touch with a person via call or chats for 2days, I start loosing interest in dat person. That's why I typed that d xme principle can't b applied to evrione.

If you begin to lose interest in someone after a 2-day lapse in communication then it can only mean two things:

1.) You never liked him in the first place.

2.) You aren't mentally mature enough to be in a relationship.

davide470:
It is quite insightful but he should tone down on the grammar

Cc: DarkReb.el101:

**clears throat**

TheRealestGuy:
And being in the same city rules out any chance of something going wrong?
I beg to disagree bro.

But the chances of something going wrong are slimmer in close-knit relationships. Surely you can't disagree with that.

REIIGN:


**clears throat**

I see the unvoiced innuendo.

DarkRebel101:


I see the unvoiced innuendo.

There has never been a more pūssy-whipped mod on NL. Even Tony Umez has more self control.

DarkRebel101,

you are so on point!

As the saying goes, too much familiarity breeds contempt.

sinaj:
There is no manual for having a good relationship. The tips that works for Mr A might not work for Mr B.

Just pray nd hope for a partner with a good heart.

Now I couldn't have said this better.

Mindfulness:
DarkRebel101,

you are so on point!

As the saying goes, too much familiarity breeds contempt.

Thus, the saying: "the more you show your face in your friend's house, the more he despises you".

But that is not always the case.

joseph1832:
Thus, the saying: "the more you show your face in your friend's house, the more he despises you".

But that is not always the case.

I don't know if that is always the case but there is only one person in this world I can be around 24/7 and that is me. Everyone else, abeg, give me a break every now and then.

Mindfulness:


I don't know if that is always the case but there is only one person in this world I can be around 24/7 and that is me. Everyone else, abeg, give me a break every now and then.

Now again, that's among the primary reason why relationship fail, selfishness.

I can totally related to this thread

But we will be United soon, can't wait

joseph1832:
Now again, that's among the primary reason why relationship fail, selfishness.

So I am selfish for wanting some time by myself and you are not selfish because you want your significant other to be available to you all the time?

Mindfulness:


So I am selfish for wanting some time by myself and you are not selfish because you want your significant other to be available to you all the time?

Not necessarily. The goal is to always be together. Be it physically, spiritually or otherwise.

Communication is key.